Now there's this really fun board game
that Jessica and I like to play and it's
called Pandemic and it's really fun
because we both work together trying to
save the world from the plague.
What could be more fun than that?
And the best part of all of it is that we
are actually in it together we both win
together or we both lose the game together
and it's just a collaborative process.
And as a metaphor, this is really how a
relationship should be.
Both of you are putting effort into it and
sometimes it works out and sometimes it
just doesn't.
That's okay.
So long as you were both in good faith
putting in your best effort to make it
work.
Then there's other types of board games
take Checkers, for example where there's
always one winner and always one loser
which happens to usually be me and rather
than being a collaborative game.
This is a competitive game.
What's good for you isn't good for the
other person and sometimes when you're
dating things end up that way.
If you find yourself in a situation where
you feel like a guy is always trying to
get something from you.
And you feel like he's playing a game with
you in order to actually get something
from you.
Then keep watching this video.
There are five games that men play with
women that are not collaborative.
Okay, it's not working together.
But instead they are against your
interests and hopefully after watching
this video you're going to be keenly aware
of these games that they play so you can
step away from the game altogether and
find the love life that you truly deserve
keep watching.
Hey there, Adam LoDolce from
sexyconfidence.com where I help you create
your love story.
In this video is all about the five games
that men play with women.
Now.
These games are not always necessarily
conscious that guys are playing but lots
of guys set out to do this.
Unknowingly not realizing that it is a
game.
Number one is can I get her to have sex
with me if I keep taking her out?
There's some guys out there that look at
sex is being a transactional thing.
I'll take you on a date, but you better
have sex with me.
If you find yourself in a situation like
that you feel almost guilty that you're
going out with him.
So maybe you should reciprocate.
Don't.
That's not how the game is played.
You should only have sex with someone if
you are feeling it if you are feeling like
there is a great connection there and
don't get guilt-tripped into sleeping with
a guy just because he bought your steak
dinner game.
Number two.
That guy's plays.
How many women can I juggle at the same
time?
There are some guys out there and a lot of
times guys who are in their 20s even 30s
who are just trying to hook up to as many
women as physically possible.
Dating apps have made this incredibly easy
and a lot of guys, I know a couple of them
who will juggle multiple women and seeing
how many women can they sleep with in a
given week.
It's pretty disgusting but it happens is
so if you feel like you're dating a guy
who's a juggler step away because it's not
going to end.
Well game number three, that guy's plays
the.
Can I get laid tonight game now you ladies
ever talked to a guy at a bar and he made
a move on you you're talking things are
going pretty well, and maybe he made a
strong movement to try to kiss you but you
denied him.
So he ends up walking away.
And you think why did you walk away?
Maybe this could have been something the
game that he was playing is he's just
trying to get laid tonight.
There's nothing more.
It's a game.
He's not looking to date he's not looking
to get married.
So looking for commitment.
He's not looking for a girlfriend.
So keep that in mind because there are
guys out there that are playing.
Don't feel bad about yourself.
It's on him game.
Number four is how long can I keep getting
what I want without giving her anything
that she wants.
These are the guys that tell you all the
right things that they want to be with you
that you're amazing is a great connection,
but.
They're never willing to actually commit
their never willing to call you their
girlfriend and really all they're doing is
kind of string you along for as long as
they possibly can until they realize that
all right **** hits the fan and they're
going to leave.
This is a relationship leech.
He sucks all of your emotional energy from
you, but doesn't give you anything back in
return game number five is how can I make
her think that she is the crazy one?
This is what is known as gas lighting
which is.
Epilating a person into thinking that they
are the crazy one.
Let's take an example.
Let's say you're dating a guy and you have
an exclusive relationship with him where
you're not dating other people and you
notice a text go off on his phone from
another woman and it says something like
you're really getting me going smiley face
now because you're sexy single lady,
you're not going to Snoop you're not going
to go through his phone, but you saw that.
You saw that text and clearly that's very
sketchy.
So you go ahead and ask him about it
because that text is really inappropriate
and his response to you is don't worry
about it.
That's just some girl from work and don't
look at my phone.
You're a little crazy.
Stop looking at my phone and you'd simply
just say hey, like can you just show me
the text change so I can understand the
context of why she would say something
like that and he responds.
Now you're just crazy.
You're just clingy stop.
You're insane.
There's nothing going on there that my
friends is gaslighting.
He makes you think that you're the crazy
bitch, not him who's probably cheating on
you.
So if you ever had any guys play these
types of games with you.
If you have leave a comment there below
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