let's talk about money money is a weird thing to talk about to some people it
might even be a weird subject to you like and before I get to that before I
talk about how I think money is the weirdest thing in the world it's it's
like we we we have this weird I said weird way too many times so you have
this relationship with money like think about if we were a therapist right if we
were out of therapists then like money was on one couch and and you were on the
other and the therapist was there money is one of those things that you you you
some people don't like it or afraid to think about it or don't want to talk
about it too much some people even think money may be bad
or money is evil while simultaneously it's the thing that causes the most
stress and worry in their life it's really crazy it's like you desire it
because it will cause it'll release pain but at the same time you're kind of
pushing it away so that's 30,000 foot let's dig in but first some cool stats I
think you guys should you guys should look at CNBC says finances are the
leading cause of stress in a relationship CNBC Kansas State
University did a study and I'm just pulling a little pieces out of a long
article but the top predictor of a divorce is arguing about money
here's another stat seventy percent seventy six percent of all Americans say
that money is the leading cause of stress in their life so if 76 percent of
people say money is the leading cause of stress in their life what do you think
the number one cause of heart disease cancer anxiety stress the worry that the
the things that are crippling our community are stress and this report
says seventy six percent of people are the most thing they're stressed about is
money in their life so again here we go with that relationship we we we despise
it in so many cases where we get mad on how we can earn it we get mad we don't
have enough of all the stuff well simultaneous it's the one thing that can
take away so much stress in our lives so we're gonna create a new relationship
here in the next few minutes and I'd really love for you to be open-minded
you know sometimes we say hey I want you to think about this sometimes I will
talk to people and they want the Magic Bullet the magic pill the
magic keypad the hit that that is gonna make them money overnight the magic
money machine hell there's a lot of people on Facebook making money selling
the magic bunny machine right and the more I've been in this in this game of
help in this industry of helping others achieve more success more financial
success more stability while simultaneously where I came from of
having nothing in the evolution the more I look at that the more I see the
evolution of it is 80% and I probably would have said 20% than 30 them for the
older I get I realized that 80% of what you need to make more money to be more
successful to start your own business or thrive in the one that you have or take
a side hustler side business or or evolve through the ranks in the current
job you have or the sales position or if you're a network marketer the ability
for you to go faster quicker and higher literally lies between here I think 80%
lies between here and the last 20% of the tactical strategies that you use
whether that's making money in real estate like I teach so many of my
students to do or or making money online or making money with stocks or making
money in your own business or your own company or selling information or
whatever it is that you do I really believe that 20% is the end because if
this isn't right if the foundation isn't right things just fall apart things
croute or crumble thing you give up too soon you get frustrated too easy anxiety
and overwhelm happen too fast and then you back up and your retreat and go
maybe next time and then then you go for the next business or the next thing I
mean how many times the balance and balance and balance thinking this one
will be the magical one this one will be the magical one no without the core
foundation for success you could bounce around from job the job business the
business opportunity opportunity for your whole life and I want that to stop
and that's why I'm so I don't take you guys being a part of this group lightly
I I want to share with you what I believe are the greatest strategies to
get you to that next level of where you want to go so thank you for all the
comments of the wind okay so let's let's get to some let's get to the money
relationship and the beliefs that so many people have and maybe some
of these you don't have so let me go through four beliefs that I think are
crippling if you have any outs of it and we want to spin those today so number
one money is scarce we've all been told that money doesn't grow on trees and
what that is is we feel that money is scarce or in fact we live in a fear that
it's gonna run out or gonna vanish and we know that money doesn't vanish
money's not going away there's the same amount of money if not more around the
world than there's ever been it's not getting smaller
let think about that like really think what I just said money is not shrinking
right in fact this year America alone and I've said the stats a lot of you
have heard this but because it boggles my mind that there's 1,700 new
millionaires being created every day in America think about that 1,700 new
millionaires every single day in America it's at 80 doing the math yeah like
every hour every every I mean it's crazy right so think about that and and I took
some notes here so instead of instead of the question and this is this is one I
really want you to think about what happens is when we think about money is
scarce and it doesn't go on trees and we have this feeling that it's getting
shrinking and it's going away what we ask ourselves is this how do I protect
myself how do I save this money how do I make sure no one takes what I have and
that mindset keeps you on the sidelines I want you to say what about asking
yourself a different question because here's the thing if money doesn't
disappear if we know it's the same amount or more can we agree on that if
it's not disappearing that all it is is money is moving from one group of people
to another group of people same amount of money if they're still let's say
there's $100 and you're moving it around amongst a bunch of people it's just
who's getting the chunk of it there's still $100 the same sum total is there
it's just moving differently so the question you should be asking yourself
is now how do I hold on to what I have how do I make sure I don't lose any of
this how do I make sure you know I keep the lights off at night I'm not saying
you shouldn't be conservative what I'm saying is instead of having that mindset
what we should be saying is how do I become the person and this is one write
this down I hope you I hope you're paying attention here today guys I hope
you're not playing with social media looking around try to focus on this
because the question should be how do I become the person where the money is
moving to rather than away from right just a same little same thought process
just a different shift instead of instead of thinking money as scarce and
it's going away now there's 1,700 new millionaires a day in America alone
being created right now money's not getting scarce it's just those people
money is flowing to them and somebody else who's standing there trying to
protect the little and protect themselves and and being thinking as
scarce mindset their money is slowly going away now I am surely not gonna be
an advocate or say that you shouldn't be conservative that you shouldn't save
money that you shouldn't be smart with your money of course you should but
here's what I know in the evolution of my life of going from that kid living in
a bathroom with my dad and not having money and all those things and I'm not
saying that to give you my like my my pitch or my story but when I look back
at when I tried to save and be conservative because I listened to you
know maybe grandparents that went through the depression or listen to
people that you know it's like you're crazy what I realize is when you change
your mindset on money when you gain the capabilities and when you take action it
is in my opinion you could disagree with me in my opinion money is easier to flow
to you and make it than it is to save it I even looking at in my business I'm
like hey let's tighten up on expenses and I'll look through all these things
like okay if we tighten up all those because they're such a big company now
we could save this much but if we if I write a new book if I start a new
campaign if I do some more real estate deals I can bring in this much with a
little with the same amount of effort like save this much or just make this
much how the hell with it keep everybody there keep the lights on I'm gonna go
make it over here now I might be an extreme but I'd like to give you a
little bit of that that if we stand on the sidelines Envy
those making more being not jealous but like desiring what other people have but
we're afraid because we want to hold on to what we have and be afraid to take
action a lot of times those opportunities pass us by okay right
number two thank you guys for the comments coming in Laura you're awesome
too this is awesome we didn't say I was
awesome but you know I'm gonna say you're awesome uh-huh
so let's look at number two we believe if we make it that we're taking it from
others or hurting others and that's so false but I want you to dig in and I'm
not gonna go deep on this one I just want you to think about that because I
will talk to people who are just aunt time money they want to be in it's it's
it's this like two forces fighting inside their body they want to start
their own business they want to be a capitalist they want to be an
entrepreneur they want to take ownership of their life they want to be in control
while simultaneously they feel bad because they feel like if they're making
too much of it they're actually taking it from other people they're not you're
not in fact I want you to have a new thought process on that when you make
money if you want to change the world if you want to make an impact on your
family if you want to make an impact on your church if you want to make an
impact on those that need it those in Houston right now those in Florida right
now are those struggling in the Midwest or those struggling in Mexico or around
the world or build a school in Africa
you have a desire you have an obligation to make money and in fact when you make
money you help the world thrive
if you get the economy in your house thriving and you get that security and
confidence in and feel like I'm freakin safe no matter what I'm making enough to
live the lifestyle I want I'm safe you get to impact other people now let's
take it to another level you start making more money are you actually
taking it from people or if you get the economy in your house going and you're
flourish in your house do you maybe hire someone to take care of your lawn do you
hire someone to take care of your house do you hire someone to make meals for
you do you drop off more dry cleaning do you get a new car do you maybe upgrade
in a house do you start leaving the air-condition lower do you get a
personal trainer do you get a natural path you get a nutritionist when you
make money you help the world grow this is the complete opposite it's completely
false to think that if you make money you're hurting someone else when you
make money and change the economy in your house you can change the economy
and affect the world someone who doesn't have a job mowing a lawn right now could
have a lawn mowing company or business if you get out there make more money and
start spending it what's up what's up hey before you go you need to watch
these next few videos they're absolute game changes hurry up and click right
over here and watch them and I'll see you there
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