uncle C, back in the office and in today's video, I'm going to be discussing the one
trait that all masculine men have that turns all women on that virtually you're going to
have to ingrain into your head.
And virtually, you're going to need to get through anything in life, whether that be
big or small, a hard task, or not so hard task, or virtually attract the type of companion
that you've always wanted.
This one trait is so crucially important that without it, not only will you be low status,
but ultimately you will be dumbed heartbroken and cheated time and time again.
And even if you have great and or proper seduction, you will be burned on the s3 actual playing
field time and time again.
Let's dive in.
For those of you who don't know me, my name is Casey zander.
I'm the founder of headman and I'm here to revitalize masculinity and help make men full
stack.
So, you might be wondering, Hey, I click this title for a damn good reason.
What is the number one trait that all masculine men have that 99 percenters don't?
The number one trait fellas is going to be emotional control.
I want you to let that sink in for a second emotional control.
What does that mean?
And what have you been taught see men throat of today have been taught to overly Mote they
have been taught to show their feelings.
And here's here's the worst piece of all of this is they've been taught to lead with feelings.
Now the second that you lead with feelings this fellas is exactly what strips you from
everything that made you a man in the first place.
If men have been conditioned to do this, here's what's going to happen.
Not only are women going to view you as a less viable option, going to view as less
dependable going to view you as less safe.
But what you're going to find time and time again is they will lose attraction due to
the fact that you are not able to carry out tasks and or missions.
From objective truth.
This goes so deep on every level, I even made notes today, as you have been taught to feel
more in retrospect with that you lose your strength.
And the strength is the ability to make decisions and to be decisive regardless of how you feel.
You see what men have been taught says you've been taught to feel and when you feel that
how you feel is the correct way by default.
Here's what happens when you lead with emotion.
When a woman sees a man lead with emotion, she will start to give abrasion in the argument
and she will oftentimes counter his lead, because she knows that it's the wrong decision.
And ultimately, she knows that it's the decision that he does not want to make.
But he's continuing to make it anyways.
When you see men without emotional control, here's what you're going to see you're going
to see anger, you're going to see frustration, you're going to see rage, you're going to
see low motivation, and you're going to see men who are not on their purpose.
Let's look at the first one anger.
See, when a man is not able to control his himself, he gets angry, certain things trigger
him.
And because he has no stability, he has no focus within his life.
He has no ability to lead by objective raw, masculine truth.
This is going to be the number one hindrance when it comes to you actually being a dedicated
man of value.
And in today's video, I'm going to show you exactly why no since it is Friday, I personally
believe that I owe everybody a little story with why I'm talking about this today and
how I came to terms with this.
So I'm working with a one to one client right now.
Okay, and I'm gonna leave his name private, he actually lives in a completely different
part of the world than I live in.
But he's understanding the ways of MBT and he's getting into his solid masculine frame
and he's dating a woman and this is a great story.
So he took his woman his girlfriend has ltr out to dinner, okay.
And when he took her out to dinner, they went with another couple, okay, and the couple
was her friend, and then the boyfriend of the of her of the other one that they were
with.
So it's basically a couple's date, right?
When they go and the two part ways at the end of it, here's
what happens.
She looks her boyfriend dead in the eyes.
And she says me and that other guy could tell that we had a moment.
Okay.
And this causes confusion in his head.
He goes, Well, what kind of moment I noticed you wouldn't give it to him shoot and say
what type of moment Oh, just a moment.
I could tell like we had a connection we had a moment hurt she and she she's telling her
boyfriend.
This about the other guy that she's sitting across from who is also with a woman.
Now let's look at this from a few different angles.
Number one, the man who already had a woman is ultimately going to be showing pre selection
value.
So whether he's high value or not, he just by default, having a woman by his side, this
automatically peaks that woman's interest.
Now depending on how rock solid the man that she is with depending on a rock solid, his
seduction and his masculine frame is going to dictate the amount of emotional attachment
that she has towards him.
Here's what I can tell you Clearly it was not enough because she's willing to test and
she's willing to go to these lengths.
This is what this man told me.
He said, Casey, what do I do?
And I got to this in a little bit, I steered him the right one, I showed him what to do.
But ultimately, he felt triggered, okay.
In the past, he said that he would have became extremely emotional, he said he would have,
he would have, he said he would have beat a dead horse, right?
Basically, interject inside of that argument time and time again, hour after hour after
hour after hour.
And he knows that he would have not gotten anywhere he knows, he would have not gotten
a straightforward answer out of her why?
Because that is not exactly how a woman is going to communicate with you in the relationship.
When he started to notice this test, he looked at his past behavior and what would have ended
in a fight, what would have ended in him making himself look like a weak man, you know, or
a four letter word that starts with a B, what would have made him look weak and impulsive,
by feeding into that by feeding into that garbage of his girlfriend saying I had a moment
with a different guy, he was able to catch it.
And it's because he was in his masculine frame.
And he stopped leading with emotion, he stopped leading with anger, he stopped letting women
in the relationship move him off his center.
And he took a step back, and he took a deep breath.
And he messaged me on on my one of my client communication panels.
And he goes, Casey, what do I do?
I said, Listen, you got to take a step back number one that most certainly was a pest.
And number two, she wants to see if you are man enough to deal with it the correct way,
if you're strong enough to deal with it the correct way.
I said, Here's what I can tell you, a woman that genuinely cares for you, and that J has
a genuine desire for you.
Not only will she never say something like that, but she would be fearful of losing you,
she would not want to rock the boat and tell you that she had a moment with a different
man to your face.
The only reason that that woman has the ability to do that is because she knows that you don't
have the power to walk away, that you will take that and you will take that in you will
create an argument out of it, you will act insecure about it, you will act anger about
it, you will act bitter about it.
And despite her being in the wrong at that specific time, he knows that I was right.
And the reason why I was right is because every single step that that man would have
taken would have led him down a road of misery and down an entire night of nothing more than
argument.
So he stayed in the center.
He said, Casey, what do I do?
I said, here's what you need to do.
I said, Is this the type of woman and the type of behavior that you want to be with?
Is this the type of behavior that you want to see Express from your girl that you've
known now for years?
He says absolutely not.
So okay, then you need to remove yourself as either send her a text, or call her up
and say, Hey, I no longer want to be with you.
I'll come by and get my stuff tomorrow.
And he did just that he owed her zero explanation.
He owed her zero apology, he was fully in control.
And I guarantee you that that shifted that woman's emotional state where she sat there
for a second and goes, Oh, shit, I might have bit the hand that feeds, I might have misjudged
the character of this man and of this man's masculinity.
For a second, I may have misjudged how strong he actually is.
And he's not necessarily so emotionally invested, that he will not walk away.
This man will not tolerate bullshit, this man knows how to command his worth, and how
to command his value.
So what's the moral of the story?
The moral of the story is this, the more you let BS happen in a relationship, not only
are you slowly masculine ated, but naturally, you will slowly start to lead with emotion,
instead of your emotional control and your masculine frame.
The number one trait that all strong masculine men have that turns women on is the ability
to have emotional control and emotional indifference.
Now, keep in mind, this does not mean that you don't feel anything.
But what it means is that you're strong enough to recognize how you feel and despite how
you feel, you're able to actually push through that and still lead with raw, objective truth.
This is the biggest hack the biggest superpower that all men can take away from right from
the single video to not only increase their chances of love and their chances of intimacy,
but to finally command the respect that they've always deserve.
They just have not necessarily known how to frame do not take that type of BS in a relationship
from anybody.
Because a true man will know his worth a true man will carry himself as high status, a true
man will carry himself as high value.
So fellas, what am I getting at?
By the end of this video?
Have you noticed you have made any of these mistakes meaning if you have seen that in
the past, you have not had the emotional control or the emotional stability over yourself in
certain times when you wish you would have I highly, highly, highly, highly cannot stress
this enough.
I highly recommend you going down below and clicking the link and registering for the
MBT webinar.
Okay MBT stands for mens masculine behavioral training.
And this is the only four steps that a man needs to master for the rest of his life to
have success with women attract and keep The woman who has always wanted and this works
at any height at any age, at any skill at any income level, when you adapt these specific
personality traits, you are able to carry yourself substantially better and become a
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