Hello.
Welcome to a brand new presentation talking about what to say when flirting with a girl
part 2.
The reason why I'm doing a part 2 is because you said that you want more.
If you go and see the comments on what to say when flirting with the girl part 1, you're
going to see a lot of people saying I want more because I asked at the end of it if you
wanted to see more.
There was an overwhelming response, hundreds of comments from you guys asking for more
verbal flirting lines, which I'm going to give you today because you so nicely requested.
Let's talk about first my secret tip to flirting.
What I want you to do is I want you to check out a blog post called Crash Test Dummies
For Flirting, where you're going to learn more about how to flirt with a woman and how
it works.
In this presentation, I'm going to be giving you just a few of the lines and explaining
to you how it works, why it works and afterward, I want you to check out the blog at trippadvice.com/blog.
I'll put a little annotation on the screen for you to check out the crash test dummies
for flirting blog post.
It's going to help you out a lot.
One of the reasons why I make a video on this because I could easily make this into a blog
post.
This could be a blog post, give you the lines, you can use them and be on your way.
Here's the thing.
You need to know how to deliver the line.
If you noticed on the last video, and you're going to notice on this video, that there's
a specific way to deliver the line.
There's a specific way you use your tonality to deliver the line and that's going to be
a big concept in flirting.
Tonality is the way that you're going to move your voice in terms of how you say the words
that's going to make it sound flirty.
If you don't do it right or you don't, I should say stress the correct words or enunciate
the correct words in the sentence, it's not going to go right.
That's one thing you have to understand about flirting and why it's so important.
That's basically flirting.
What's the point?
The point of flirting is to get her attracted to you.
Flirting is, like I said, it's the mating dance.
It's teasing the girl, it’s complimenting the girl.
There's gonna be a lot of good compliments, direct compliments to that.
I'll be putting that in this video in a minute.
You got to understand that this is the dance that's going to make her want you more.
You need to say these lines and you need to make sure that you're doing it with the right
tonality.
Another thing is, a lot of guys, they have asked me, why does this video have to be so
long?
Why spend 10 minutes or however long in a video that just has six little lines?
You have to understand why these lines work, I go through each line and explain why that
work.
The reason is because I don't want you to steal these lines.
I mean, go ahead, use them, steal them, whatever you got to do.
But if you really want to get good at being flirtatious, charming, and being authentic,
you're going to take the concepts and the lines that I'm giving you here, and be able
to come up with the ones that you come up with on your own.
You want to come up with ones that work as effectively, that make you charming individual.
It's not just about the lines, but it's about how you use them and understanding why they
work so well.
Two parts to flirting as you know, verbal and physical.
So you get a better understanding of what flirting is, today we're talking about verbal.
“Your eyes are out of this world.”
This is a good one.
What's the idea behind this?
We're working with a compliment here.
This is a direct compliment.
If you've watched a lot of my videos, you know I'm a big fan of going direct.
I don't like to play too many games.
I like to play in the idea of desire, making a woman knows that you desire her, making
her feel good, giving her those butterflies, making her blush.
That's a great strategy to get a woman attracted to you.
Of course, it's one of the best authentic ways to do it because you believe it.
With this one, don't just say that her eyes are out of this world if you don't believe
it, or you don't mean it.
Say it if you do.
This is a great way to use a compliment.
You could use this line in a words direction.
You could have said, you have beautiful eyes, which is not bad.
That's not that bad.
I want you to get creative with the way that you speak to people, you’re eyes are out
of this world.
It's so much sexier saying something like that.
It's way more unique.
She's not going to hear something like this a lot.
What can you come up with?
That's going to be a little bit different, tweaking things a little bit differently than
the normal type of lines that you usually hear.
That's the concept behind this one.
The next one, “you're not like every other girl are you?”
Listen to how I say this.
You're doing it in a way where, as I'm saying, I'm actually smiling.
You can almost hear the smile on my voice.
You're like confused, but you're also curious.
Mostly you're shocked that you've met a girl like her.
That's so different.
The reason why this one works so well is because what you're doing is you're letting her know
that she's special.
Girls want to feel special.
They want to feel unique.
Instead of saying to a girl, you're unique, or you're special, and saying a girl she’s
special might be taken in the wrong context, you're going to say something like this, you're
not like every other girl, are you?
She might say something like, why is that?
Then you gotta have a reason for why you're saying that.
Something that is unique about her, so you got to figure that out.
The next one is, “why do you smell so amazing?”
Again, we're using the same concept here, of turning around the words.
You could say to a girl, you smell amazing.
You smell terrific.
I love the perfume you're wearing, I love the lotion you're wearing, whatever it is.
But instead, you're going to say in a way where you're almost shocked.
That's the flirtatious manner to put into this sentence, why do you smell so amazing?
That's a very charming way to say it.
You're not actually looking for an answer.
This is a rhetorical question.
You're just asking her, why do you smell so amazing?
I want you to nail down the flirtatious tone.
It's more of an advanced concept, but if you've been watching a lot of my videos, following
along for all these years, you're ready for this one.
You're almost excited to say it.
Let's go to the next one.
“Something about you always seems to make me smile.”
This is a good one.
This is a good solid like gentlemen kind of line.
It's not too rough around the edges, it shows a lot of character.
This is a good one you can actually send as a text message, but I would try to say this
in person.
A lot of guys, they don't have the balls to say stuff like this in person.
That's why I like this one so much.
This is the concept behind this one.
You’ve got to have balls to say it like this, and a girl will blush almost automatically
if you say this to her, something about you always seems to make me smile.
Here's the thing.
It's a little cheesy.
You might be thinking that right now, Tripp, this is a little cheesy.
Is this really something you want to say?
If you can deliver this in a confident way, it's not going to be cheesy.
It's going to be very romantic, and she's gonna love it.
You’ve got to remember that sometimes the things that are cheesy, some girls will absolutely
love.They'll absolutely love it, something about you always seems to make me smile.
Let's go to the next one.
We got two more left.
This one I put in here, this is not necessarily a line I want to teach you.
But I want to go deeper into this concept of what this line is all about, you look beautiful/stunning/gorgeous/incredible/sexy.
You look stunning.
You look gorgeous.
You look incredible.
You look sexy.
The idea behind this, what I want to teach you here is that if you say the same line
to the same girl over and over, it starts to lose meaning.
This is for you guys who are starting to date girls and seeing them more often.
Or maybe you have a girlfriend, maybe you're watching this and you have a wife.
Or maybe if you're a girl who's watching this, you're hanging out kind of peeking in.
This goes out to you as well because you don't want to use the same line all the time.
A girl might say to a guy, you look handsome.
You look cute.
You look hot.
You look amazing.
Whatever it is.
The idea here is you want to switch it up.
You want to say different words.
Again, we're talking about verbal flirting lines here.
You want to use different words when you're talking to a woman.
You don't want to change it up so much, but you don't want to be saying that she's beautiful
all the time.
It's gonna lose that nice feeling.
Tell her she's sexy.
Tell her she's incredible.
Tell her she looks incredible.
Use different words.
That's the big idea behind this one.
Let's go into our last one, saving the best for last.
We have two left actually.
I love both of these.
How about this one?
“This is never going to work.”
Now we're getting a little away from the direct, we're going more into flirty, push pull kind
of stuff, like teasing a little bit.
You're being cocky, but you're being sweet at the same time.
You say, this is never going to work out.
I'm way too out of your league.
This is something you would say to a girl you first met.
This shows a lot of confidence because a lot of men think that the woman is out of their
league.
When you can tell a girl that she's out of your league, you're putting her in that position,
this is a nice tease.
It's a little cocky, I will admit.
You want to balance it out with a smile.
Smile big when you say something like this because it's just a funny tease.
You'll say, this is never gonna work out.
I'm way too out of your league.
Just saying that you're like hot shit, that you're the man.
Here's what I want you to do with something like this, you want to follow up with something
really nice afterwards.
If you're too cocky or too arrogant, women won't be attracted to you.
They're not into guys who are too into themselves.
It's not that attractive.
Follow up with something nice after that, or maybe a personal question about herself.
Let's go to the next one, saving the best for last.
This is the last one.
This is number six, “Okay, that's it, you’re friend zoned.
This is a fun little line, it's a fun technique, friend zone her as a joke obviously.
I know you do not want to make friends in a girl that you're trying to flirt with, but
you're going to say it to her, or you're seeing it as a tease or as a joke.
What this is doing?
Why this is so powerful?
You're making it clear that there is between you and that girl, a zone of friend, a friend
zone, or there is this other area, that's whatever you want to call it, sex zone.
Some zone where you guys are actually attracted to each other and you're not friends.
You're making this clear picture that there could be a friend zone.
You might be thinking, why would I want that to be in the picture?
It’s like what's black without white?
You’ve got to have that comparison there, that juxtaposition so she'll understand that
there is an opportunity for you guys not to be in the friend zone.
If you don't bring up any of this stuff, then you might automatically become friend zone.
Listen to that again.
I know that might be a little bit complicated but rewind, listen to that again.
I'm telling you it makes sense.
Just tease her and say, okay, that's it, your friend zone.
You say that at a time when she says something.
It doesn't matter what she says.
She says something that you don't like, or you don't agree with, it's like you're punishing
her in a cute way for her saying something that you didn't like.
You point to her and smile while you say it.
This is a clever line.
If you want my secret tip to flirting, check out the blog, check out the little annotation
at the top of the screen that's going to lead you to the Crash Test Dummies For Flirting,
which is an amazing blog post that is written for you to understand the whole concept of
flirting and how to get better at it.
I'm sure if you're watching this video and you want these lines, then I'm telling you,
you gotta go check out this blog post to give you more information on how to be amazing
at flirting.
Check that out right at the top, or at trippadvice.com/blog.
I hope you enjoyed it.
If you've made it this far with me, let's test this out again.
I'm not gonna have you say you want more, but I want a big thank you from you because
I decided to put out another one of these.
In all caps, all I want you to do is write, TRIPP, THANK YOU!
Once exclamation point.
Thank you for getting this far in the video.
Write, TRIPP, THANK YOU! in big letters in the comments.
I'll see you on the next video.