you can like a girl all you like hey you might even love her but she might not actually feel the
same if you think that she could not possibly be using you it's worth taking another look
in the long term you don't want to be left heartbroken and alone and if your gut is telling
you that something is missing or something is actually wrong it might just be and in this video
gentlemen we are going to show you how to tell if a woman is using you it's not always the nicest
thing to discuss but if in the long run it saves you some heartache well it's gonna be worth it
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the very first thing is that she's using you for your job maybe you have a great job
and you're very proud of it your girl is as well but not because the job makes you happy
people who use people always do it because they want something more when it comes to your job
it's not always your money that they are after they are using your amazing position to name drop
it into conversation they might not have the high flying career that they always dreamed of and so
they are using yours to make it seem like they have achieved something
and it might seem like a compliment when they mention your job all the time in conversations
but eventually you might become embarrassed by it and realize that she likes your job
more than she likes you she never commits you may have been seeing her for a while and so you ask
her to meet your friends and but she seems to have a million excuses as to why she just cannot make
it this needs to be setting off your alarm bells someone who really truly likes you would love to
meet your friends and would take it as the biggest compliment ever a user might also never commit to
things like holidays and short breaks away they would never meet your parents or any family
members they are just not interested in committing to you which is really hurtful and you deserve
better so if you notice this type of behavior ask the girl and if she gives you a vague reply
move on swiftly she demands gifts this is classic user behavior demanding gifts dates or vacations
it might start off small with her please can you pick me up a chocolate bar from the shop but
eventually it will turn into demanding handbags cars and clothes and she might even ask for you
to pay for a vacation for her and her girlfriend without you this is really obvious user behaviour
and if your girl starts doing this walk away girls will never demand gifts if they like you
they will wait until you surprise them and they will be so thankful and very delighted
you never have deep conversations a lady who is using you will not care to know that much
about you she just needs to know enough so that she can use that to get what she wants
she does not want to form a connection with you because unfortunately she does not really like you
she talks about surface level things your job your favorite tv program but you won't catch
your asking about your childhood your family and friends and what you think about what you
want to happen in the future you feel like she holds the cards and the relationship is lopsided
do you always feel like in the relationship you were putting in all of the effort you are pulling
out all of the stops too your gestures never seem to be returned or even appreciated these are the
signs sadly of a lopsided relationship sometimes this means that she doesn't really like you and
other times it means that she's using you she might also seem to hold the cards this looks
like her telling you what to do and when to do it it's unfair and you shouldn't be treated like that
she is slow to reply to you if you are texting a girl and it seems like she always takes forever
to reply it might be she is just using you for that tiny bit of attention she might be feeling
lonely or just likes guys giving her attention so she strings you along if a girl is taking forever
to text you back ask her straight up if she likes you because she might actually just not like to
text and things are okay but if she replies with a vague answer then you will know she's using
you and the speed of someone texting back is a great way to tell if they really are using you
you are paying all of her bills maybe she didn't have any money so she asks you to help her out
and pay some then it just continues she never says hey here's the money back thank you so much i can
pay my own bills now type of thing instead she just lets you continue to pay her bills while she
spends money on clothes and makeup well you don't need me to say this but it's a sure sign that she
is using you so that she does not have to pay her own bills so please watch out for this type of bad
behavior she only talks to you when she needs help does she text you or message you only when she
needs something maybe she needs help moving house or she needs you to drive her somewhere so you go
and do it because well you like her but after you have helped her out though she doesn't message you
again until she needs something else you might start to notice that she is only interested in
you and nice you and only talks you when she needs something these are typical behavioral signs of
a user your friends and family warn you about her if your friends and family start to warn you about
her behavior chances are she's a user friends and family are normally some of the first people to
recognize this types of behavior they might notice that you always seem to be doing all of the work
or only talking to her when she needs help they will most likely tell you quietly and although
you might not see this in the beginning you might start to notice the patterns further along down
the line so if your friends and family point this out save yourself the heartbreak and walk away
when you voice your opinion she makes you feel like a bad person a girl says something that you
don't agree with so you politely disagree and she makes you feel like a bad person or like you are
very dumb this is extremely toxic behavior to be honest anyone who does this to you should not be
allowed in your life you are allowed to have your own thoughts and your own opinions and someone
who really likes you and respects you would never put you down or make you feel bad so keep an eye
out for repeat behavior just like this she always plans what you do and you never actually get a say
if you do pin her down to go on a date well then she ends up planning it or she demands whatever it
is she wants you always end up at the restaurants she likes the bars she enjoys going to or concerts
that she likes if you suggest going somewhere else she's going to shoot you down and say maybe next
time but you never actually end up going for the next time you feel like you are always doing what
she wants this is a sure sign that she is using you just so she can go to places that she likes
she most likely also always makes you pay which is another sign she's using you she only messages you
at night maybe you are up late playing card and she messages you saying hey are you up
this is a booty call yep booty calls from girls not just guys if she is only messaging you at
night it's a sign that she's using you for comfort or sex you might only just want sex which you
can agree and have a casual relationship but if you like her or love her then sex is not enough
you need to tell her that you like her more than she likes you and see if she can give you
a chance and if she doesn't take it it means she doesn't like you and she will yeah she's using you
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