Mark: Five hidden signs he is falling in love with you. That's what we are talking about
today. We're in Austin, Texas, joined by one of my very good friends, Clayton Olson.
Sir, thank you for coming in.
We are talking about hidden signs and if you come to this video,
you're probably thinking, "Oh is, you know, is this guy falling for me? Is he not?"
We're going to help you relax, so you can know some of these signs
right now of what he is feeling, what's going through him.
And it's not going to be the cliche, obvious ones.
You know if he's future projecting and introducing you to parents
and all these obvious things.
Let me show you some of the hidden signs that are underneath those things.
Clayton, I'm gonna throw it to you for the first one. What is the hidden sign?
Clayton: Number one hidden sign that he's falling in love is that he starts to see the
preciousness in who you are. Now, this might not be completely obvious at first, but notice
that perhaps there's a certain way he starts to look at you. Notice perhaps the ways that
he starts to show up in the relationship with you, where maybe he starts to take on certain
hobbies that you've got. Maybe he starts to join your dance classes or he starts taking
nonbook recommendations or really getting involved with the way that you think, and what
you might experience on your end is you start to feel that you are truly unique in his eyes.
Typically, when people fall in love, there is a way that boundaries begin to dissolve.
So you might feel a sense of almost psychological
and emotional merging with him begin.
In a good way, yeah. Not in a codependent way, but in a way where he is taking on
more of you and he's really getting closer to who you are psychologically.
Mark: Yeah, nice! Number two is a bit of a weird one that you might hate me for, but
you'll see an increase in either volatility or calmness.
Now what do I mean by that? Why am I contradicting myself?
Well, when a man falls in love, what gets revealed is his deeper
character. And so what you'll notice is that if a guy has a lot of insecurities, if he's,
I hate to say it, your classic narcissist type, your controlling guy, a guy with issues
who doubts the connection, you'll see an increase in volatile behavior like unhealthy
or, or essentially toxic behavior. But for a guy who's really healthy and secure, you'll actually
see the opposite. So you'll get this calmness with the way he treats you, and it won't be
like a friend calmness. There'll be this calmness connected to the attraction, almost this calm
certainty in his connection with you. Like, "yep, we're solid. We're here, I love you.
We're doing this." It'll go one of two ways, depending how secure the guy is and how he
feels you feel relative to him.
Clayton: There's a key point that I want to make in that too, though. And it's also that
he could have a little bit of emotional volatility if he just thinks that he's the only one falling
in love. Yeah, right. So I would check in with yourself and see where, are you holding
back? Are you not letting your true emotions come out? Because it could create a little
bit insecurity point.
Mark: Yeah, exactly. So guys, even secure guys can be pushed into insecurity if they
feel it's not reciprocated. Very Important. Number three.
Clayton: Awareness and consideration.
So what do I mean when I say awareness and consideration?
Well, what you might notice is that there is an uptick in his presence. So when he's
with you, there's a certain amount of focus that he has. There's a certain way that he
starts to listen to the things that you say. He might start to solve problems for you before
you even ask. Like say that there's something going on with your car, it needs to be washed
or there's some thing that you mentioned that you like...
Mark: above and beyond sort of.
Clayton: Yeah. And it just starts to show up and it's like, "Whoa, this guy really listens.
He pays attention to the small things."
Mark: Number four is emotional momentum. So I talked about this in a previous video. It's
basically the concept that a healthy guy who's falling in love, he doesn't want to let you
get too far away. He's kind of always touching base. It's usually 24 hours is a pretty accurate
time measure on this one where he's kind of always touching base with you, just wanting
you to be in his life, wanting to keep up that momentum really clear sign that a guy's
falling in love and it's often quite subtle. Obviously, it has to be reciprocated from you.
A man with self respect is not going to just keep throwing himself when it's not coming
back, but you'll notice if he just, he doesn't like going too long, especially past that
24 hour mark without somehow touching base.
Clayton: He might be like trying to insulate the woman from feeling abandoned or having
any doubt that he's not into her right through his actions without saying it explicitly.
Mark: Very well-said, very well said. This is why we've got this guy on with channel.
You've actually, before we get to number five, you've actually got a real cool webinar.
Clayton: I do. The three keys to attract and keep a high quality man.
Mark: This guy spent like 50 hundred hours, some crazy amount of time creating this webinar
completely free for you. So check out the webinar as well. Make sure you do that.
The link will be above and in the description below. Go and do that. Number five.
Clayton: Deep and wide integration.
So what do we mean when we say deep and wide integration?
Well, let's talk about wide integration first. So if you think about all the different areas
of his life, like friends, hobbies, family, maybe coworkers, you start to trickle in to
all of these different categories. He starts to bring you in and you start talking.
Mark: That's wide?
Clayton: That's wide, right. So you start to learn different things about him. You start to learn about
who he is in these different contexts. Another thing that you might notice is that when
you are interacting with his friends or you're interacting with coworkers or family,
let's just say friends or friends or coworkers. Cause if you're interacting with family, it's
probably already a sign it's going in a great direction. But maybe if you interact with
his friends, you notice that they're relating to you like they know you already, which
what is that an indication of? It's an indication that there's a narrative that has already
been constructed around who you are with his friends.
He's already been talking about you.
Mark: The friends have the inside story. The friends know where it's at. So if the friends
are treating you well. You're like okay.
Clayton: Right. And they might even ask you questions that are like vetting you and seeing
whether or not you're a quality person. So there could be a little bit of some interrogation
happening, but it's only because they're looking out for him because maybe he started to have
these feelings.
Mark: I love that. Cool. So that's wide? Or deep integration?
Clayton: So deep would be he starts to bring you into activities and hobbies that he holds
near and dear to his heart.
So if there's certain passions that he's got, certain things
that have really influenced him in his life, he's beginning to bring forth those as an
offering. Cause he wants you to know more about who he really is and what perhaps has
influenced him to be the man that he is.
Mark: Yeah, I love that. So deep and wide integration, all those five signs, five hidden
signs that he is really falling in love with you.
Have a look out for those signs and make sure it's going in the healthy way.
That's going to create you an empowering relationship.
Clayton, all the way to Texas to meet for the first time. It's been a pleasure having
you meet me here in person. This is really fun. It's been awesome. Check out this guy's
webinar. Yeah, the Three Secrets To Attracting A Great Guy. The link will be above, as I
say, and in the description below.
Clayton: And if you're single or in a relationship, this webinar
will apply to you because it will help you show up as your best self so that you can
pick a partner that is worthy of your time, attention, and love.
Mark: And don't forget as well. Leave your thoughts, comments, and questions in
the space below. We want to hear from you. We'll get Clayton in to answer some of the
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the notifications for future videos. Clayton, thanks for coming to Texas to hang out. It's
been a pleasure. Thanks for sharing that amazing content!
We will see you in the next video very soon.