Hey, it's Mark here founder of Make Him Yours and creator of the Find Love in Five Steps
system. Today, it's part two of my video series on How to Talk to A Guy You Like. It's one
of the most important skills you can possibly learn. So I've got my friend back to demo
another five points for you all.
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Hello and welcome to part two of How to Talk to A Guy You Like. Let's get straight into
it with five more do's and don'ts for when it comes to talking to a guy you like. Number
one, be positive and enthusiastic. So your conversation with him should brim with positivity
and enthusiasm. As with your talking about your passions from the last video, when you're
talking to a guy, he wants to become part of an amazing girl's world. So if he meets
a woman who's brimming with natural enthusiasm, he's going to assume that's because she has
the world and the life to warrant it. So here's what not to do first and then how to do it.
Mark: So how's work been going for you lately? I know you were saying it was challenging.
Jermia: Yeah, it's so tough. I mean, they have me working 70-hour weeks. It is sooo long and
the people there are just the worst. The women are so mean. They don't even include me in
their conversations. Like, I just don't know if I can handle it.
[Beep]
Mark: So how's work been lately? I know you said it was challenging. How's that been going?
Jermia: It's definitely been challenging. I mean, working 70-hour weeks is pretty tough and
some of the stuff can be pretty difficult. So I'm really using it as a chance to grow
and learn things. So I just figured out what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, you know?
Mark: Cool.
Number two is don't ignore other people for him. Again, you don't want to overvalue him
for superficial reasons, like how physically attractive he is. It's obvious our friends
still come first, but it's amazing how often we forget this in subtle ways when we're meeting
people.
Jake: Hey Jess! I didn't know you're here.
Jermia: Ah hey! How are you doing?
Jake: Good. Good.
Jermia: Tell me more.
Mark: Yeah, it was just the most gorgeous, cutest thing you've ever seen.
[Beep]
Mark: We had this dog coming in and you wouldn't, it was the cutest little thing.
Jake: Hey Jess! I didn't know you were here.
Jermia: Oh hey! How are you going?Jake, this is Mark.
Mark: Good to meet you.
So number three is own the space around you. So you want to physically and verbally own
the space that you're in. That doesn't mean that you go around being obnoxiously loud
or start throwing your arms around or anything. It just means owning and expressing your emotions
and not being afraid to put them out there for people to see.
Mark: Come on, come through. Come in. Honestly, you make yourself at home. Like, your fine,
go make yourself at home. You're sweet. I'll be there in a sec. Do you want a drink?
Jermia: I have a really exciting story.
Mark: Oh yeah, I'll come. What was it?
Jermia: I saw so many dogs today. I've had it like six.
Mark: Right. Cool.
[Beep]
Mark: Come through. This is my place. Make yourself at home. Take a seat. Did you want to drink?
Jermia: Oh nah, I'm good. Thank you.
Mark: Sweet, I'll be there in a sec.
Jermia: I have such an exciting story for you.
Mark: Oh yeah?
Jermia: Yes.
Mark: I'm curious.
Jermia: Ah, it is a crack up. It is so good.
Mark: Tell me.
Number four is touch him during conversations. So have a flirt. Touch him, whether it's punching
his arm in a friendly way or touching his leg when you're getting close on the couch.
Whatever it is, maybe when he says something funny, you put a hand on his shoulder or his
elbow or something. Naturally touching and guy is just going to make communication easier
and more comfortable between the two of you.
Mark: Oh, so do you always lose this bad on first dates?
Jermia: You're such an ass.
Mark: So do you always lose this bad on first dates?
Number five is raise the sexual tension. So finally, when the time is right, ramp it up.
Let your eye contact linger. Touch him for a little too long. Smile and get physically
more intimate with him. Now obviously, you have to pick your time with this but your
goal is to give him enough green lights to get the message and have him take over from
there.
Mark: Alright, so your turn to ask a question though. You go.
Jermia: Noo. Why don't you just ask another one?
Mark: Come on. We've got to play the game. I want you to have a go too.
Jermia: No I'm really bad at it.
Mark: You should. You should ask one
[Beep]
Mark: Okay, your turn. Now you get to ask a question.
Jermia: Okay, what are you thinking? Right now?
That gives you 10 great conversation tips with demos. So hopefully you never have to
worry about the "how to" of talking to attractive guys again. Let me know if you have other
tips. I'd love to hear them. Post them in the comments below. If you haven't watched
part one yet. I've popped the link to that in the description below as well. There's
another video up here on my right, and don't forget to subscribe to the channel as well
and give the video a thumbs up. Thanks so much for watching ladies and I can't wait
to see you again very soon.
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