30 Simple Tips to Increase Your Confidence
#1 Work out a lot, because exercise is scientifically proven to make you happier.
#2 Work out a lot because looking good will make you feel good.
#3 Eat healthy, because being healthy will make you feel good.
If you're obese, lazy, and unhealthy, you obviously won't be on the same level as someone
who has their life together.
#4 Have a hobby, and be good at it.
If you're not good at it, get good at it.
Because being competitive and being good at stuff will make you more confident.
#5 Dress well because looking good will make you feel good.
If you walk into a room and you know you're the best dressed person there, even if you're
not the best LOOKING, girls are still gonna check you out.
#6 NEVER make a decision based on what other people think of you.
Train yourself not to do this.
If you're listening to the new Justin Bieber album in your car and someone pulls up next
to you, don't reach to turn it down because you're embarrassed, just keep blasting that because you don't give a ---- about other peoples' opinions.
Because confident people don't sit around worrying about impressing others, we just
do the stuff that we want to do and if other people like it then fine, and if they don't
like it then that's fine too.
#7 Watch guys who are confident and do some of the s--- they do.
Like guys you know or guys from TV shows, or whoever.
Because this will give you a feel for different things, it will let you try out new things,
and it will let you see how people respond to different types of things.
#8 Be successful.
Because being successful in life makes you feel like a boss.
Because you are.
#9 Do whatever the ---- you want.
Don't try to avoid offending people.
Be yourself.
Be politically incorrect.
Nobody gives a ---- about political correctness.
The only people who do care about it are losers that you don't want to associate with anyway,
so who cares?
(note: this doesn't mean you should be a ------- to people for no reason, it just means you
shouldn't spend half your life walking on egg shells because you're scared you might
POSSIBLY offend someone that you'll probably never see again anyway)
#10 Make friends, because a lot of people are social and feel better when they have
friends to talk to.
Making friends is easy, seriously, all you have to do is "DON'T. BE.
CREEPY."
That's it.
That's how to make friends in a nutshell.
#11 Have a good relationship with your family, because having more positive people in your
life makes you feel better, and in turn, more confident.
#12 Don't argue on the internet.
Because only preteen losers do that.......
When you waste your time, and don't benefit from it at all, you make yourself feel like
a loser, because you're actually subconsciously telling yourself that your time isn't very
valuable, and that's why you enjoy wasting it.
Think about that for a second.
You think ELON MUSK sits around on YouTube or on Reddit all day calling people ---- and
telling them to kill themselves?
yeah right.
You think Brad Pitt is sitting there at night like "hold up Anjelina, I can't go out with
you tonight because I have to convince this guy in the youtube comments that I'm right
and he's wrong!" yeah, I don't think so.
You don't have an unlimited amount of time.
Unless you're immortal ... and if you are, then DM me asap and let me get in
on that, because that's awesome.
But if you're not, you have a limited amount of time.
That's where the phrase "SPEND time" comes from.
Every time you choose to do something, you are choosing how to spend your time.
If you choose to spend it on stupid stuff, like driving slow, or sitting on Facebook
for 6 hours a day, then you're telling yourself that it's alright to waste that time, because
it wasn't worth that much anyway.
And by telling yourself that your time isn't worth much, you're basically telling yourself
that you're a loser.
Obviously, telling yourself you're a loser, on a daily basis, isn't good for your confidence.
#13 Have goals, because being ambitious and having a purpose in life makes you feel good.
#14 Get up as soon as you wake up, because sitting around being tired and lazy all day
actually does reduce happiness and confidence.
#15 Get a decent amount of sleep every night , because like I just said, sitting around
being tired and lazy all day actually does reduce happiness and confidence.
#16 Don't make excuses.
Here's the thing.
A lot of people watching this video right now are probably already tempted to leave
a comment like "BUT ... I can't use these tips because blah blah blah".
Shut the ---- up.
No one gives a god damn about your excuses.
Just figure out what you want to do, and do it, because when you make excuses you're telling
yourself that you're not in control of your own life, which is an extremely negative mindset
that leads to unhappiness.
If you want to do something, shut the ---- up and DO IT.
#17 Get rid of negative people in your life because JUST BEING AROUND negative people
is scientifically proven to create negativity in your as well!
#18 Watch funny TV shows or funny movies or funny YouTube videos or read funny books every
now and then, because laughing actually makes you happier - proven fact!
#19 Don't make a big deal about bull.
If you play football and someone says "football sucks!" ignore it.
Because getting offended by someone you don't even know shows that you're not confident
enough in yourself to be above that kind of childishness.
Actually, getting offended AT ALL is childish, because nobody cares.
Stop playing the victim, and get out and DO SOMETHING.
#20 Control your life.
If you want something to happen, make it happen.
If you're one of those people who thinks they have no control over their own actions and
that stuff "just happens," cut that out.
Stuff happens because people make it happen.
The universe isn't out to get you.
Instead of being jealous about someone else's success, make yourself successful too.
Control your life.
#21 Take risks.
Because "playing it safe is the shortcut to failure."
Taking risks, even if you fail, makes you feel good about yourself because you actually
tried and you're giving yourself the POTENTIAL to succeed.
Whereas someone doesn't do jack doesn't even have a chance.
#22 Work out a lot, because not being scared of getting your butt kicked any time someone
doesn't like you, will make you more confident (and yeah, I know, being athletic doesn't
make you good at fighting and all that, blah blah, there's always that guy who's taken
like 1 karate class who's like "but I know how to fight!
So it doesn't matter if you have muscles!" but guess what, nobody in real life
knows how to fight.
How many drunk people at the bar do you think are professional fighters?
Give me a break.
If the guy you're fighting is equally bad at fighting as you are then whoever is stronger
and faster is probably gonna win)
#23 If you're in school.
And someone bullies you.
Beat the --- out of them, or tell on them, or plant some ---- in their locker and anonymously
report them, or hack into their computer and plant some child ---- and eeeeeeeeeeh maybe
not that ...... But you get the point.
Don't let people walk all over you, because choosing to be a pushover will just deplete
your confidence.
One of my favorite philosophers, Machiavelli, said "be nice to people who are nice to you,
but if someone messes with you, mess with them 1000 times worse."
I think that was Machiavelli.
Maybe it was Donald Trump.
I don't remember.
#24 Have standards.
Don't just "take what you can get Because taking what you can get, implies that you
can't get anything good, which implies that you're a loser.
Are you a loser?
No?
Then cut that out.
#25 Don't be negative.
Because no one likes negative people, and you won't have any friends.
#26 Use common sense and make your own decisions.
Don't go on reddit and ask basic questions.
Don't ask for permission to ask out some girl you like.
If you're not sure what to do, just pick something and do it.
Even if you mess up, at least you tried and you learned from it.
Because learning from your mistakes is something you have to do to be successful in anything.
If you try 10 different things, even if you're only successful 20% of the time, guess what,
you're still more successful than the other guy who's sitting around doing NOTHING because
he's too scared to try!
#27 Don't complain!
Because talking about negative things makes you negative, it makes you less happy, and
in turn less confident, and you give yourself the impression that you can't control things.
If you've been following all this advice, you shouldn't need to complain about anything,
because if you don't like something, just change it!
#28 Be positive.
Have a positive outlook on life.
Just because your sophomore year of high school sucked doesn't mean the rest of your life
will suck.
As long as you keep trying to reach your goals, you'll eventually reach them.
#29 Be confident in YOURSELF.
Realize that confidence has NOTHING to do with how many people like you, or how many
parties you go to, or how much money you make, or how hot your girlfriend is.
Being confident is about YOU, and it has nothing to do with anyone else, nor is it even affected
by anyone else.
It's all you.
#30 When in doubt, just think ... "What Would Based Zeus Do?"
And then do that.
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