Hi, this is Robert Smith. I'm here in Dundrum
Castle and Newcastle County down. And so,
you know, one of the very first clients
or persons I worked on was with OCD,
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
Now unfortunate it's not a disorder. It's
actually an internal processing of
information. You know, of course, you have
these experts who give out disorders and
by noticing behavioral patterns. Now of
course these individuals aren't trying
to change behavioral patterns. They're
trained to understand and notice them. What is Excessive
Compulsive Disorder? I worked with many
many people with this, the skill and
basically what drives the whole system
is fear. What drives the whole system is
that they have internal references and
the reason why they do what they do is
because they're trying to keep
themselves safe. And they don't want
something bad to happen. But what is
going on inside of the mind of someone
doing OCD? And what they're doing inside
their head? I say, I see many of them. For
example the young man who had
obsessively stopped and checked under
his car to see if there was a dead body
under there. and so I just asked him said,
"Hey, you know I'd like to do this too. But
I need you to train me on how to have
this disorder or this skill." and he goes,
"Well, it's kind of weird." I said," Well, I'm
kind of a weird guy."
So I said," Just just kind of help me. So
well, so what do you doing? So you drive
it down the road." He says," Yes." He said," I
feel a bump and in my mind I'll see a
dead body on the car. And so, I pull over,
I get out and I look." I said,"Okay. So here
you are. You're driving, you hit a bump
and you imagine or you see a dead body
in your mind or that just a body out of the
car?" He said," Yes. And then I get out and
check."
And I said," How often? " He says," Often. So I
get back in the car and I'm driving, I
still see the dead body in the car, under
the car. So I pull over a whole bunch of
times. I even go home and I checked
underneath the car when I'm at home. And
I go inside and in my mind, I still see
the dead body on the car, so I go back
and check again." So what he's doing is
giving me a great example of what people
do. They have a picture in their mind
and they see something that isn't true.
But the picture is true and the feelings
back it up. So what I did is, I cleaned up
the memories and I said," What happens if
you don't stop and you continue." Well, of
course, his anxiety gets up and he plays
a scenario. I'm arrested. I'm thrown in
jail.
My mother's crying outside. And they
can't get me out which is the driving
force. So we go back to address the
memories, or just the pain, just the
emotions and to this day, he doesn't pull
over the side of the road when he drives
his truck. Because I showed him what he's
doing in his mind and also changing the
emotional driver. Now this is just one
example. Another example, she has to turn
the stove off a thousand times before
she leaves. Counting to keep her security
and then in her mind when she leaves, she
still sees the fire on. Because see, her
mother left the fire on, the pot got on
fire, they almost lost the house. And so
she's been driven by this pain. Reason
why people do what they do is because
they're trying to find this safety, the
security and get control. So this is what
OCD is. It's not a disease. It's an
internal processing of information. And
it's okay to have some levels of being
perfect, but you don't want to be
controlled by obsessive compulsiveness.
Now of course, we all do our patterns. And
what kind of patterns are you doing? Is
it controlling you or are you
controlling it? This is how it works and
it can be changed. But every person I've
ever worked with
who have what you call this diagnosis,
they've had a lot of bad things happen
to them, a lot of traumas. And now if I could
say anything about all these
disorders that are handed out, there's
one basic area that helps generate and
create this and that is trauma. Emotional
abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse in
early ages and continual abuse in their
life as a children and even as adults.
And they're just trying to get security.
they're trying to find their safety. And
it can change if you have somebody who
knows how to make the changes. I create
practitioners who do this.
I'm a Eutaptics trainer, Faster EFT trainer.
I help people change their lives. And
your life can change too, once you go
there and make peace with it. So this is
Robert Smith here in Dundrum Castle,
Newcastle County down. Peace.
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