what's up guys Matt artist in here from the attractive man and coming at you
from the philippines manila
so don't be surprised if you see a lady border - they're quite common
so here's the deal i wanted to talk to you about texting particular what to do
if she doesn't text you back
this is a big issue i mean it kind of sucks right if you meet a girl
maybe it was a short interaction but maybe the long interaction and it just
seemed really really on everything was great spent a few hours with her maybe
at the bar the club maybe even a date and all the sudden she stops texting you
back the next day
maybe you sent the first text and you get no reply maybe she's texting you
back and forth and she's replying all the time and then all of a sudden she
just goes cold
what do you do I'm gonna give you some specifics in just a second but first
your mindset is what's key here
stop worrying about it who cares who cares if she's not texting back
you are a man you should be on your purpose
you should know what that purposes you should have a mission for your life
something other than meeting and dating women something that's bigger than that
maybe it's your career
maybe something else maybe it's a hobby maybe trying to start a business
maybe trying to move up the corporate ladder whatever it might be
that should come number one if you start making women your number one then
number one you're gonna start stressing all about it especially when they're not
texting back
number two no women no woman wants to be your number one and your purpose really
does it you might say she does
we do say they do that they want to be your number one they want to be your
purpose
they want to be the most important thing in your life but really deep down a
woman wants to find a man who has this greater purpose maybe again starting a
business or has some kind of cause that he's fighting for and she wants to be
there supporting him lifting him up and helping him achieve that
you start making women the most important thing not good
you're not going to be able to find that woman of your dreams instead follow your
dreams and the women will come so that will really help you not care so much if
a woman doesn't text you back because who cares it's not the most important
thing in your life at the same time on the flip side dating a few women or at
least be talking to a few women at a time now I'm not saying you should have
a few girlfriends at the same time unless they all know about each other
and they're all cool with that
once you have a girlfriend somebody who is exclusive with you stop talking to
all the other girls but before that happens when you're just in the dating
process or you're just talking to girls day a few girls talk to a few girls i
recommend 527 even 10 if you have time because here's the thing if you're only
talking to one girl
you have one girl's number in your phone that your texting then it's very easy to
get stressed out if she stopped texting you back
it's you're going to come off as needy because you need her she's your only
option
but if you got five girls that you're talking to that your texting and who
cares one of them doesn't take you back who cares you got four other girls that
you're talking to
that you're maybe going on dates when you send out maybe even a mass text to
all of our me copy and paste it is all five of them see what they're up to this
week maybe only three of them get back to you
so what you set up dates with those three for the week and then maybe the
other to get back to you later and you said dates with them for next week
the key is to date a few women at the same time if a couple of those women
fall off the radar and they completely stopped texting back then go out and
meet more women they're everywhere everywhere in your day-to-day life
there are women so meet them and you'll have tons of options right now I have
more options and I can handle I have too many girls in my phone it's almost
becoming a headache and that's a good problem to have but anybody can have to
get get to that level where you're texting 10 or even 15 girls at a time
it's not that hard you can get a girl's phone number like that literally 30 40
seconds
any girl walking around the street grocery store wherever you are
start approaching those women and you'll have more options
next be very careful what you tell yourself your self talk when you text
the woman she doesn't text back
you start getting all bent out of shape you start thinking about what she might
be doing and you start asking yourself questions like you know why isn't she
texting you back
what is she doing who is she with things like that maybe I'm not good enough
maybe I didn't do a good enough job texting or maybe I didn't do a good
enough job in the last in the initial interaction to attract or not
instead tell yourself something different
say all that's so cute she's playing hard to get that's adorable
she must really like me I know that sounds like you might be lying to
yourself
so what lie to yourself you'll feel much better
and the last thing is send her the next text when you feel like it whenever you
feel like it don't give up right away just because the girl doesn't send you
one text that doesn't mean anything maybe she was busy
maybe she's dating somebody else - so what who cares
you're not exclusive with her yet so she shouldn't be exclusive with you yet
if it's a girl that you just met right so send her another text may be a way
today maybe wait two days three days it's really up to you there's no rule
send her another text something that's compelling not like hey what's up or you
know what are you up to what are you doing
that's yeah you could do that once in a while but kind of born
instead something more compelling like hey i have a super fun idea . or I just
remembered i just realized what animal you remind me of and then send her a
picture of like a super cute dog or super cute cat
you can find one on the internet it's pretty easy and if she still is a reply
then wait even longer wait a week
so what be a busy got have things going on in your life
date other women and then just reply to her send her another text when she and
when it pops into your mind
wait a week to say something like you're the worst texter back ever
or you're starting to lose cool points or one of my favorites that I came up
with that works pretty well as if you're falling desperately in love with me
you don't reply back to this text will be surprised how often you'll get a
reply back
so check this out I got this texting app that I came up with to help you guys out
with what to text in different situations
first text openers random text funny text witty texts more text that will get
her to reply back if she's not replying back text that will get her on a date so
that you can ask her out on a date
the right way and look like a real man instead of a was so go ahead check out
the app there's a link for it down below go ahead and click the link
get the app it's awesome and make sure to leave a good review i'd really
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and again my name is Matt artisan with the attractive man peace