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What's going on everybody?
So, once again, I'm here Stephan Labossiere
with another video... Also, known as Stephan Speaks
and we're going to talk about an interesting topic today
a question that I was asked
and I figured well, let me elaborate or discuss it
for you guys in my YouTube community.
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Now, on to the topic at hand,
I was asked by a young lady
do all men want IG models?
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So, to answer the question
plain and simple, no,
all men do not want IG models.
Do a lot of men lust after IG models? Yes.
Do a lot of men give their attention to IG models?
Yes, but do a lot of men
or those same men give their respect
to those IG models? No.
Do those same men
want to marry those IG models?
No.
Now, this is not a shot at IG models
because I do believe personally
every woman should be evaluated
based of her as an individual and her character
and just because she carries the label of IG model
does not mean she's this way or that way
or not worthy of respect
or not worthy of an amazing relationship.
Now, do some men think that way?
Absolutely, they do
that's an unfortunate reality
but that is out there
they immediately view this woman as
IG model, so, it's not someone that I want to
take home to my mother
but someone I will gladly sleep with.
But again,
me personally I do not
subscribe to that way of thinking
and I do think that we have to
as people in general
evaluate them for who they are.
Because you don't know the whole story
behind the individual
and it's unfair to just judge someone
because they engage in certain things
that maybe you already have certain perceptions about.
But to get back to the main question,
do all men want IG models?
Listen, again, a lot of men
will give attention to this woman
because she is
showing herself on the internet.
And not every IG model is showing
her self naked on the internet,
but yes, she is displaying her beauty
for men to see and she's drawing that kind of attention
and yes, men are drawn to the visual,
a lot of men are.
But when you sit down and talk to the men
there's a lot of varying perceptions from men.
Some men view those women
and not just IG models,
any woman who's very beautiful
as too much to deal with.
Like, obviously, I know men.
And I've heard of men
and I've counseled men
who their perception
of this extremely beautiful woman
is equal to too much work,
is equal to high-maintenance.
Now, again, that doesn't mean that is an
accurate perception of that individual.
However, some men do carry that perception
others may view her as
who knows who she's already been dealing with
and who's probably hitting her up,
flying her out, so on and so forth.
So, they don't trust
dealing with a woman in that position.
One way or another,
that's not what a lot of men
are putting on a pedestal
in regards to this is what I want to marry.
So, do not confuse
the attention a man gives any kind of woman
with a true desire
for a serious committed relationship.
Now, some of you may be saying
well, I've seen plenty of IG models,
of video vixens or whatever you want to call
women in that position
getting married
or getting wifed up.
Some people like to use the term
the whores are winning,
which again, I think is an unfair thing
to say because you don't know if the woman's a whore or not
just because she's an IG model,
but I digress.
That's a whole another other video
or podcast episode.
The fact remains that
your perception that these women are being wifed up
is inaccurate.
to be quite honest with you it is completely inaccurate.
When you speak... I speak to some of these women
I have friends who are some of these women.
They're going through the same relationship struggles
as any other woman
they're not getting special...
They may be getting special treatment again,
as far as this man flying them out,
buying things for them and so on and so forth.
But if the desire
and which it is for a lot of women
to have a serious committed real relationship,
well, they're coming across the same pitfalls in that regard.
So, again all that to say
no, all men do not want that
do not value that as
that's who they want to marry or align themselves with
because depending on the path that man is on
that may be a conflict of interest
her profession and what he does.
So, it's not going to work for everybody.
Do not and again I stress
do not confuse the attention
that is given to those women
with a true desire
for something serious and real.
And also, you got to remember
who are the men?
When the men do want to give that
who are these men
and are those the type of men that you even want?
Because some of you guys are worried about
the attention that, that woman is getting
when it's a guy that you wouldn't even sign up for.
So, there's a lot we can unpack here,
but again, bottom line is
no, not every man wants one.
But also, I would encourage you to not,
to not just generalize
anyone not IG models,
not this type of person, that type of person, whatever.
We are all people we are all individuals
and we should evaluate people
based off of what they specifically present
and who they are
and understand there is more to people
than what we see on the Internet.
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