[music playing] - [sighing]
MIA: I just can't stop thinking about
Tristan cancelling his insurance without talking to me first.
And it still really bothered me.
I feel really hurt by the decision making that was made
around the health insurance.
It would be nice to have sat down
and, like, look at the costs and make that decision together.
[music playing]
TRISTAN: But that's the thing-- that I've
seen how stressed you've been.
And that's why I feel like I had to do it all myself.
And you're like, well, I'm busy. I'm busy.
I'm busy. I got to work.
I got to work. But it's still got to get done.
We have so much to take care of in preparation for this move
to Houston.
And she keeps saying, OK, OK.
And nothing is getting done.
So if I just keep waiting for her to do it,
then I'll be waiting until I die.
I just thought you and I were supposed
to do decisions together.
That's it. TRISTAN: The only decision--
And that's all I want was do decisions together.
TRISTAN: But here's the thing.
You keep saying decisions.
And the only decision I made was to cancel the insurance.
MIA: That decision is what--
So one decision bothered you.
MIA: And then from the conversation today,
I just feel like it's definitely being controlled by you.
And I don't really have that much to say.
Like, you talk way more than me.
And then you also talk over me.
And it's like I can't voice any of my opinions or concerns
because your voicing yours.
TRISTAN: What are you talking about?
[music playing]
I just feel like I'm making a lot of sacrifices too.
I mean, I'm moving to Houston.
You keep saying you want to go.
MIA: Moving and selling furniture.
TRISTAN: See, that's the thing.
That's-- right there-- you say [bleep]..
But you don't mean it.
It's like you say something--
MIA: Honestly, originally, yeah, I did want to go to Houston.
And then now talking to you, I'm like, oh, my gosh.
Is this what it's going to be like?
I'm done.
Tristan and I had a heated conversation about insurance
and about the move to Houston.
And he basically gave me an ultimatum
that I needed to go to Houston or I
can't stay here in our home.
And he started packing up my stuff.
And literally threw me out like it was nothing.
[music playing]
This is just crazy.
God forbid if something really serious
happened-- like, how would he react then?
Like, this was not like--
being upset about bills and prioritization,
and then like questioning Houston to me
was not a reason for his emotions or behavior
to get that way.
[music playing]
I just feel like, you know, we're getting
to see him for real now.
And then obviously, I go into the
whole self-preservation mode.
So I'm just like what the heck?
Guess I'll go.
We're just not communicating with each other
when we should be communicating with each other.
Oh, you can keep that.
OK.
[thud]
[sighing]
That's typical.
It's not his.
[inaudible] is ours.
TRISTAN: I am drained.
I have pushed myself so much during this month and a half
that I've ever had in my life.
But that doesn't mean that I'm going to sit here and go
through this for the rest of my life--
same old explosions and miscommunication.
I can't live like this.
OK.
MIA: All right.
[door slamming]
TRISTAN: I have basically reached my breaking point.
I'm trying not to cry.
But now I have all my-- like, this
is literally what he just did.
[inaudible] All my stuff is out.
He literally just put all my stuff out.
And he doesn't care.
As you can see, see how easily he just slammed the door
and it's done.
I'm just feeling, like, broken because what I thought
was a happy place-- what I thought was our home-- what I
thought was a safe emotionally place
is now turning into a battleground.
It's just, like, I seriously did this to find, like,
someone that wants to married.
And I think--
I don't know what his true intentions are.
And it's just sad that something so small,
he's already just put my stuff out.
TRISTAN: I'm feeling that--
[chuckling]---- if she left, maybe that's what's best.
If she really had cold feet about Houston,
then she never was really fully committed.
It's like after seeing this, I mean,
that changes everything for me.
I didn't say the marriage was over.
I just said, just go to--
go to your condo if that's what you want to do.
Don't say you don't want to go to Houston,
then want to stay in my house.
TRISTAN: Tonight, I'm going to sleep here without my wife.
[music playing]
(SINGING) Now I know [inaudible]..