- (exhaling sharply)
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- Yes.
- They are priorities in how you give and receive affection.
- What makes you feel loved.
- I think I do know about love languages.
- Words of affirmation, I need compliments all the time.
- Quality time is important, but not too much quality time.
- When someone like, looks out for me,
like, that's definitely something that means a lot to me.
- I'm a "toucher".
- Being able to connect without words is very important.
- I love giving people gifts, and writing people notes.
- I don't know if there's necessarily one
that I would relate to the most.
I need everything, and more.
- Oh.
- Someone could say they love you or give you compliments
that's cute and cool, but the way I feel love is
when you do something that I wasn't even thinking about,
but you knew that I would appreciate it.
- Yeah.
- So.
- Hmm.
- I am a giver.
So I'm definitely one to give touch
and I'm definitely one to give words of affirmation.
I'm quick to say "I love you."
You look awesome today.
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- It's more about knowing that they are thinking of you.
I think I give love the way I receive it.
And I actually had this ever-standing problem
with my ex about this, it's like he didn't grasp it.
- That's not good.
- Um.
- I was always like, doing nice things for him
when I didn't feel like that was getting reciprocated
so I think that became like a problem.
- Those are more substantial ways to realize
that someone cares beyond, you know,
something as superficial as a gift
or something as fleeting as touch.
- Yeah.
- From my previous relationship, I would say
it went bad because he didn't give me time.
I think maybe that was my love language,
I wasn't getting fed.
- That's crazy.
- Om.
- It's not on a can you impress me,
can I impress you kind of thing,
but it's more of how are we the same as human beings?
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