Once i approach a girl with "Hey i have a cauliflower in my fridge do you know what
i should do with it?" She cracked, started to laugh and it went super well. Say anything weird or
random, whatever makes you or her laugh is good. So if you want to be super troll yeah that's a really fun
one to do is just go out and walk up to the girl you have to be just super confident like i haven't
seen you in forever how you been and there's like yeah right uh hmm especially she's a club
girl she's been going like lots of clubs she'll be like oh i think i'm supposed to remember this guy
i can't tell you how many times i've gotten like behind the lines of like the red carpet or the red
things there's like and they're like yeah didn't we meet at the and then you just imply yes and
right oh yeah totally meant that yeah that was the place blah blah blah it doesn't even matter right
cause they're just they're investing they're investing more into you even though they don't
remember you right you just gotta own it you assume rapport right away one of my favorites
similar to that is when they're sitting just sit down with them and say hey girls sorry i'm late
traffic was so bad that was my other one did you guys get me a drink yet what'd you get me coming
i'll say actually you know what i just thought you girls are cute then just be genuine oh sorry
i'm late traffic was really bad i know but i just thought you were really cute only one time did it
really bomb horribly wrong when i said hey girls sorry i'm late traffic was really bad and your
mom called you know how she gets she just talks and talks and she goes oh yeah what'd she say
because my mom's dead and i said oh okay uh and tried to recover and like anyways and yeah all
downhill from some are not recoverable i did learn that how have you been works really well
with bouncers as well oh yeah yeah especially if you don't know their names or anything like
that they will just assume that you know them and they're like oh yeah i know you come yep
and they'll just let you in yeah or at least don't have to wait in line as long what's your
favorite way to start a conversation and approach a girl at a bar club it depends on the situation
obviously it depends on my state and how i feel but if i absolutely don't know what to say i will
probably use the same line as you do because you taught me it it's simple is it has to be said the
right way but it's you're very distracting that's it you are highly distracting who i say varied is
it yeah right right who are you the who are you is like the important part because that's where
you're actually breaking rapport it's the who are you is going down however i like it it's very
direct and dominant if i'm in a situation when i see something that i like i would just go with
uh you look like i would just make a comment yeah you look fun you look crazy you look like
a dancer you look you look like south american whatever it doesn't matter or i would just make
a funny stupid line that makes me laugh most of my openers nowadays are mostly observational kind
of similar to what davids are but i remember this one time when i first started there was this girl
i was out at a mall in the daytime so maybe not a bar but she was one of the uh kiosk workers
like selling people stuff and all that type of jazz this really old guy came and like
brought her pizza like i mean either that had to be her grandpa or something else but
i flipped it i walked up there i was like hey now you're done pimping that old man for pizza
what's cracking and she's like she's immediate starter laughs she's like
i'm like yeah you know he just brought that because he likes you anyways what's your name
and just carry on conversation with that right like a really good exercise you usually don't
have time to do on boot camp because we just pack so much stuff in there is i used to do is just
go out to a mall and sit and make observations like watch people flow by watch them walk around
whatever any girl and like write down things you notice about him like hey i noticed that she had
curly hair or her hair was really curly today or i noticed that she was wearing a necklace with a
feather pendant on it or whatever you always have something to go on when you when you start
having that mindset of you're always just noticing things then you're always just making comments too
you're like hey cool tattoo cool this cool that throughout your day and then you're always in this
warmed up social state and then when you see a beautiful woman it's so easy to approach
her because you've already been social all day essentially that's how i warmed up back in the
day my favorite is playfully challenging women i'm a good dancer so i go up and i was like dance
off right now and they'll either have a dance off with me right then and there which leads to
just quicker connection and physical touch and everything or i'll literally be spontaneous i'll
say whatever is coming to my mind one that you taught me is uh we're the we're the hottest people
in here so i thought i'd come and talk to you and that's that's one of my favorites when i can't
think of something i like that because it creates the bubble of you and her it's like us against
them we're the hottest people in here look at all these minions i like to literally just practice
spontaneously saying things especially when i'm in like a higher state like a flow state
i'll just say the stupidest thing is to constantly prove to myself that it doesn't matter what you
say you know you can talk about math homework you can talk about apple pies and it really helps you
practice communicating the energy of your intention through what you're saying which is a
really big thing to stand out with in a nightclub when everybody else is kind of numbing themselves
out with drinking it really sets you apart guys think it's so much about what you say when really
it's the energy behind what you say it's how you say it how you're feeling like whenever you don't
know what you say at all it helps to have those backup plans just in case you run out of things to
say it happened to everyone right so it's good to have like a backup my favorite is hi i'm matt yeah
right something very simple or just a go-to but the best advice are those that you don't
need anymore when you master them yeah right so like it's good to have some lines and then just
learn to go with the flow be creative try things and that's that's really what it's going to start
to hit i've always thought about it as having a tool belt or a toolbox that you can reach into
if you don't have anything else but you also have to know like when to apply the right tool
because a lot of new guys you'll give them a whole bunch of like cool techniques and information and
they'll go out and try it in the completely wrong order which is super fun to watch but not exactly
get some great results right so you got to be like very aware of that like here is some sort
of order even in a nightclub which i consider to be pretty much chaos there's always some sort of
order to how interactions generally go the other really big takeaway is even though you know we're
talking about openers and how to open the opener's not nearly as important as most guys put weight
to it we have a friend back in vegas he opened his like opener to prove it was i like salad
you like roll it to a girl i like salad and me and duke uh there was like a couple occasions
we went and started seeing like the circle of life from the lion king oh yeah right as an opener at a
gold spike right you can get away with anything it's everything after the opener that really
starts just starts the conversation especially at night time that's all it does
yeah only purse is to break the ice by the way you just throw a good weapon on the table
because starting with something related to disney movies is always going to work
yeah girls eat that up it's a circle of life we'll make our disney openers cheat sheet coming soon
one of my favorite ways to start the conversation in the daytime let's say she's walking stop her
like hey real quick and then just say hi and then if she lights up i know she can feel my
energy she can feel that i'm complimenting her and appreciating her beauty and her femininity
with my eyes and with my energy and if she's like uh hi then i know probably not doing that or she's
just not connecting with that at that moment she's really in her head and she can tell a lot like in
those first 30 seconds about what kind of man you are we say that it's not important but like the
way that you convey yourself really is for sure if you really struggle with what to say or what to do
whether it's when you approach a woman during the day time the night time taking the conversation
further or what to do and what to say on a date to escalate the interaction
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