Thank you, you're in the right place for the power
of positive parenting buckle up. We're going to jump right in.
I have put together a gift for you. I'm Dr. Paul Jenkins, I'm a Professional Psychologist
specializing in positive parenting. Stick around till the end of the video, I've got
a free gift for you. Positive parenting, what is that all about? Your kids don't
come with an instruction manual, have you noticed? And yet parenting is the most important job
in the world and we're left to basically our own training and experience, and we were trained taught
and educated. Everything that we know about parenting we learned from our own parents,
our culture, the traditions. Programming is very powerful and when I talk about programming,
I'm talking about language for example. We're speaking English here today. I didn't choose to speak English.
I was programmed by people who didn't give me a choice. Whatever your native language is you
were programmed to speak and that's what comes most naturally to you. Now, obviously you can learn
a different language but it's going to require at least two things. There's an intentional choice
to do it to engage on purpose and you have to put in the reps. You got to practice it
and reprogram your brain with whatever that new language is. Parenting is very much
the same thing and there are a few secrets to positive parenting that I've learned in
30 years of clinical experience. I have been a Psychologist, a Professional Psychologist
since 1995. That's before some of you were born and I've learned a lot about what it is that goes
into positive parenting. I come at it from two different angles. There's the parenting angle.
There's the psychological angle and specifically, positive psychology, which I'm also an expert in.
I've written three books on positivity. I get invited to lecture and speak about that topic
all over the place. We're going to combine that in a powerful web class
that is free and available to you at the link that we're showing on the screen right now.
We talk about positive parenting here on the channel all the time and usually it's in little
5 to 10 to 15-minute chunks. I hope that you found that helpful. In this web class, we're doing a deep dive.
We will spend a full hour digging into the secrets behind positive parenting. There's three
of them that I'm going to share with you, that a lot of parents aren't even aware of. In addition
to that, we'll talk about two of the big mistakes that parents make that get them off-kilter
or that cause problem for their children. You're going to want to know what those mistakes are and
I'm talking about the mistakes we make when we're trying to set limits, or when we're communicating
with our children. You've probably already run into them. Being aware of those helps to put you
in a position of greater power and influence as a parent and it's going to help you sleep better too.
Because don't we all do this? We go along and do the best that we know how to do based on
our programming. I mean we come by it honestly right? But then we do something that we know
is off. We yell at our kids or we lash out in anger and then how do you feel?
I know for me that's just so devastating. Because I used to think that I was the greatest parent in
the world. That I was the most patient, loving, kind, tolerant parent, and then Vicki and I had some kids
and actually becoming a parent changes the game. I'm going through this with my son right now.
He and my daughter-in-law just had their very first baby and he commented to me about this
the other day he says, "Dad, I used to think very differently about parenting and now that I am one."
Yeah, it's like a reality check and a call a wake-up call, really. We're going to get into not
only the three secrets of positive parenting and the two biggest mistakes that most parents make in
setting limits and discipline. We're going to spend significant time also on your job as a parent.
So that we can get crystal clear about what it is that you get to do as a positive conscientious parent.
These parents show up differently than other parents. To know these skills sets you apart
from the majority of the parents on the planet. You are going to have knowledge that will absolutely
power up your parenting. My invitation to you is to use this free web class as an opportunity to do
three things. Number one, this could be the starting point for you to feel more confident as a parent.
Hey, I already know that you're a good parent. You're here, you're engaged, you're watching the
videos on the channel and for you to come to this web class is an intentional step that you can take
to say "Yes". "Sign me up, I am part of the positive parenting team that is going to change this world."
I want to increase your confidence as a parent. The second thing that I hope this accomplishes for you
is that it will give you the tools that you need to create a more peaceful calm loving
environment within your home. So that it's a place everybody wants to be. Can you imagine your home
becoming that sanctuary where everyone feels loved and accepted and confident and positive?
That's what we want to create and the third thing that I hope this accomplishes
is that you can start to get your kids to listen without yelling. I told you before,
I thought I was the most patient man on the earth and then I had kids. It brings things out of us
when we get into that parenting role that maybe we didn't expect and it's not characteristic of you
as a patient benevolent loving parent to do all of the yelling that comes up when we get tipped over.
We can help you with that and this web class is my gift to you. I'm not charging anything for
that, I'm spending my time to help you get the tools to accomplish those things. To gain more
confidence as a parent, to create an environment in your home that is peaceful and loving, and to
get your kids to listen without yelling. Wouldn't that be a cool trick? Go to the website right now
DrPaulJenkins.com/Parenting Simple enough, I'm on your team.
I'm looking forward to having you there with me in the web class. Let's team up
together to make this the time that you transform your positive parenting.