Welcome, my name is Stephan Labossiere
aka Stephan Speaks.
And today, I want to talk to you about
how to get over a break up
or how to trust men again after a heartbreak
and manifest the man God has for you.
So, here's the reality,
the truth is that many of you
have been hurt if not all of you.
All of us, people in this world, we go through
things we experience
a lot of emotional trauma,
disappointment, and damage.
And unfortunately, we carry it with us.
We don't always do what's necessary
to dig deeper and address the issues
and properly resolve them.
So, there's a huge lack of healing
existing in the world
and more than likely existing in your life.
And so, when that lack of healing exists,
it completely hinders your ability
to not just trust men again,
it hinders your ability to attract the right guy,
it is your ability to live a higher quality of life.
It hinders your ability to just be happy overall
because you're holding on
to so much emotional stress.
You know this may not be the stress
that you're used to recognizing in your life
and it may not be as apparent to you,
but it is there.
It is trapped within you
and it is causing a lot of problems.
Now, I'm explaining all of this to you
because I want you to understand
how important it is
for you to address these things.
For you to go back and properly resolve
and flush out the negative energy and pain
that you've been holding on to
due to past experiences.
Now, but to apply it more specifically with men,
the reality is this,
when you are lacking trust with men,
then chances are
you've either been hurt by men
in your relationship,
you've been hurt by men
growing up in your childhood,
or you have seen men
hurt others that you love.
And this has caused you
to become very skeptical
and have a very negative perception of men
and their ability to be loyal,
honest, faithful, the list goes on.
So, if we're going to get to a place
where you can trust men again,
then there's some things
that you need to understand.
There's some steps you need to take.
So, let's start with step number one.
Number one is healing.
As I explained a little bit earlier,
the big thing that
you have to be prepared to do is
to properly address past issues,
past disappointments, past hurts.
You have to really be willing
to go within yourself
and pull out everything
that exists within there.
That again, maybe you thought you moved past it,
maybe you thought it's not
really having an impact on you.
But if you never properly addressed it
and I can almost guarantee it is.
So, of course, you're probably wondering well, how,
how do I go about even doing that?
Well, let me give you the first step in this process
to get the ball rolling, okay.
It's what I call
my who hurt me worksheet.
And so, what you're going to do is
you're going to get a piece of paper,
you're going to write down on that paper,
who hurt me?
And then you're going to
ask yourself that question.
And now, every person
who comes to mind,
put them on that paper.
It doesn't matter if you think
well, this happened so long ago
or you know this isn't really relevant anymore
or I don't want to deal with this.
Whatever the case may be
if they come to mind,
they are relevant,
it's important enough for you to
put it on that paper
so that we can now start to locate
the pain points in your life.
We can start to see okay,
this is where
your negative perceptions are coming from.
This is where your lack of trust is coming from.
These are the root causes of it.
And once we know the root causes,
then we can properly address those things
and make it what it needs to be.
So, step number one,
you have to heal.
Number two,
you have to learn to trust God not men.
Now, I probably would have
left this from number three
but I felt the need to mention it now.
The reality is that,
if you're trying to manifest
the man God has for you
then you have to understand
how to tap into God's guidance
and understand and embracing the fact that
when God wants you somewhere
even if it's not something
that looks that great to you,
if it doesn't make complete sense.
But if you know you've prayed,
you've talked to God and God is saying
this is where you need to be
whether that be relationship,
life, career, whatever.
You've got to be willing to listen.
So, when I say trust God not men,
I'm saying that
despite what any man shows you,
despite whether he shows you good,
he shows you bad
and I'll explain the bad part
of the bit in a second.
You want to always be willing
to go back to God
ask God if this is the guy for you.
Because again, if you're trying to
manifest the man that
you think you should have, then that's something different.
You can consult yourself
on these matters
but if you're trying to manifest
the man God has for you,
the man that he knows is best for you,
the man he knows you can have
this amazing successful relationship with
then you have to get his input on the situation.
And that requires learning how to pray,
learning how to listen
and hear God in prayer.
And I know that's not easy
or it's easier said than done,
but trust that there are ways to go about this
that you can start to see greater results
and start to become very comfortable
with the practice of talking and listening to God.
So, again, trusting God not men
goes, boils down to
whether he shows you good or bad
you have to ask God
is he the guy for you or not?
And so, when I say the bad part
I know there's a natural instinct
that when you see the bad to just run.
And in some situations
that may be very valid and understandable
and what you needed to do anyway.
However, I still want you to
pray about things because one,
if it is truly not where you belong,
well, God's answer's
going to be consistent with that.
You don't have to worry about
getting conflicting answers in that situation.
Number two,
you want to get into
the practice of asking God.
If you always make assumptions for yourself
or come to your own conclusions
you will fall back into the pattern of
letting your own understanding guide you
and not letting God guide you.
And then, number three is that
you want to become more comfortable
with the practice of talking to God.
And you want to make sure that
well, it's 3 and 3a, 3b,
you want to get comfortable with it.
But also 3b is
sometimes the way it looks
or when it looks bad to you,
doesn't mean you don't belong there.
And there are some situations that
God wants you to actually
embrace in your life
that may look like a
complete mess on the surface,
but there's a greater purpose for you being there.
There's a greater purpose for you
engaging with that man specifically.
But again, don't jump to
that conclusion on your own,
you have to be willing to talk to God.
So, we've got number one, healing.
Number two, you've got to talk to God
or learn to trust God not men.
And then, number three,
you have to practice positive thinking.
You have to be able
to now, remind yourself
of the good that exists out there.
Remind yourself that
good men do exist
and that you can have that,
that you deserve that,
that God wants that for you.
When you start to use that mentality
and you start to give yourself
more daily affirmations
and practice positive thinking
and reject the negative thinking
that is hindering you,
then you will start to be able to see
a huge difference in your life.
Again, not just with attracting
and manifesting the man God has for you,
but with you simply being happier,
with you being able to
live a higher quality of life
with you getting into
better, proper, alignment
with where God wants you to be.
Now, there's so many other things
that I can show you and explain to you
but understand that those three things
are huge foundational pieces
for you to be able
to manifest the man God has for you
but most importantly,
for you to be able to trust men again.
But as I said,
you're trusting God, not man.
So, I never expect you
to give 100% trust.
And understand what I mean by that is
the reality is as human beings,
we're all capable of falling short sometimes.
We're all capable of sinning,
we're not perfect.
So, there's going to be mistakes made.
However, if you lean on
just trying to evaluate people
without God's input,
you can be swayed
in so many different directions.
And that's why you just have to trust God
and trust his guidance
and understand that
he knows what's best
no matter how the situation looks.
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