"I have a boyfriend" "I have a math test" A math test? Oh i thought we were just naming things we could
cheat on oh let's face it man at least half the women you approach are probably gonna say
unfortunately i have a boyfriend i already have a current boyfriend the thing is i have a boyfriend
i'm married boyfriend your boyfriend we are merits which can make you want to rip your
hair out if you don't know how to handle it so you better be prepared so here are my best
tried and true responses to i have a boyfriend that could get her to actually change her mind
the key no matter how you respond is that you don't get emotionally affected you don't get
all douchey and say well he's not here is he and you also don't become a wimp and you say oh i'm
sorry i didn't know i didn't know instead it's no big deal because it really isn't a big deal
so one of the best ways to show that you're not emotionally affected by it is to agree
and just overcome you might say of course you do there'd be something horribly wrong with the world
if you didn't have a boyfriend but i don't want to be your boyfriend i just want to get to know you i
had a feeling there'd be something horribly wrong with the world if you didn't have a boyfriend i
just want to get to know you you seem cool which makes her go yeah that makes sense and if there's
any doubt in her mind that he might not be around for the long run she'll probably at
least be down to exchange contact information to get to know you my next favorite way to reply
on a similar note is to agree and absertify yes that is an a and yes i know absurdify
technically isn't a real word but we're going to use it anyway basically it means agree with her
and then just blow it out of proportion when you blow something out of proportion you turn
it into a joke and when you're laughing and joking about something it shows her clearly
that you're not affected by it here's an example you could say yeah for sure you have a boyfriend
i had a feeling but it's not like we're gonna make out right here in the middle of the mall
in front of everybody but if we did hang out sometime we can at least be friends
here put your number on my phone well hang on tonight you can invite your boyfriend write my
instagram if we meet up with your boyfriend and your friends just don't tell them i hit on you
the reason i really like this one is because when you talk about making out you're blowing it out of
proportion but also you're telling her that you're not gonna make out with her and what happens when
somebody tells you not to do something or not to think about something don't think of a pink
elephant don't think of a pink elephant don't think of a pink elephant right you start imagining
it and did you notice the subtle nlp command it's not like we're gonna make out in front of
everybody but if we did pause hang out sometime it's sneaky kind of cheeky but effective next is
to playfully object again when you turn it into a joke it shows her that you're really not affected
by it i like to say no that's not gonna work for me you're just gonna have to break up with him
and she'll be shocked she'll be like what no and then i'll just say okay fine i guess i'll just be
your lover on the side you're gonna have to break up with him that's not gonna work for me i'm sorry
fine i'll just be your lover on the side i guess next and this is probably my all-time favorite
because it actually finds out a lot of information is he the one now you have to say this again in a
very unaffected way can't be like oh is he the one no don't do that look happy for her
and just casually say that's awesome but i'm curious do you think he's the one
well if there's any sign of doubt then there's a pretty good chance that they're gonna break up
in the near future in fact if she said something like well i'm not sure then i'd probably ask how
long have they been together who knows she might have just met him a couple weeks ago which makes
the chance that they're gonna break up go up to about 95 trust me i have done the research in fact
even if she's married there's still a 50 chance that it's not going to work out i'm sorry those
statistics are awful but they're the truth now i'm not saying you should be a homewrecker and try to
still go after her even if she has a boyfriend but if it seems like there's some doubt in her mind
that they're not going to be together then yes get her contact information and stay in touch with her
because chances are they're gonna break up in the future in fact i just taught a boot camp in miami
where two guys approached two girls on the beach and one of the guys asked her is he the one after
she said she had a boyfriend and she said no he's a drug dealer well i think he's the one
now if she clearly says yes he's the one he's the man of my dreams i'm gonna spend my life with
him then all is not lost you can always ask for referrals just say well i'm curious do you have
any cute single friends that are cool like you and maybe you have some cool single friends that are
cool like you yeah who knows yeah all right here do you have any cute friends that are cool like
you i have a party i'll text you later awesome i've said this many times and if you had an
attractive confident approach then of course she's gonna want to set you up with her friends because
she can't have you but guess what she wants her single friends to meet a cool guy like you now of
course you can't just ask this right away if you approach her and say hey you're cute and she says
thanks i have a boyfriend you can't just say oh do you have any cute single friends first you have to
have an attractive conversation and if you don't know how to do that i created an entire video
training on how to approach women in any situation spark instant attraction do it in a confident
charming way that women absolutely love that never comes off as creepy and even how to get her
to start chasing you and get an instant date right there on the spot in two or three minutes so check
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