- Now, there are endless videos out there on YouTube
trying to teach you how to make a man miss you
in a way that isn't authentic or manipulative.
But fear not, sexy single lady,
because as you know with Love Strategies
we don't teach you manipulative garbage
that's only going to get you short-term results.
We teach you strategies that will help you attract
a long lasting relationship.
And in this video right now
I'm going to be revealing seven playful ways
to make a man miss you and do it in a way
that is authentic and very real.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam LoDolce from Love Strategies
where I help successful single women get out there
and attract long lasting love
and do it with a proven strategy.
And here's one thing that you probably noticed
when it comes to attracting men,
when we are missing you that is a very good thing for you.
That means we are going to continue pursuing you,
continue chasing you.
And on the other hand, when we feel completely smothered
we are probably going to pull away.
So if you find yourself in a situation
where you're constantly chasing the guy,
use one of these strategies
to make him miss you a little bit
and create that space that's needed in the relationship.
Strategy number one is to plan a weekend away with friends.
If you just recently started dating a new guy
and you find that every single weekend,
you've just spent it together
and you're starting to spend a lot of time together
now would be a good time to create that space,
plan something fun with some of your girlfriends.
And the best part of this is you can actually go out
and have some fun with your girlfriends, okay?
Maybe there's a city close by
where you've always wanted to go, plan a weekend away,
go spend some time with some of your friends.
Or maybe it's just a cabin in the woods,
because right now it's still a little bit difficult
to go away.
Whatever it is, that's totally fine.
But spending time with other people
is definitely going to make him miss you,
especially if the things that you're doing are really fun.
Strategy number two is to cut the evening short
but you can promise him that the next time you see him
you're going to surprise him with something.
Don't be afraid to be the person
who cuts the evening short every once in a while.
That's perfectly okay
and it's going to leave him wanting more.
And you can have a valid excuse for doing that.
Maybe you have an early morning ahead of you,
maybe you have to work, maybe you have to get back to kids.
Whatever it is, that's totally fine.
But the next time you see him,
leave him with this little idea in the back of his head
and let him know you're going to
surprise him with something.
And depending on where you are in the relationship
that surprise could be something sexual in the bedroom
or that surprise could just be simply
you take him to one of his favorite places for dinner.
Whatever it is, that's totally fine.
But you can cut that evening short
and leave some type of surprise
that he's going to be thinking about
and he's going to be missing you that whole time.
That is the hook that keeps them coming back for more.
Strategy number three is to not respond
to his late night texts, but in the morning,
give him a little bit of love.
Now I'm the type of person after about 8:30,
my phone goes on, do not disturb.
I don't really like to text much before bed.
Now, if you find that you're the type of woman
who is constant texting guy throughout the entire night,
maybe you try the same strategy.
Don't be afraid to every once in a while
cut your phone time a little bit short at night,
but then in the next morning,
if he's texted a few times at night, that's okay,
let him go to bed wondering where you are
and maybe missing you a little bit.
And then the next morning,
send him a little bit of love texts,
That can be words of encouragement for the upcoming day,
or just telling him that you're thinking about him.
Whatever it is,
it's good for him to sometimes go to bed wondering,
where are you?
Strategy number four is to leave your scent.
If you ever sleep at a guy's place
don't be afraid that next morning
when you're putting on whatever your scent is,
don't be afraid that it hits his pillow just a little bit.
As a guy, I will tell you,
it's an incredible thing when a woman leaves
but then you get back down on your pillow
and you can still smell her.
He's going to be thinking about you
for the rest of the day, I assure you.
The fifth way to playfully make a man miss you
is to keep the mystery alive.
I call this the, let's leave it for next time technique.
This has to be used when you go on a date with guy
and spend two or three hours with him.
You know that it's time for the night to actually end
and he asks you some really deep question
that maybe right now is not the right time.
You can just say to him, you know what,
let's leave that for next time.
It's really powerful, because now you are in control
of when that conversation is going to be had.
And now you have total power over the situation.
And he's going to be thinking about you,
he's going to be thinking about that conversation.
And you know, how it's going to be going
between the two of you.
The six playful way to make a man miss you
is to send him a picture
of you doing a fun activity with your friends.
Now you can do this through Instagram, through Snapchat.
Or just if you're like me
and don't use most of those things,
you can just send him a picture of you
when you're out with your friends
and just send him a picture
of you guys doing something really fun and playful.
He's going to be thinking to himself,
damn, I wish I was there and I want to be over there,
but he can't be over there
because you're spending time with your friends
because you are an independent woman
who's got her own social life.
He is going to miss you and want to pursue you
and want to see you
and do those types of fun things with you.
Yes, you, you sexy single lady.
And the final strategy that I think is really helpful,
once you get to the two to three months stage
of a new relationship is to just take a week off.
This is where you might take a week
to really focus on yourself,
your work or your other friends.
And it's really healthy to do this sometimes.
Now you don't have to tell him we're taking a week off.
In fact, you shouldn't tell him that.
But this should be a week where you are especially busy,
you have a lot going on
and religious focus on the things
that you need to get done in your life.
Sometimes just taking a pause in the relationship
just for a week, or maybe it's a half a week
to just really focus on you
is a great way to make him think about you and miss you.
So, as you'll see throughout all these strategies,
all of this is focused on helping you
date with authenticity.
And notice that all of these things will make him miss you
but they're done in playful, fun ways.
So I urge you, don't play any games.
And if he's trying to play games,
don't lean into that stuff.
Be you, be authentic, be real
and realize that the man is with you
because you are an incredible woman
and you bring a lot to the relationship.
And if you are really ready to date with intention
and find a long lasting relationship
that serves you in a very healthy way,
then again, check out loveapply.com,
where you can apply to speak with someone on my team
about your love life
and see if you're a fit for my coaching program
called Love Accelerator.
Thank you again so much for watching.
And again, give this video a like,
don't forget to subscribe and I'll speak to you,
you sexy single lady, next week, bye-bye.