powershift it's the ability that we all have but people have to learn to
navigate it power shift is the fact that the only difference between you or me or
myself or somebody else Oh on why they've gotten to this part of their
life or another part of their life is their ability to retain power as well as
give it to other people that they work with and it comes in three different
stages one is you must build influence the next is of course the negotiation
and exchanging of energy and ordeals and the third with a lot of people do not
ever recognize is the nurturing of a relationship to make that relationship
more and more effective and productive over the history of your relationship
and when you think about power ship this is not only about being at a negotiation
table and being very transactional this is in a relationship this is the
mentality that you are educating yourself before you go out in the world
because a lot of us even myself we suffer from self-doubt from here and
there so power ship is being able to transform your mind and being able to
use the things you have at your disposal to get what you want and where you want
when you think of what a life or career looks like without people understanding
how to shift power and power shift it is the masses who get on the train or
whatever the case is every single day and work and go to a dead-end job or
they're in a relationship they don't know why or they're on a treadmill or a
hamster wheel moving along with a no compass no navigation no autopilot on
what are they gonna do if they ever get to this destination what are they one
life are they doing this for themselves are they doing this for others did they
allow somebody to marginalize them and/or take power away from them that
they give it to somebody who never ever valued it and now they don't have it
themselves and they blink their eye and their entire life has gone away and they
felt like they had no purpose in life and that is what
happens when somebody does not tap into their why does not maximize their
relationships and does not you know really nurture those relationships
afterwards a life in a career of somebody who was understood the power of
shifting power is a life of trial and error a life of educating themselves a
life of surrounding themselves with like-minded people a life of seeking
more understanding there why and what is the purpose is driving them when they
get to that place that they want to be what was the purpose it is a life of
enriching other people in their community in their office in their
church in their relationship it is understanding that when you're
negotiating is what's in it for the other party as well and it's not just
self-serving it's also being able to understand that in a relationship no
matter what it is you're Batman somebody else is Robin and often you're Robin and
you allow somebody else to be Batman and it makes you much more powerful and
that's what you see in the most successful people in the world and
success is not only money success can be various other things people who have
overthrown government with Twitter arguments say so when people understand
their power they're constantly seeking to enrich more people as well as tapping
into what they've learned and how to even become better at being powerful and
there's a lot of things around that are there right in front of your face how to
negotiate with power meaning what is the body language what does the other person
telling you what are what are you not listening to that you should be looking
for a lot of times people just don't ask the right questions instead of they're
just stating what they want instead of saying how can this situation be better
what do you need what do you need for this situation what are your obstacles
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