So you and your partner broke up, and now all you can think about is how to win them
back?
Lucky for you, there are some key ways to win them back.
My name is Brad Browning and I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada.
You may recognize me from another one of my videos or know of my best selling The Ex Factor
Program.
Today I’m going to share with you the three things you can do to make your ex want you
again.
So, without further adieu, let’s get started.
The first and perhaps most important thing you need to do if you want your ex to want
you back, is to not chase them.
Now you may be thinking, “Well obviously,” or “But how else am I going to get them
back?”
so let me explain.
The thing is, your ex expects you to chase after them so by doing the opposite you’ll
not only surprise them, but it’ll also re-spark their interest in you.
Since your ex is used to having you around, when you cut off ties with them they won’t
know what hit them.
But in order for this to work, it means putting a stop to all phone calls, texts, Facebook
lurking and messages, Snapchat shots, hangs out... the works.
It you can do this successfully for at least 30 days, then your ex will without doubt miss
you and wonder where you are and what’s going on in your life.
Even if you’re dying to get back together with your ex, don’t be the one to show it.
Incessantly calling or messaging them will turn them off you.
No one wants to date someone who’s desperate or clingy.
So play it cool and distance yourself for a while.
Spending this time apart will also give your ex the chance to forget about all the negative
things in your relationship that caused the breakup, and replace them will good memories.
If you’re worried that they may forget about you during this time, they won’t, as long
as you play your cards right.
To find out more about how to successfully use the no contact period to your advantage,
visit www.BreakupBrad.com and watch the full video presentation.
It’ll get you on your way to making your ex want you back.
But before you do, let’s first talk about the two other things you need to do to make
your ex want you back.
The second thing you can do to make your ex want you back is appear busy.
Even if you have absolutely nothing going on in your life, it’s important to make
yourself seem busy, or better yet, get busy.
Showing your ex that you have a lot going on in your life and that you’re having a
great time without them will make them realize you’re strong, independent and perfectly
content with being on your own.
Even if this isn’t the case and you feel like a complete mess without your ex, it’s
important that they think otherwise.
A great way to get comfortable with this is by embracing your newfound single life and
spending time hanging out with your friends, taking on new hobbies or achieving goals you’ve
been putting on the back burner.
So go out often, laugh a lot, and live life to the fullest.
People love it when their partners are carefree and fun - no one wants to be with someone
who’s constantly down or stressed out.
So when you do this and your ex sees that you’re cheerful and having a blast with
other people, they’ll begin to ask themselves why they broke up with you in the first place.
It’s important to not be too obvious about being busy and having fun, you don’t want
your ex to think you’re faking it - that would come off as strange or crazy even....
Remember, your goal here is to remind your ex how much fun it is to be around you.
It also doesn’t hurt to make a point of looking your best when you know you’ll be
seeing them.
That’s where point three comes in…
So, last but not least is improve yourself.
Whether this means hitting the gym, making healthier eating habits, rethinking your hairstyle
or vamping up your wardrobe, do whatever it takes to feel good about yourself.
It’s a little known fact that when you look good you feel good, when you feel good you’ll
feel stronger and more confident.
While you become a confident, strong person, physically and emotionally, keep in mind that
you’re doing it for yourself, not for your ex.
At the same time your ex will get the message that you love yourself and that your world
does not revolve around him or her.
Who knows, you may even get others interested in you, and when this happens your ex will
probably go into panic mode, realize that they’ve given up someone who is beautiful
inside and out, and come running back to you.
To start your improvements, make a list of three flaws that you'd like to change about
yourself and slowly start to address them.
It takes a lifetime to grow as a person, but even taking small steps to become your ideal
self can help your relationship.
Remember, confidence is hands down the sexiest thing you can wear and the best way to get
your ex wanting you back.
Well that’s all for this video, I hope you’re feeling ready to get your ex wanting you back.
If you have any questions, feel free to post them in the comments below - I always do my
best to answer each of you.
For those of you looking for a bit of personal guidance I do offer one-on-one coaching to
a limited number of clients.
Feel free to check out my availability and learn more about my services at www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching.
I’d be happy to answer any questions you have about it.
As always thanks for watching and until next time, take care and good luck!