Hey guys, in this video we are going to go
over 25 common signs
that a girl or a woman is flirting with you,
whether it's someone you don't know
and you've just seen them from across a crowded room
or they're in your social circle
or work circle
or you're already in the friend zone.
So, I’m going to go through these 25
common signs pretty quickly,
but just before we get into that,
the more self-satisfied
and content a woman is in her own life,
the more difficult it is to seduce her
because she doesn't need anybody.
And we all need a little bit
of insecurity or ego
for the other person
to be able to play on
to entice into
a level of seduction.
So, just keep that in mind,
if someone is like really, really
contended in their own lives
then you just may not have a chance
to seduce them
because they don't lack for anything.
Okay, so let's just start getting into
the common signs
that she might be interested or flirting with you.
First sign is that
she's facing towards you.
So, her face,
her torso, her body, and her feet
are all facing towards you.
If any of those
are not facing towards you,
she might not be that interested
or interested in inviting you into her world.
Sign number two is if she is
standing or sitting close to you.
So, if she's within your
comfort zone bubble,
if she's inappropriately close to you,
she might be someone who naturally feels
comfortable in that zone,
but she also might be interested in you.
Sign number three, she leans in.
So, if you're talking to her
and let's say it's not even
a very loud venue that you're at
and she leans forward,
then that's more of a sign that she's interested
and of course the opposite is that
if she leans kind of away from you
or again turns her body away from you
then that's a sign that she's not
as interested in you.
Sign number four,
if you're talking to her
and there's lingering eye contact
even whether or not you're talking to her.
She could be across the room, if she continuously
either makes eye contact with you
or lingers with eye contact
and I've done other videos on eye contact,
then she might be interested in you.
So, if her eye contact
feels a little bit
intrusive almost,
so it's like, if someone looks at you
one, two, three,
three second eye contact
will be a good sign that she is
interested in you
or wants you to approach her.
And if you're talking to her,
if you're already in a stage where you're talking to her
and she lingers a little bit longer
than is
seemingly appropriate
for the conversation, because we tend to
break eye contact
some of the time because that's natural.
If you just stare someone down like I did to you right now,
then that feels a little weird
and it's not actually seductive.
So, if she's actually
maintaining
steady eye contact with you
for beyond what feels natural
either from across the room or when you're talking to her,
then that might be a sign that
she's interested in you.
Number five is
if you are close enough to her
for her to touch you,
so if she's touching you
more than she's touching
other people around her,
then that's a good sign that she might be interested in you.
Some women are touchy-feely
but you can kind of gauge based on how much
touch she's giving other people around you
and the second part of the touch part of it is that,
if she is touching and lingering.
So, if she does like touches you on the shoulder
and lets her kind of lets her hand
sort of slide down a bit
or on your elbow and
there's a lingering touch there,
then that's a really good sign
that she's interested in you
and flirting with you.
Again, just watch to see how she
interacts with other people,
is she doing the same thing
with the other people in your in the group
if you're in a group?
If not then again,
she's probably interested in you.
Sign number six.
She smiles at you.
So, if you see her from across a crowded room
and she smiles at you that's
definitely a sign that she's interested in you.
If you know her in your social circles
and she's smiling at you for no reason
then that's also a sign that she's interested in you.
As well as, if you're kind of already friends
and you're mutually in the friend zone,
some of these signs
will still be present but you might not be as keen
to see them because
you're already in an established relationship.
And I’m going to go through a little bit more
about what happens
or what signs to look for
when you're in the friend zone
or when she's already considers
herself in the friend zone
later on in this video, so stay tuned for that.
Okay, so sign number seven
is if she's looking at you
and maintaining eye contact,
if she starts to lower her lids that,
I can't even do it, I can't do it sorry guys.
But if she starts to lower her lids
she's probably not falling asleep,
she's probably getting that doe-eyed look
and I can't do it, sorry, I can't do it.
But anyway, so her lids will actually lower a little bit
and yeah, I don't think I can do it.
Sorry it has to be in the moment.
So, this is something that obviously
you have to be a pretty good actor
to be able to do this
because it comes very naturally.
Like, it's something that our physiology just does
when we are actually interested
in someone or flirting with someone.
So, if our eyelids start to get heavy
and she's not actually tired
then she might be interested in you.
You might be able to feel it,
you might be able to notice women more than you do.
So eight, if the pitch of her voice
starts to go up
or is up from where you happen to know.
And if you don't know the girl then
you won't know if this is happening or not.
But if you know her from work or from
you know, your social life and what not
and her voice is heightened
in terms of pitch like her...
I can't do it.
So yeah, it's an instinctive
and actually it's not even
something that a woman can necessarily control,
but it goes into a more feminine octave.
So, if a woman is automatically
having her voice
go up a bit
then she might be actually
either flirting with you unintentionally
or at least you know she's attracted to you.
And then number nine is actually
the opposite of that.
If her voice goes down
and sign number two,
if it slows in pace
then that's
a good sign that she
might be intentionally
changing the
tone of her voice because
she is intentionally flirting with you.
That's as good as I can do right now,
I'm sorry.
Okay, number 10 is if
she half grins.
So, if you look at her
and she sees you look at
her and she kind of half grins
and
kind of looks maybe
bashful a little bit,
then that might be a sign that
she's flirting with you
or she wants you to flirt with her.
And the next sign
actually is number 11
which kind of coincides with that.
She will usually
look down and look away
and almost kind of be
seemingly to blush.
You might not be able to tell that she's blushing
from a distance this is more of course
if you don't know the girl and she's
a little away a distance away
you're kind of making eye contact
she's facing towards you etc, etc,
and then you kind of give her some kind of sign
maybe you wink maybe you...
Maybe you half grin
and then she reacts by half grinning
looking down and looking away.
She'll usually
look back to see if you're still
looking at her and then she might look away again.
So, that's definitely a sign of
a very subtle
but flirting and also
of interest in you to
flirt with her and take it further.
Sign number 12 which is blushing.
So again, you might not be able
to tell from a distance that she's blushing,
I mean if you close up
and you say something
or you might not even have to say anything.
If a girl is actually interested in you
and she's starting to get a little flustered,
you can actually see her,
you might be able to see her blush
or her chest will sometimes go red,
but even if she's far away,
if she is blushing
she might like
touch her cheek or something like this
because she's feeling warm it's a physiological
reaction that her body
is giving off that
will show you that
she's been affected by you.
And even if she's cool, she might still go oh,
is it hot in here?
Well, she probably won't do that,
but okay, you'll get the sign
like if she's touching her face like this
like that's because she might be feeling warm
because she's blushing and reacting to you.
Number 13 is if she starts playing with her hair.
So, she might look at you, blush, look down,
half grin, look away, look back,
and then like she might
touch her hair
or start fidgeting a little bit.
She'll touch herself.
So, when a girl is kind of touching herself
and nobody else is touching themself
because it's not that kind of party
then she might be interested in you
or being affected by you in a physical way
where she's either is
or is becoming attracted to you.
So, if a girl is
purposefully looking at you
and whirling her hair is super common sign
and sometimes they do it on purpose
or sometimes it's just you know biological,
automatic, can't help it
that's a good sign
that she's either interested or she's actually outright flirting with you.
So, number 14 is
if you're actually
managed to get into a conversation with her
at this stage or you already know her
and you are in a conversation,
then another sign is that she is
perpetually laughing at your jokes
or your half jokes or
even sometimes you might say
something that's not really a joke and she'll be laughing anyway.
So, she'll have these kind of
uncontrollable
sort of giggle fits
and or she's just really
giving you laughter that
you might not even deserve.
15th sign that she is
flirting or interested in you is that she
casually asks about your girlfriend.
So, she kind of makes some kind of assumption
that you have a girlfriend
like, shouldn't you be at home
with your girlfriend tonight
or does your girlfriend let you stay up
this late with your friends?
Or something like that,
it's an opportunity for you to
clarify that you're single.
The next sign that she's interested
or flirting with you
is that she somehow casually
mentions that she's single.
And that might be by you asking some
type of the same sort of question
or if you don't ask her something,
then she will somehow work it into
the conversation that she's single.
She might say something like,
well, if I had a boyfriend
he definitely wouldn't want me talking to you.
So, anything
like that's overt,
but she might say something else
if it's not obvious that
there's a mutual attraction
she might let on that
but she's single in some other subtle way so that
you know she's single
and then she'll kind of want to find out
if you're single as well.
So, 17 is just that
she asks you a lot of personal questions
and she seems really interested in the answers.
And by being really interested in the answers
is that she'll ask you more questions about
whatever you've told her.
She won't just move on to the next topic
or ignore you,
she'll talk more about
whatever your response is.
Did you like it, how was it,
growing up with
you know, three sisters?
Whatever it is, she'll be more
interested and keen to find out more information
about whatever it is that you share with her,
instead of just ignoring you
or ignoring the answer and moving on or talking
about herself constantly.
17 is pretty obvious, she compliments you.
So, she might compliment you on
something physical.
She might compliment you on your looks
or your style
or she might compliment you on
achievements, if you've been sharing
any of your achievements
or she'll find some way
to give you compliments
and she's obviously
impressed by something about you.
Sign number 19 is that
she will brag a little bit about herself.
Now, women tend to be more
subtle about bragging than men.
Which take note, bragging is really,
if you're really overt about it.
We know you want to impress us,
but it's such a turn off
because it really actually just shows
that you want to impress us
and you're insecure about who you really are.
Unless they're a are gold digger,
a side note there unless they're a gold digger
or super shallow and superficial.
So, if that's what you're looking for well, you know
then definitely brag.
But a sign that she's interested in you is that
she will try to find some way
to slip it in
to the conversation
something that she's proud of
that might impress you.
And that might be just saying,
oh yeah, you know,
I’m not sure where I want to go to college because
I have you know I have some options and
I graduated at the top of my class
so, now I’m just trying to figure it out.
So, she's kind of downplaying
by saying I’m trying to figure out where to go,
but really what she's actually
the communication she really wants you to know
is that she's smart or that you know, she's accomplished
something or she's hard working or whatever it is.
She will find a way
to put those little things
in the conversation that might impress you
and let you know
that she's a high value woman.
So, the next one is
facial animation.
So, some women like some girls are just
really stoic in
their facial expression
and you're just really not going to get anything out of them.
So, don't be discouraged if you don't get anything
because that might just be their personality.
But if they're a little bit lively
in their countenance, countenance?
I'm not sure if that's the right word.
Look that one up countenance.
Then if they're even exaggerating
further beyond that and they're like,
you know they've got wide eyes,
big smiles and there are
you know, really kind of keen or making head expressions
or whatever like this,
then they might actually be
either flirting with you or again,
showing subtle signs
even possibly unconsciously
that they're actually interested in you
and you should flirt with them.
So, that one is not going to be necessarily
on every woman
that is actually interested or flirting with you
because not everybody is that expressive,
but if there is any additional or any
elevated level of facial expression
from her than what you know is normal,
if you know what's normal,
then that could be a sign that she's flirting with you.
And then the next step from there
is even more obvious
it's where
she might be telling you a secret
and instead of just coming in close,
she might actually like come really close
and whisper in your ear.
And it might not be anything that's even
important at all, she might be like,
I think that guy drank too much
or I don't know if that guy tipped the bartender
or I’m thinking about
stealing this book from the library.
You know, whatever it is
it's completely insignificant
the only point is that
she wants to get close enough
to smell you.
She wants to get close enough to not only
check out your chemistry and your pheromones,
but also be within your personal space
up close and kind of
give you a more overt sign
that she is interested in you.
So, that's definitely a sign of flirting.
If she's whispering in your ear
or whispering really close
like, she might not be right in your ear
she might come right up close to your face,
but directed to towards your ear of course,
then that's a really,
really strong sign that she's flirting
with you and interested in you.
22 is the eye-eye mouth triangle.
So, she's looking from your
eye to eye to mouth,
then she is either
thinking about what it would be like to kiss you.
Or she's actually giving you the message
that she would like to kiss you
or she would like you to kiss her.
I mean yeah, you could have spinach in your teeth,
but the reality is if she's looking from your eye,
to your eye,
to your mouth,
especially,
well, I'm going to give you the especially in a minute.
Then it's more likely
that she's interested in kissing you
than if you have spinach in your teeth.
Because, if you have spinach in your teeth
she's going to be looking from
your eye to... One eye to mouth.
One eye to mouth, one eye to mouth, one eye to mouth,
and she might even be like,
spinach in your teeth.
So, if she's just looking
from eye to eye to mouth,
then she's most likely flirting with you
or interested in you flirting with her, kissing her.
And the more slowly she does that,
the more interested she is in kissing you.
So yeah, well that's obvious, okay.
And then the next one is
that if she's licking her lips.
If she's doing the triangle
and then licking her lips or parting her lips,
than when they were parting before
that's a really, really good sign
she's flirting with you
and definitely thinking about
kissing you and probably
wants you to kiss her.
And if she's parting her lips and
licking her lips at the same time,
which I’m not going to do for you,
sorry guys, then it's definitely a sign
that she is super
attracted to you
and maybe even wants you
to kiss her at that time.
Depending on where you're at,
at this stage
will determine if you should kiss her at this time
or if you should just take it to the next level,
whichever next step that might be.
The 24th sign that she's interested in you
is that she seeks you out.
So, whether you just saw her from across the room
and she's heading on over to you.
No matter where you are in the stage of
all this flirtation interaction
or if you know her
from work or social circles
and she's constantly seeking you out
and including the friend zone,
then it's definitely a sign that she is
either flirting with you or keen to get to know you
better and maybe wants to get to know you
better romantically.
And of course, the 25th sign
which you are going to get either at the bar
or with really progressive females
or with older women
is that she either tells you
or asks you out.
So, usually
when there's not a certainty
of mutual attraction
women will kind of hang back
go through some of these other signs first
to see where you're at,
but there are still some women out there
whether they're young or drunk
or old that will actually
just go for it and see if you're a game.
And that might actually
throw some alpha guys off
if you're not like super in your alpha
you might be just super appreciative
that the girl took the initiative,
so go for it.
And I wanted to just address
a little bit about the friend zone.
So, if you are mutually in the friend zone
or she's not sure that you're interested in her,
some of these signs
might actually be
more subtle and expressed
over longer periods of time.
So, she might progressively
start with some of the lower signs
like looking at you more frequently.
She might smile, but then look away.
So, she's going to be more tentative along the way
and she'll progress more slowly
into the higher level signs,
because she's uncertain about your
attraction for her because
you're already both in the
friend zone with each other.
So, she's not going to want to disrupt
the relationship if she's not certain that
your feelings are
moving in the same direction
as hers are.
So, it's a little bit trickier,
but all of these signs are still
the same signs that will apply
if you are mutually in the friend zone with each other.
Don't be confused by
me doing that because
I’m always flicking my hair
because I flirt with other people
inadvertently.
Oh, good to know, Anna Jay,
good to know you.
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