Now in this video i'm going to be talking about how to be that high value woman
that all men deeply desire keep watching
hey there adam lodolce from lovestrategies.com where we help successful single women
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your way now let's talk about this concept of being high value for a second there's a
fundamental truth of human nature and that is that humans value what it is that we have to work for
and this applies to all areas of our life i want you to think about in terms of money imagine you
wanted to make a hundred dollars and one scenario is that you had to go work at mcdonald's and
literally flip burgers for ten hours making ten dollars an hour now the second scenario is that
you're just walking down the street minding your own business and you see a hundred dollar bill
on the street in both scenarios you got a hundred dollars but which hundred dollars would you value
more the one where you had to work your ass off for ten hours flipping burgers or the one that you
just randomly found on the street without a doubt you would value the hundred dollars working at
mcdonald's why because you put in a massive amount of effort in order to get that hundred dollars now
the same idea really does apply to relationships and dating value actually has much less to do with
your physical looks your profession or even your personality and much more about how you position
yourself when you're meeting new guys let him invest his time energy and resources into winning
you over and guess what he will value you so let's think about four core ways that you can position
yourself as a high value woman that men deeply desire step number one is to let the man pursue
you i get it you are a career-oriented woman who is absolutely crushed in the workplace
by getting out there and controlling the process but when it comes to your love life if you've
noticed when you start controlling the process no longer are men pursuing you you actually become
the pursuer and that's exactly why little of step number one of the little love steps
is to lean into your feminine energy let men make the investment in you and pursue you step
number two is to just be naturally unavailable and this is not to like play games or to like
keep track of how long you take to respond to a guy's text no none of that stuff that's all
you have a gameplay full calendar when you actually live a life of value and meaning
naturally you are going to be a high value person and on the other hand the type of person who tries
to play those games in order to get guys to like them those are actually low value behaviors and
most guys will see right through it step number three is to say that magical four-letter word
which is next when a guy is not valuing you high-value women don't put up with a bs from
guys who are playing games with them the guys who are hot and cold who are flaky at times who
are non-committal know more of those types of games when you start to draw a real line in the
sand that says i'm never going to deal with those types of men again suddenly that raises your value
to the right type of men and the final step to raising your value is all about setting boundaries
and if you think about it one of the first boundaries you really set when you are in a new
relationship is commitment what commitment really means and really setting those clear boundaries
as you continue to develop a new relationship high value women don't allow themselves to fall into a
casual situationship unless they want that right if you want that that's totally cool but a high
value woman if she wants a relationship she's not afraid once she's been talking to a guy for two
three months to have an open conversation about commitment and what it really means and by the way
if the guy says those words which is i'm not interested in a relationship or i'm not ready
right now a high value woman she doesn't stick around she puts her sights elsewhere
and explores other options once again raising her value now of course there's only four examples of
how you can raise your value around men but i always tell my clients whenever you're faced
with a certain situation and you don't know what to do and you want to position yourself
as a high value woman just ask yourself this one simple question what would a high value woman do
suddenly when you start asking yourself this question your brain naturally knows the answer
right and if you think of it this way in any situation you're in when you're dating suddenly
now you will be able to emotionally commit to the right decision someone hear from you in
the comments below which of these steps do you struggle with the most when it comes to dating
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attracting love and relationships thank you so much for watching i'll talk to you next week bye