Hey guys,
what are the 12 urgent
but often subtle warning signs
she might cheat on you soon
perhaps even with a friend?
Well, sometimes you see it
it coming a mile away
and you just don't know what to do about it
or you're just not quite sure
even though the signs are there
or you think the signs are there.
And other times it just totally
comes out of left field
and knocks you right off balance
because you just didn't see it coming.
But have you experienced this?
She's hiding her texts
from you when she wasn't before.
She's acting kind of weird
but you can't really put your finger on why
she doesn't really tell you why
or makes excuses
or did she get a new haircut
is that a sign?
How about this one?
Maybe she talks about Chad
or Tyrone
a little bit too much,
her new friend at work.
Are these actually signs
that she's going to cheat on you soon?
Let's look at
the subtle but urgent
warning signs she'll cheat on you soon
or at least wants to.
If you're new to my channel
my name is Anna Jorgensen
welcome to just the tip Tuesday.
But first,
let's look at healthy and unhealthy
male female relationships
and whether or not
they can actually be safe.
Now what do you think?
Do you think men and women can really be friends
without anything going on
if you know what I mean?
Let me know in the comments below.
So, the reason why
it's so important to look at
male female friendships
is because
it's often
the best friend
or the friend at work
who the person cheats with.
So, just to be clear
these warning signs
that she'll cheat on you soon
aren't a guarantee
that she'll cheat on you soon.
But the more of these signs
she is exhibiting
then the more likely
she's moving in that direction
and or is already thinking about it at the least.
The more signs she has
the more likely
she's going there
doing something, something
with someone, someone else.
So, you want to pay attention
to the motives
behind these changed behaviors
and that's a key point.
If these behaviors have always been there
then it might just be her character,
it might be her value system.
But if these behaviors
in particular have come about,
about yes, Canadian here.
If she's started to express them
more recently
then there's a higher likelihood
she's thinking about cheating
or maybe already on the road to cheating.
So, what's really happening in her mind
is she's consciously
or subconsciously
preparing herself
to attract someone else
by comparing that someone else
or perhaps more than one someone else
to your qualities.
In other words, she is comparing you
to your real or perceived competition.
Okay, let's get into it.
If she's one,
lost weight
or started working out.
Two, done something different
with her hair.
Three, paying more attention
to her style
and or dressing sexier
when she goes out not for you.
Four, started wearing perfume
when she goes out.
Five, going out with her girlfriends
more in the evenings,
there's a lot more girls nights out.
Six, evasive
when you ask her
about her whereabouts.
So, she changes the subject
or tries not to answer
or doesn't really
actually answer you.
Seven, hiding her texts
and or has added
a password to her phone
that you otherwise
were able to get into her phone
but now you can't.
Eight, along the same lines
she receives a suspicious
amount of wrong numbers
late at night.
Nine, as mentioned before
if she's mentioning Chad
or Tyrone
or a mirror
a little too frequently.
Next, if she's
less physically
affectionate with you
whether it's ***
or non ***.
Next one, this is a big one
she's nagging you
about new things
that bother her about you
she's comparing.
Or here's a tricky one,
she's no longer nagging you
about the things that
usually bother her
about you.
In other words,
in her mind
in the first instance if she's
nagging you about new things
it's things that she doesn't think
this other guy is doing
or has or flaws he's got.
But if she's no longer nagging you
about the things that
bothered her before
it's because she's starting
to mentally move on
and it's not going to bother her for long
because she's not planning on being there
to deal with it.
Or bonus tip,
she's treating you
with more and more contempt
for no real reason
and part of that is because she feels guilty.
In her own mind
psychologically she's probably
not even aware she's doing this.
She's building you up
to be the villain
so that when she cheats or leaves you
she doesn't have to feel as guilty
about that choice.
Yeah, I know, I know
it's nasty super nasty.
Ladies if you're watching this
don't be a see you next Tuesday
do the right thing
discuss it
or try to figure it out
do not cheat.
If you can't stay with your partner
leave first don't cheat.
Okay, so you want to make sure
that in the future
if this isn't already happening
that you're watching for the red flags
in her male relationships.
So, let's go through some of these red flags
in her male relationships
and let me know in the comments
if you've experienced any of these.
One, the two of them
go for dinner
in public
or alone
at his place,
her place
wouldn't happen if you're there of course.
But if you're there then she's not alone with him
red flag.
Two, the two of them
hang out together
alone in private.
Three, you're never invited
or allowed to join in.
Four, if he has a partner
his partner is never allowed to join
or show up.
Five, she forgets to tell you
when they meet up
and you find out from other people
or in other ways
maybe through social media,
maybe you've managed to hack her phone
and get in there and find some text messages.
Six, and this one
you might not be able to find out
if this is actually happening.
But there might be subtle signs
that this is happening
where she only talks about
your and her problems with
this other guy
or whoever it is that she's chatting with
instead of talking about
your good traits.
She's leaning on him like
an emotional tampon
and he's there waiting in the wings
for his chance to swoop in.
If you're a guy don't be the swooper.
If your girl don't be the swooper,
don't be a swooper.
Seven, she hides his texts from you
or deletes them.
Eight, she texts him
late at night even if it's just innocent.
Nine, her texts
and or interactions with him
are flirty
but when you bring it up to her
she just accuses you
of being paranoid
and insecure
and saying she's just friendly bubbly
I’m like that with all the boys,
red flag.
10, she'd rather spend time
with him than with you.
Sometimes she cancels
plans with you
to spend time with him.
Still acting like
it's no big deal
or making excuses for it.
I know right like
who wants to baby shake her?
I do,
that's not politically correct.
I hope that doesn't get flagged
because we're just joking
that's part of the comedy section
of this video sensors.
All right, let's look at the green flags
and I've, I've mentioned the green flags
in another video, which I'll link at the end.
So, just so you're not like overly paranoid.
Just in case,
green flags
for male female relationships
are and I include all of these,
all of these must apply.
The two of them have coffee
or lunch in a public place.
Two, he's never indicated
a romantic interest in her
or vice versa.
Three, you're welcome to join them
any time you often have
and you've never felt
there's any weird awkwardness
when you're there.
Four, if he's got a partner
sometimes she's shown up
or at least she's always invited
and welcome.
Five, you know for sure
she tells him
what a great guy you are
and how lucky she is to be with you,
which is basically
psychological boundary
for the other guy.
Now, big red flag bonus
even if you are insecure,
if your gut feeling,
is that something is off,
something's amiss
you are probably right.
Something needs to happen quickly
before it gets too far.
Because if you don't do something
if you don't change something up
even if she hasn't actually gone there
she might still be on the path to there.
So, you want to get her off that path to cheating
and back on the path to loyalty.
And no not all women cheat
not all women cheat just because there's an opportunity.
Sometimes there's problems
in a relationship that need to be addressed
and that can be addressed
and fixed
so that she doesn't cheat.
Look at some point in time
you might be tempted to cheat
but hopefully
you will actually also take actions
to not cheat.
Now, only you can tell
if the relationship is worth saving.
I've done a lot of videos on red flags
and damaged women and narcissistic women
so if you haven't watched those
you're definitely going to want to watch those
because those are the serious red flags
where it's probably not
going to be a salvageable relationship.
But long-term relationships
especially will go through a period of time
for one or the other that
the person might consider cheating.
And if you can actually address it
and not just be like oh, well,
if she does that's her thing.
No, you need to be more
proactive in a relationship.
You need to actually
work through some stuff
to help prevent her from cheating
if her natural tendency
isn't a cheater,
if that makes sense.
So yes, some women
yes, some women are cheaters
just like some men are cheaters
but there's often times
where you can prevent that from happening
and get back
to a place in your relationship
where you actually love and respect each other
in a way that makes you both feel safe.
And I've got another video coming up
on what to do specifically
what to say specifically
if you suspect
that she might be thinking about cheating
but you're not sure.
So, you don't want,
you haven't caught her red-handed
that's a whole different story
but if you're thinking
she's starting to stray
she's starting to pull away
and she's maybe chalking to some Chads
or Tyrone's at work or wherever
you never know
who's going to be there when you know
she's in the situation where she's looking.
So, if you want to know specifically what to do
in that situation
then definitely
let me know in the comments.
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