How to meet women how do I meet more women
what's the easiest way to meet women give me more tips about meeting women
those are the kind of questions I get a lot and I want to answer them
in this video at least to a degree first of all let's say one thing ok when we
say how can I meet more women
what guys really mean is how can i meet women I find attractive
that are single that want to give me their numbers easily where i'm not going
to run the risk of
getting rejected of looking like a fool in front of my friends
and where I don't have to approach them and where I don't have to
basically approach groups of girls or
take some sort of high social risk where I potentially look like an idiot
that's what we really want right
okay so
bearing that in mind I wanna give you a few tips about how you can
minimise that risk and you know how
you can make it easy for yourself ok a lot of guys make a few mistakes around where
they want to meet women a lot of guys
make it way too hard for themselves because they feel that they always have
to walk up to a girl
and approach a woman in order to meet her
not true at all and a lot of guys also get this wrong
that they really just pick the wrong environment the wrong
context
and that's why they get rejected let me put this flight with a couple of
key tips here okay
you need to pick environments which are
basically environments where people
are already
close to each other
and are a little bit stationary ok so there's no point being in a high traffic spot at
a train station where everybody's going somewhere
everybody's on the way somewhere and trying to get somewhere
however
places like a gallery opening
places like uh...
uh... pub or a bar
places like a cafe
places like a concert
where you're standing in the queue for example next to somebody
uh... where you are at the bar for example where you are listening to music
out there
and you're standing next to somebody bump into people
uh... those are great places to meet women
because you're already near them and you're close to them and you're in the same
environment
and ahem
it's a social environment as well and that's also key point but I'll talk
a bit more about the minute
if you put yourself into a spot for example at the bar
at the bar in a bar yes
if you're in a spot where women will naturally walk into yes
and you are there and you have your personal space around you like a meter and a half or
two meters us around you
that's how i would describe my personal space okay
so when somebody walks into that actually it's a natural thing to start a
conversation with somebody or at least to acknowledge somebody so if you are
at the with your friend or even by yourself or your're on your laptop or
whatever uh... and
a girl walks into your personal space to order a drink it's perfectly natural to start
a conversation with her or at least just t acknowledge her
and say hi and just be a social guy if you are in your own environment
you do that actually have to walk up to anybody because that seems to be what
most people are the most afraid of
but actually
approaching a table
you know with a few girls there already people find that a bit scary
uh... I used to myself but now actually I really enjoy it
uh... but
if the approaching thing is a scary thing for you than just be in an
environment where people come into your space
and then you can easily just be a social guy and start a conversation
it's almost like in self defense right because when people enter your space
why would you not acknowledge them it's actually natural to acknowledge people
that get into your space
it's just when you live in london or somewhere you know you get so used
to pretending that people are not there because you're on the tube and
if you acknowledge everybody all the time
you know people freak out
and the last key mistake that people are making us uh... very often is that they
picked the wrong context they
they start talking to women around the context is not in their favor
for example
you're at a train station as I said before and you want to start talking to a woman
and
you know probably is could be the wrong context because
she might be going from the train to the bus or whatever or she might be
on the way somewhere
it's always a lot harder if the context isn't already a social context
if you have a social context like a gallery opening or a concert or uh...
uh...
uh... bar or
pub
women expect to be spoken to women expect to be talked to by guys okay i
mean uh... that's not necessarily always what they are there for
but they're expecting it it's not something unusual so to throw out a
few words to to say oh what's that
to just be in the moment being a social guy is perfectly natural
so pick those social environments to make it easy for yourself i've given you
three tips right it's about finding social environments
where people are stationary
and
sort of already
pushed together in a way that if you are in a gallery there are usually already a few people there
so you're already close to them right
it's easier
the next thing is to put yourself in spots where people naturally get into your
personal space and anybody that's in your personal space of course you talk
to them
and thirdly you know pick a social context where
people are expecting to interact with other people
so that makes it a lot easier
now how would you implement this in your life how can you use this what are the kind
of places that you can imagine going to
uh... these are the kind of questions you should ask yourself now so think of a
few places that you like
that you could go into and where you could put yourself in a in a position in
a spot where women would naturally actually approach you right
how would that be and then give yourself a challenge to start conversations
with anybody that approaches your personal space that walks into your personal
space and start talking to them by
how would that be
so that's how to implement this ok and that's what i would recommend you do
and i'm so that you can really uh... make this work so think of three places
that say that you like
that are social places the kind of places that i've just described to you
that's how to meet more women
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