Gentlemen, welcome to Mantelligence.
I am Beardy, and here with us today is Kay and
Larry to help me talk about a really important topic.
I’m really excited to share it with all You guys.
Just yesterday, Larry and I were watching this video called,
“I'm Spying On My Boyfriend, He Still Has No Idea!”
Larry was as shocked as I was.
I was shocked too, Kay.
Today, we’re going to tell you exactly why spying on your girlfriend
Is something you should not do.
If you often find yourself asking “Is if okay for me to be
Spying on my girlfriend?”
then you definitely need this video.
I know you must be thinking, “I have good reasons why I spy on her, so
it must not be a bad idea.”
Our video right here Will tell you all the reasons you shouldn’t
do it, and we’ll also share the most awful thing that
Could happen if you do decide that spying is the best way to go.
Let’s get started!
2.
Is it still a force of habit if you willingly do it?
Guys, listen up.
I know you know spying is bad.
That’s why you’re here.
I know you Need someone who will list good reasons to
convince you not to do it.
When you do Something bad, you will feel so uneasy and
your stomach will be in knots.
However, When you do something multiple times, you
will get used to the feeling and eventually It will be like a normal thing to do.
I’m here to tell you that that’s not what you want.
You don’t want to be the guy whose habit is snooping on his girlfriend’s personal
life.
This is not one of the habits women love.
In fact, it might just be what she will despise About you.
When she finds out how often you do it, she will be even more baffled that you’ve
Made it part of your daily routine.
It’s not an attractive quality to allot that much time to
Spy on your significant other.
Making it a habit also takes away from your time to plan stuff
For your girlfriend.
Instead of getting her coffee before she goes to work, you devote
Your few extra minutes to check her messages.
Instead of buying her flowers On the way home, you stop somewhere to see
if she went to that coffee date her friend Planned.
It’s a despicable habit that no woman, especially your girlfriend, would
Enjoy.
If you want to change your ways and do a complete 180, you should check out this
Video on the Best Daily Habits For Men.
1.
Didn’t Mama tell you to avoid bad guys?
Is she into you?
I bet she is.
I bet she’s told all her friends about you and how good you are
To her.
Spying isn’t really an activity that good guys do.
And if you’re thinking, “Well, I’ve Got many reasons why I spy on her.
I’m worried she’ll cheat on me.
Or, maybe she Is doing stuff behind my back.”
While I know that this all comes from a place of love and
maybe you are afraid of her leaving, it doesn’t justfiy the act.
Whatever reason you have, You will always be the bad guy when she finds
out you’ve been snooping around.
It will be On your permanent record, no matter how you
reason it out.
She will always remember That you didn’t trust and respect her enough.
Even if you have been the best boyfriend To her, like you get her flowers all the time
or you plan all these expensive dinner dates, Spying on her will cancel all of these out
and strip you of your “good guy” title.
Gentlemen, say it with me, “Spying on my girlfriend is wrong, and I should find
Another way to know what’s going on with her.”
If you still can’t say it, then it’s high time
We share with you the most awful thing that can happen when you spy on your partner.
Looking like an insecure and controlling man is only one of the things that will happen.
Losing her trust is another thing that you should be prepared for when you spy on her.
But, the worst thing that could happen is that she might leave you for good.
When a person Feels like their worth is diminished, they
won’t stick around.
When you invade her private Life, she will feel like her worth is not
hers anymore.
It is yours.
She won’t feel like She’s worth your effort of communicating,
instead of snooping.
Even if you’re coming From a place of love, she might not see that,
and it might lead to an awful breakup.
“Does she love me?”
You will know the answer by asking, not by snooping.
That’s why you shouldn’t consider spying as a good idea.
Do you know some more reasons why spying on her is not a good idea?
Comment them down below!
Now, you know exactly why spying on your girlfriend is not a good idea.
It will only lead to Multiple problems that you’ll have to live
with for the rest of your life.
Don’t believe me?
Should I spy on your girlfriend and see if it’s a good idea, then?
Kidding aside, if you Feel like your girlfriend doesn’t love you
as much as she used to, spying is not the way
To resolve it.
Before jumping to conclusions, observe her first and pay attention to her
Body language signs.
She may be doing stuff that she didn’t do before but it might
Now be her way of expressing her love to you.
Keep an open mind and look closely at the Things she does for you.
You won’t need to spy on her to do this.
Just be observant and You will see the signs she likes you.
If you need some help on spotting them, Here is a helpful video on the 11 Body Language
Signs She’s Attracted To You.
She might already be doing most of these, and you just didn’t realize at the time.
Good luck, men!