ARE YOU GOING TO CHEAT
ON YOUR PARTNER?
IF YOU ARE A WOMAN WHO IS FAKING ORGASMS
ACCORDING TO A NEW STUDY YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE UNFAITHFUL.
THIS RESEARCH COMES FROM THE
HUMAN FEMALE ORGASM AS EVOLVED SIGNAL, A STUDY.
WHAT THEY SAY
IS THAT THE MORE FREQUENTLY A WOMAN FAKES ORGASMS THE MORE
LIKELY SHE IS TO CHEAT.
WHAT IS
GOING
ON HERE?
BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS THERE IS NO LINK BETWEEN A
GENUINE ORGASM AND FIDELITY.
AND THEY WERE ALL OF COLLEGE AGE WHICH I DO THINK IS RELEVANT
WHEN WE COME TO A CONCLUSION HERE.
>>I LIKE THAT YOU FRAME THAT IS GOOD NEWS.
MEN, IF YOUR PARTNER IS NOT HAVING MANY ORGASMS DON'T
SWEAT IT.
IF SHE IS BOTHERING TO FATE, WATCH OUT.
>>IT'S WEIRD BECAUSE YOU IF YOU GIVE ENOUGH OF A DAMN ABOUT HIM
AND HIS CONFIDENCE- YOU JUST DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT A
GENUINE INTERACTION WITH THAT PERSON.
YOU ARE NOT
COMMUNICATING WELL AND THE
RELATIONSHIP OR THE BEDROOM.
YOU'RE LIKE ALL RIGHT IT IS TOO
MUCH OF A PAIN IN THE ASKED TO ACTUALLY TALK TO THIS PERSON OR
IT IS TOO AWKWARD TO HAVE THAT
CONVERSATION TO SOMETHING THAT WILL LEAD TO BETTER SEX.
>>MY CONCLUSION IS THAT IF YOU ARE NOT PHYSICALLY CONNECTING
WITH SOMEONE BY WAY OF THE
ORGASM, THEN YOU ARE LESS LIKELY TO EMOTIONALLY CONNECT
WITH
THEM.
AND YOU ARE ALSO EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED AND YOU
ARE COMMUNICATING, THAT BOND IS JUST NOT AS STRONG WHEN THE
SEXUAL AND PHYSICAL CONNECTION
IS NOT THERE.
THEN THE EMOTIONAL TIE WILL ALSO NOT BE THERE.
THAT
IS WHAT I THINK IN THIS STUDY.
>>IT TOTALLY DEPENDS ON YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
AS A STRAIGHT MALE,
BEFORE I GOT MARRIED THE SEX AND ENJOYMENT OF IT WAS NOT AT ALL
CONNECTED TO MY EMOTIONAL STATUS
WITH THAT PERSON.
>> I MEANT SPECIFICALLY FOR WOMEN.
I THINK FOR WOMEN THE
EMOTIONAL TIE PLAYS A MAJOR ñ
IF THEY ARE PHYSICALLY CONNECTED TO SOMEONE WITH AN ORGASM THEN
THEY WILL BE MORE CONNECTED EMOTIONALLY AS WELL.
BUT I THINK IT IS DIFFERENT WITH STREET MEN.
>> I ALSO KNOW THAT IF IT ISTHE REVERSE, THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE
CASE AT ALL.
HE MIGHT BE A HOT
GUY, AND THEY ARE INTO IT.
>> ALSO, WHAT YOU THINK IS THE RELEVANCE THAT THESE ARE ALL
COLLEGE AGE HETEROSEXUAL COUPLES?
THAT DEMOGRAPHIC FOR ME
IS INTERESTING.
WHEN YOU'RE A COLLEGE AGE YOU ARE MORE
INCLINED TO WANT TO PLAY THE FIELD.
IT WOULD BE INTERESTING
IF THEY CARRIED OUT THE STUDY WITH YOUNGER PEOPLE AND THEN
OLDER PEOPLE AND SEE IF THERE WAS STILL THAT CORRELATION.
>>THERE IS A CONTROL FOR IT.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SOMEONE WHO IS FAKING AND SOMEONE WHO
IS NOT.
YEAH, SURE, MORE COLLEGE-AGE PEOPLE MIGHT BE MORE INCLINED
TO CHEAT, BUT THE ONES WHO ARE FAKING ORGASMS ARE MORE LIKELY
TO CHEAT THAN THE ONES WHO ARE NOT FAKING ORGASMS WITHIN THAT
GROUP.
>> SO, I WOULD SAY YOU ARE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR BODY WHEN
YOU GET OLDER.
>> DAUGHTER OF A PREACHER MAN THOUGHT
>>WAS THAT APPROPRIATE?
HEY DAD.
I THINK THAT WHEN WOMEN GET
OLDER AND THEY DISCOVER THEIR BODIES, BECAUSE A WOMAN'S
SEXUALITY AS WE MORE COMPLICATED
THAN A GUYS.
YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT ARE YOU CLITORAL STIMULATION
OR INTERNAL STIMULATION.
I THINK WHEN A WOMAN GETS OLDER SHE IS
MORE COMFORTABLE TO ASK AND COMMUNICATE WITH WHAT SHE WANTS
AND WHAT WORKS FOR HER.
SO MAYBE I WOULD WONDER IF ORGASMS ARE
FAKED LESS?
BUT WE DON'T HAVE THE NUMBERS HERE TO SEE
IF THAT
IS TRUE.
>> I WONDER WHAT THAT WOULD'VE BEEN IN THE STUDY FOR GUYS
THAT FAKED ORGASMS.
>>HAVE A SIMPLER THEORY.
THE PEOPLE THAT ARE WILLING TO FAKE
IT ARE THE ONES THAT MASK DECEPTION MORE.
HENCE THEY ARE
MORE LIKELY TO DECEIVE YOU AND
SLEEP WITH OTHER PEOPLE.
>> RIGHT, PEOPLE WHO LIE ARE MORE LIKELY TO LIE.
THAT MAKES SENSE.
>> LEAVE IT TO A GIRL TO OVERTHINK IT.
>> IS THAT YOUR IMPRESSION OF A GIRL?
I LOVE IT.
GIRL DOES
IMPRESSION OF GIRL.
LOVE IT.