So you want to make your ex obsess over you, huh?
Well, you’re in luck, because in this short video, I’m going to reveal 3 sneaky “mind
tricks” that will make this a reality.
Today, I’m going to skip the lame introduction and just jump right into it.
The first psychological tactic that you must employ if you want your ex back is what I
call the “Recovery Period.”
If you’ve just broken up with your ex, then you’re probably experiencing a ton of different
emotions… from sad, to angry, to confusion, or even frustration.
At this stage, all you’ll want to do is talk to your ex.
You might even be tempted to beg or plead for your ex back.
But if you’re at all familiar with my videos on YouTube, or if you’ve ever read my “Ex
Factor Guide” program, you already know that begging and pleading for your ex back
will only make him or her LESS attracted to you.
If your goal is to make your ex obsess over you again, then acting desperate and emotional
will only have the opposite effect.
So, the first step is to “recover” from this heartache and depression.
Once your ex sees that you’re handling the breakup maturely and calmly, he or she will
be more open to communicating with you in the future.
There are a few tips and tricks that can help you with this “recovery phase”…and one
of the best tricks that you can employ is the “no contact” strategy.
I’ve covered this topic extensively in other videos, so I’m not going to bother explaining
it in this video, but the No Contact tactic acts as a one-two punch.
First, it helps you get over your overly emotional state quickly and rapidly, and second, it
allows your ex’s emotions to settle as well.
You wont be able to attract your ex back into your life, let alone make them obsess over
you, unless the No Contact strategy is employed.
That’s not to say that No Contact strategy is the only answer.
There are a myriad of ways in which you can help yourself recover from the breakup…
1.)
Hang out with your friends – While this won’t directly get your ex back, it will
help you deal with the emotions that you’re currently experiencing.
Your friends will not only lend an ear, but they’ll also allow you to forget about your
ex.
Better yet, if your ex sees that you’re having a lot of fun with your friends on social
media, he or she will get the impression that you’re handling the post-breakup period
just fine.
Sometimes, this is enough to make your ex feel enough regret over the breakup that they’ll
want to get back together with you – but this is rare.
So before you feel like throwing in the towel and giving up on life, give your best friend
a ring.
You won’t regret it.
2.)
Join a club or sport – Just like I said, keeping your mind occupied during the breakup
is going to help you immensely.
A great way to keep yourself distracted is to join a club, a sports group, a class, or
any sort of social gathering that you might be interested in.
I know this can be extremely difficult to do if all you’ll want to do is wallow in
your sorrows at home, but I promise you-taking the first step to recovery is often the hardest.
Once you gather the strength to go out and meet other people, it will only get easier
and easier.
And once again, if your ex sees that you’re meeting and attracting more people into your
life, he or she is going to wonder why they let you go in the first place!
3.)
Focus on a hobby or passion – You don’t always have to be around people if you want
to get over your breakup.
Instead, try and pick up a new hobby or passion.
Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but never had the time to try?
Now’s the perfect time to try it out!
And don’t limit yourself to hobbies and recreation – try shifting your focus to
your work or your school too.
Regardless of whether you get your ex back or not, you’re going to thank yourself.
Now, this is just a handful of ways that you can recover from a tough breakup, but if you
want even more advice on how to do this, then just visit my website, BeatTheBreakup.com.
On my website, you’ll discover even more tips and tricks to help you get over your
heartache as quickly as possible.
Now before I continue, it’s really easy to dismiss my “Recovery Phase” tactic…
I know that if you’re a person desperately wanting to get your ex back, it’s difficult
to listen to advice that doesn’t seemingly help with that problem.
But I promise you, recovering from the breakup will only make my next strategy much easier
to employ… which leads me to my next psychological strategy, the “Rekindling Phase”.
In this phase, your main goal is to establish a connection with your ex in a fun and attractive
way.
So right now, here’s where we’re at… we’re finishing up with the No Contact strategy
and we’ve been employing some tips and tricks that we’re using to get over your ex.
Now comes the hard part… reaching out!
This is where most of my clients have the most difficulty.
If your ex dumped you, then he or she will not want to talk to you or get back together
with you without good reason.
He or she is also going to suspect that any sort of attempt at communication by you is
a sign that you miss them.
This is what you DON’T want to happen.
So, how do you reach out to your ex without letting him or her know that you miss them?
And how do you let them know that you’re not interested in getting back together?
In my Ex Factor Guide, I outline several effective ways in which you can do this…but in this
video, I’ll only talk about one.
This is a trick that I call the “Help Date” tactic.
What you need to do is contact your ex and set up a meeting.
But, the key here is that you have to make it seem that the ONLY reason you want to meet
is because you want to ask them for some advice.
For example, say you need help with remodeling your kitchen, and your ex is great at interior
design.
You can ask him or her out for coffee by texting something like…
“Hey!
Hope all is going well.
I am actually in the process of remodeling my kitchen and need help.
I always knew you were good with stuff like this and was wondering if you could help me
out.
Can we grab a quick coffee?”
And that’s it.
By asking your ex out for a very specific reason, he or she won’t feel threatened
by the prospects of meeting you.
But remember, if your ex gets the impression that you miss them and that you want to get
back together, they’ll be extremely hesitant to agree to meet up with you.
Again, this is just one of the ways to set up a meeting with your ex.
If you’re stumped and can’t figure out a way in which you can set up a meeting with
your ex, then you might be interested in checking out the free video presentation on my website,
BreakupBrad.com.
In that video, I’ll go into more depth about how you can use these sneaky, psychological
tactics to force your ex to obsess over you again.
Next, let’s move on to the final strategic step which I call the “Re-Attraction Phase.”
This final stage is the most important step...
it’s where you’ll rebuild the attraction enough to the point where your ex will begin
to obsess over you again.
And again, since this is a short video, I’m only going to go over just a few of the tactics…
if you want to learn about my whole method, just go to BreakupBrad.com.
The first way to make your ex wild with desire is to flirt like crazy.
This is a tactic that’s often forgotten about when my clients try and get their ex
back.
They forget that the fundamental reason why their ex broke up with them is because the
emotional and physical attraction has faded.
In order to make your ex desperate for you again, you need to re-attract him or her back
into your life, and one of the best ways is to do this is by flirting.
So how do you flirt with your ex?
I’ll go over some of the basic tactics that are proven to work, but honestly, you know
your ex best.
You know what works.
And, you know their turn on’s and turn off’s.
Keep this in mind before you meet up with your ex.
But here’s flirting tactic #1 – make eye contact!
There’s nothing ruder and less appealing than talking to a person who just simply doesn’t
look at you.
Your ex broke up with you because they didn’t feel an emotional connection to you anymore,
and they lost attraction.
When you meet up with your ex, you need to prove to him or her that the connection you
shared is still there…and making solid eye contact with him or her is a good start to
making this happen.
Flirting tactic #2 – touch your ex.
Flirting isn’t complete without some playful touching.
Touching is crucial when it comes to creating romance, sexual desire, and attraction.
If I could give anyone just one flirting tip, it would be to touch your ex as much as possible
without coming across as creepy!
So the next time you and your ex are together, don’t be afraid to playfully jab him or
her on the arm, touch their hand, or “flirtily” fix their hair.
Do this properly and your ex will be blushing like no tomorrow.
Flirting tactic #3 – smile!
One of your main goals when you’re hanging out with your ex is to simply have fun.
You’re not going to make your ex obsess over you if you’re being boring, dull, angry,
or dramatic in any way.
So, put a smile on your face and be playful!
Finally, flirting tactic #4 – Use subtle reminders of your past.
Do you remember a steamy, sexy moment you and your ex shared in the past?
A great way to flirt is to subtly bring up one of these past events up.
But the key here is to do this casually.
To better explain, let me jump right into an example…
You could say something like…
“Oh hey… by the way…remember that night at the lighthouse a few months ago?
The place where we went on our anniversary… that was fun, right?
I went by there again a week ago with a friend and they’ve opened a sweet little café
right beside it.
They sell the best crepes.”
Something as simple as that will make your ex to think about a memorable moment you two
shared together… without making it seemed forced or awkward.
So come up with something like this before meeting up with your ex next!
Now, making your ex obsess over you is obviously a lot more complicated than just flirting
with him or her.
Among other things, you need to plant a seed of devotion and desire within their mind so
that they’ll feel compelled to chase you down again… and ultimately, obsess over
you.
Now, I know this video is already getting a little too long so I’ll stop it there,
but if you want to learn the most powerful methods available to make your ex obsess over
you, then you need to head over to BreakupBrad.com.
Again, the URL is BreakupBrad.com…
so just visit that site RIGHT NOW before you do anything else and watch the video that’s
up on there right now.
That’s all for today, everyone!
Talk to you soon.