i'm very good at getting people to imagine what you can have without me saying it
out loud without making any promises now... Welcome back to Neemah Speaks a place where I empower women
throughout the diaspora. Remember; "don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty?
you might not marry a girl just because she's pretty but my goodness doesn't it help?" with your
host Neemah Speaks. Hey lovelies welcome back to Neemah Speaks today I wanted to come back
and talk about The Art of Dark Femininity because the reality is that
being nice is for losers! that's how I see it so we're going to talk about what is dark femininity,
how to tap into your dark femininity, the power of dark femininity and why
you need dark femininity in your life. As always if you're a sensitive person
this video is not for you because we're gonna be talking about some things that majority of people
think are manipulative and mean. I gave you a warning. Please don't watch today's video. let's go
women need to be able to balance out their light femininity
to their dark femininity i know that i am part of the problem that usually i talk
mostly about light femininity but i think today we're gonna learn about dark femininity and its
valuable importance in your life. Now the first thing that you gotta understand about
femininity either,r it's light or dark. It's all about playing with desire and dark femininity
does this exceptionally well now desire is a double-edged sword we have to be 100 true here
desire is a double-edged sword so what exactly do I mean that dark femininity is all about playing
with desire for example have you ever flirted in your life? you may be like Neemah what! Flirting
is a part of dark femininity? Now ladies hear me out and understand when I say dark femininity
it doesn't all have to be bad. Why is flirting a part of dark femininity? Because you are playing
with desire. Flirting is all about sending a signal to get exactly what you want. I'm teaching you so
you can be aware of dark femininity. So when it comes to flirting ladies let's be real. Have you
ever flirted your way out of paying for something? have you ever flirted so you can get your way? if
you have ever flirted for your own benefit then you have tapped into your dark femininity. It's
as simple as that. So the first important point that you have to understand about dark femininity
is all about playing with desire i personally love to flirt out of the method that i'm going to
be talking about today flirting is my favorite one because it's very playful and easy going
since this is dark femininity flirting can get very dark very quickly one thing that
worked for me very well is my smile i have been told that when i have my true smile when i give
out my true smile people find it i guess mesmerizing i i think it's weird but people
love my smile over the years i have learned that my smile is one of the things that helped me flirt
mastering the art of playing with desire that tap into that lita goddess that little goddess
inside of you that's gonna help you get what you want play with lust play with what you have to
get where you are for example if you have pretty privilege go ahead play with your pretty privilege
that's the part of dark femininity i have a baby face i use my baby face i don't care what nobody
else says it's something that i have it's my advantage i use it to my advantage it is what
it is and that's a part of dark femininity so again the first point and the first trait per
se or characteristic of dark femininity is all about mastering the art of playing with desire
if you have ever flirted in your life you have tapped into your dark femininity
the second way to tap into your dark femininity if you cannot flirt to save your life is using
your sexual appeal to get and attract what you want now some of you might be rolling your eyes
and say nema seriously yes i said dark femininity for a reason when i talk about tapping into your
sexuality what exactly am i talking about i'm talking about let's say that john from down the
cubicle you need to ask john a favor as ladies we know our best angle we know what outfit when
we wear we get the most attention we know where this to get that we as ladies we know these things
you may be in denial but cis we are here to be honest let's be real so what do we ladies most
of the time do if you're tapped into your dark femininity you would wear on your red lipstick
wear that cute dress with your nice pair of heels and go to john and ask for that favor and you know
that john is not gonna resist john cannot say no he cannot help himself he's gonna do whatever it
is you just ask them to do is it ethical i don't know is it mean i don't know that's for you to
figure out but that's another way for you to tap into your dark femininity in order to get what
you want because most of the time as ladies we sometimes like to think we are at disadvantage
all the time but the truth is that that's not really true so again the second way for you to
tap into your dark femininity is to use your sexual appeal i have to put this disclaimer
out there that be cautious when you're using this this can turn dark very quickly do not abuse this
too too much now i love dark femininity i use the dark femininity majority of the time
i'm more in tune with my light femininity because i can get what i want using my light femininity
most of the time there are those old times that i have to tap into my dark femininity and do what i
gotta do but one of the things that you gotta be careful when you're using your sexual appeal is
that don't be a tease now nobody like a tease i'm gonna be the one to admit it that i'm very good at
getting people to imagine what you can have without me saying it out loud
without making any promises now here is where it's very tricky and that's why when you master
your dark femininity this will come easy what exactly am i saying i have this ability to put
things into people's imagination without really saying it out loud if you don't know what i'm
talking about to go watch my video on how to be spoiled i kind of explain it more in details where
i don't promise people anything because i think you become unethical when you're promising
people things and then you don't deliver deal with this information what you want
the third way for you to tap into your dark femininity is being a damsel in distress now
ladies and gentlemen most of you might think that being a damsel in distress that's more into your
light femininity some components yes they are but the psychology part of being a damsel in distress
that's dark femininity now the one thing that you ladies need to understand about dark femininity is
when you using your dark femininity you are very calculated you want things to happen
you want to get things done and you're gonna get it done by any means necessary that's
dark femininity that's why it's called dark if you use it too much you're gonna be corrupted i'm just
gonna tell you the truth but the third way for you to tap into your dark femininity is being a damsel
in distress so maybe like nima what exactly does that mean do you mean that i need to be hopeless
no the psychology about being drums in distress is you understand the power of a woman in need most
people want to say that men and women are equal we think the same blah blah blah blah but your truth
of the reality is that we don't think the same men they're the predator in a sense right they like
to seem helpful they like to be in control per se and they love just enjoying being helpful this is
another thing that i have used so many times in my life being a damsel in distress is understanding
that even though that you can do something by yourself why not allowing somebody else to do it
why not you stepping back okay putting yourself in position where somebody else can help you
now being damsel in distress and tapping into dark femininity using this way it does not work
if you're not feminine if you're not tapped into your light femininity this one won't work you
cannot be a damsel in distress if you're masculine it just doesn't work out because the reality is
that the opposite attract and one of the things that i learned so far and i have been noticing
about men is they have this big ego why men love [ __ ] in that video i talked about stroke men
ego if it means that they're gonna give you what you want and some people say why should
i do that why do i have to stroke their ego ladies feminine women they play the long game for me also
in life i have been taught i don't play checkered i play chess i want to be mate [ __ ] that's how i
think in order for you to be able to tap into your dark femininity is you gotta see the goal when you
are being a damsel in distress hear me out being a damsel in distress is not you being clingy if
you're clingy that is not dark femininity that means that you're just a miserable person and you
need to cut that ish out the third most important way for you to tap into your dark femininity is
using your damsel in distress trust me on this one it work like a charm if you are struggling you
want things to get done you want to get your way become am damsel in distress it works every time
and it deems in distress for me i have become so good at it that not only does it work on men but
it also works on women especially masculine women i know now we have so many masculine women so
i use my dms in distress my dark femininity on both genders i do not discriminate
i sound like a psychopath but i'm gonna tell you the truth i do not discriminate it is what it is
what are some positive things about dark femininity i know after i told you how to
tap into your dark femininity it might seem as though this is so manipulative and it's so dark
and it's so much work but it has some positive side and one of the thing is that being able to
balance out your light femininity it's extremely important as asked ladies in order to not be a
pushover you need to tap into your dark femininity from times to times you need to put your foot down
you need to go ahead and get what you want you cannot always just sit back relax and wait for
things to be done for you sometimes you need to go out there and get exactly what it is you want
and that's where dark femininity come into play dark femininity allows you to express
yourself and get exactly what you want the second positive thing about dark femininity
is it help you at any given situation and it helps get you what you want i have flirted my way
into things and I have flirted my ways out of things. I have been a damsel in distress on purpose
because there's no shame in my game. I'm gonna tell you the truth. I have been a damsel in distress
when I see fit. If you ladies would like i can definitely do an in-depth video about
being a damsel in distress. What to do. what not to do. how not to come out clingy and all of that
good stuff. But again remember, dark femininity is not bad as long as you don't use it all the time
once you're using your dark femininity all the time you will become predictable. The charm about
dark femininity won't work anymore. I just wanted to explain what exactly is dark femininity; how to
tap into your dark femininity and what are some positive using your dark femininity. As always if you
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