what are your thoughts on grindr i know
that a lot of gay guys use it
i kind of know grindr as like the go-to
app if you're trying to find something
now
have you ever used it before i did like
four
years ago i've never used the app ever
in my whole life not once i've even
thought about it i started using three
years ago
when i came out as a trans man do you
want to give it a try again now
sure yeah i am definitely willing to try
sure
sure which picks do you want to use for
your profile oh oh
wow who's that guy wow that's a good one
i like that one
humble and handsome thank you wow
look at that man-made wanted to build me
a house giving some good luck more like
a hippie
daddy i'd share a joint with you for
sure wow
damn stop it it's very
sexy and gets their attention that's why
i'd say damn damn damn
maybe other people will say damn damn
too tell us about you
i'm trying out grinder and you can ask
me anything ask me anything but
understand that my deafness won't hurt
your
sex life it won't make you deaf i love
sharing
openly my transness and bringing
awareness
to people about like the fact that trans
men you can be trans and
gay do you have any tags definitely
would say i'm a daddy
because i am very effeminate but at the
same time i love being um
i guess you would call myself a power
bottom height i'm five five
five two five eight i'm taller than both
of you
jealous body type sam like average i'm
i'm kind of squishy position
doggy style probably i'm dead
top oh i was way off relationship
status
i'm currently dating someone actually i
am in an open
relationship single call me
do you accept nsfw picks what is that
i kind of like not safe for work picks
but sometimes
people go a little ham i'm just gonna
say yes and see what happens
maybe i should just say yes to yolo yeah
i get a lot
and it's too fast and i don't accept
that
ready to get to the grind let's get it
let's scan let's
get it ready ready what do you think
what do you see
see a lot of chest picks chest hair oh i
see that guy too
just a lot of chest wow this one says
eight inch top
interesting right to the point right
good for you good for you
there are so many ab photos i feel a
little bit like i should be working out
do you see anyone you like i found one
oh
cute looks like a nerd i just sent that
guy just hey
like the stan this most standard of
standard and just nice
do you have any messages oh my god i'm
just getting all these messages
you would just scroll these messages uh
overload
holy hey they're sexy nice it's a
good one
one set of my mustache is bomb i
appreciate that
someone said you into getting head not
from a stranger
at the same time though not a lot of
them offer that that's nice
that's pretty nice i will say i feel
good about myself
whoa one of them just sends me a big
pic jesus uh it's too early to see
weiners and i already saw a bunch of
them
have you tried the filter i have not see
i'm definitely gonna put
face photos only because i'm so tired of
seeing torsos
i um i don't know how to respond to that
he is fully in a diaper with a binky ask
if he needs a diaper change
i will not respond to that it's not my
type
a baby like no he's not into taking care
of people
no thanks somebody asked me what
happened to my eyebrows
i burned them off in an accident oh my
god i just got a message from some
65 year old guy from 120 miles away
telling me what pronouns to use excuse
me
what the i'm not for you get out of my
grinder
have you encountered any obstacles on
grindr just all the nudes
that's about it for me already just
having it for
this period of time like i said i
already had somebody question my
pronouns and be rude to me
violence does happen to trans people i
would say that's probably the biggest
obstacle is just trusting that
somebody's not going to do something
nefarious to you
right it feels like offensive questions
and out of the blue do you have a
again and again and again you know like
you're a woman and younger man
and just like it's too common questions
that i get all the time
and i get sick of it i've never had
anybody ask me anything like that so
it's unfortunate that you guys had to
deal with that's like super
uncomfortable
it's life right
oh the guy message got back to me he
just said what's up
i'll take it now we're just texting
we're just like okay
so how did it go what'd you think i
think it went really good i had a lot of
fun um it was definitely
what they say culture shock i'm already
talking to somebody that i think is cute
so like this is this is going well i
haven't gotten messages but now i'm
getting all these messages and right now
this area has no type so i'll have to
move around and
and i'll eventually we'll get there was
it what you were expecting
my experience on this app with these men
was actually really positive not one
person said anything
about my transition at all i wasn't
expecting that a lot of people i think
assume that
gay men are transphobic you know from
this experience like i just don't think
that's true
are you glad you tried grindr i've used
grinder before and
really i'm happy to use grinder again oh
yeah i'd definitely try this again i'm
probably going to log in
when i get home