- Will you be looking down on me when you are in heaven?
- Yep
and you know how you will be able to know.
When you are thinking of doing something
that you ain't supposed to do
and then you have a second thought.
That's going to be me saying
hey don't do that.
That's when you know I'm watching you.
Okay?
- Hi pop, pop.
- Hello Cavalli.
- [Announcer] Have you and your grandpa
ever talked about this before?
- Yes.
- So what do you know about it?
- That you have stage four lung cancer.
But you might not die for a long time.
- Yeah. Do I look like I got cancer?
- Not really. You look
- I look the same don't I?
- You look really handsome.
- Thank you.
- How did you get cancer?
- I think it is from smoking.
Tell me the truth. Your not a little mad at me.
- No.
I'm being serious.
But I have one more question.
- What?
- Do you think grandma is mad at you?
- I ain't going to say she's mad at me
but she always told me to quit smoking.
In me and grandma's house is their anything in there
that you would want after I go?
- Two things.
- What?
- I mean three things.
- What? Two things. What?
- Okay so that, your chain. That watch. And then
- No, no, no at the house.
- That's at your house.
So probably the rest of your top rom
if you have any.
- The rest of my top rom.
- Yeah.
- Sure you can have my top rom today.
You don't want that PS3?
- Yeah I want that.
- [Announcer] What about your pop pop's hats?
- You don't like these?
- It feels warm.
Your head feels warm.
- Well that's good.
- You always wear these. Why do you always wear these?
- Well you know it's just like
- Is it because you like
- No, everybody has to have something that
is theirs.
Some people like alot of jewelry.
I like hats.
- Who are you going to miss the most? I know who you are.
- Who?
- Probably grandma.
- Okay. I probably will miss her the most because I
been with her longer than I been with
all my kids and grandkids.
But I am going to miss her most
for a different reason then
I will miss you guys.
You are my family.
You are my seed.
So when I do go,
what are you going to miss about me?
- All the memories and
just
being with you.
- What about breakfast?
- Oh yeah, breakfast is really good.
- I am going to miss you too buddy but hey you know
it's going to be a while.
That's why I want to spend as much time with you
to create memories.
- Do you have any favorite memories of me?
- Yeah, first time you walked.
The first time
you said a bad word.
And just you
going to sleep in my arms.
All them is memories.
So you scared for me?
- I am.
- Well we know it's going to kill me.
The more we talk about it the easier it will get.
It's just part of life.
- Will you be looking down on me when your in heaven?
- Yep. And you know how you will be able to know?
When you are thinking of doing something
that you ain't supposed to do
and then you have a second thought,
that's going to be me saying hey don't do that.
That's when you know I am watching you.
Okay? Like I say that's going to be a while.
That's going to be a while
So I'm going to be
looking at your all the time.
So when you do something I am going to be very proud.
Okay?
I just want you to be a good boy and make me proud
and make your Mommy and Daddy proud.
Your got a little sister that you got to be right
so you can take care of her okay?
- Yes.
- Okay.
Come one.
- We brought someone to cheer you up.
- Hey little girl.
Do you love big brother and she gonna need you.
You understand?
- Yeah, I understand.
I love you and when you die
I will always remember this moment.
- I will too.
- Cooing
- She's your sister.
- Yeah. Yeah.
Give her a hug.
Haha.
No, no you go up. I'm come get you.
Alright buddy I love you.
- I love you
- Bye bye little mama.