Hey guys, what's up?
This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com and today, we're talking about dating tips for shy guys
and we're sitting here with Caitlin O'Connor.
She's Maxim's hometown hottie and Maxim's...Helpful Hottie Advice Girl.
Helpful Hottie Advice Girl, that's right, and she's going to be giving us some advice
today and we're going to be talking about how to help you, if you're shy, get into the
dating world.
So without further ado, here is tip number one for the shy guys out there.
First off, don't forget that women are shy too.
So the reason that we're doing this interview is that I was talking to Caitlin and she was
telling me that she used to be shy.
So tell us that quick story.
You used to be a really shy girl.
I was a super shy girl all the way into college and I have this really funny story.
I was in love with a guy in college.
He was in one of my classes and I was just so in love.
It was the biggest crush of my life, and one day, he finally came over and he said - I
had dropped a book - and he said "Can I help you with that?"
And I was like "No, I got it."
And I gave him this look of death, like oh my goodness, he just talked to me and I scared
him away.
So even if a girl likes you, sometimes she will be too shy to say anything to you and
you'll think that she doesn't like you when in reality, it's the opposite.
Right, even if you go and approach a girl, don't assume that she's not going to be shy
and as nervous as you are.
Women are human.
They get shy too.
Which brings us to tip number two, don't forget that women want you to talk to them.
Yes, women want to talk to you.
They want to meet you.
If they're single, they want to meet a quality man.
And that is you.
So Caitlin, tell us more about that.
Don't be afraid to speak to somebody.
I know it's tough.
I really do.
So sometimes, you've just got to let it go and start talking.
And if a girl rejects you, she's probably not the one for you.
You might get rejected four or five times.
I've been rejected when I've tried to talk to a guy.
It happens.
It's okay.
Maybe you get rejected 10 times but the 11th girl is going to be the girl of your dreams
so don't give up.
Yes, I love that because if you go and approach 10 girls and even if just one of them, just
one of the 10 that you're attracted to says yes, and you're sitting across from her on
a date, what are you going to care?
What are you going to care at that point when you're sitting on a great date with a beautiful,
awesome woman?
You're not going to be thinking about those other nine rejections.
And the last one, the third one, game tips for shy guys, I'm going to leave this one
for Caitlin.
Caitlin, give us our number three.
Okay, tip number three.
This is a good one.
When you are thinking how do I meet a girl, don't just go out there blindly.
Figure out what kind of girl you want to date.
If you like a fit girl, maybe go to the gym.
Go to a yoga class.
Go to a dance class.
I don't know.
Meet a girl at the gym.
If you want a studious girl, if you want a writer, if you want somebody that's really
intelligent, go to a library.
Go to a college campus.
Not if you're too old.
Go to a coffee shop.
Maybe she's by her computer with her glasses on and her hair all messed up and she's reading
something.
Or if you like a girl who likes sports, go to a sporting event.
So I think Caitlin's trying to say is make it easier on yourself.
You don't have to just go out there and start approaching random girls.
Make it so you can go and talk to a girl with something that you already have in common.
So go to the places that you enjoy going to that's going to make conversation way easier
to start.
Caitlin, thank you so much for being here.
This has been awesome.
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Caitlin, thank you so much.
I'll see you guys.
Bye guys, thank you.
On the next video.
Bye.