I do not accept a coffee or a walk as a possible date option and neither should you. First of all,
I'm not a dog that needs to be walked. Second, I have an espresso machine at home, works fabulous.
We're not doing drinks either. You're going to try to get me drunk and take me back home.
No. We're doing dinner. You're going to pick me up. We're going to come to the restaurant.
We're gonna see your table manners. We're gonna see what you order. We're gonna see
if you hold your chopsticks correctly. We're just gonna you know, study you a bit. So dinner it is.
What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. I wanted to give a thoughtful response
to this TikTok video that I found. I did actually do a stitch on this video which you can check out
on my TikTok. I'll put a link down below if you want to check that out. And I will also link to
hers as well if you want to see more of her. But I thought I'd give a more thoughtful response here
on YouTube just talking about what this all means. Coming from a woman's perspective, what does this
mean? Things to look out for as a guy in terms of women like this and what this is all about. First
off, let's talk about this. This is a woman that I highly recommend you avoid at all costs. Even if
you are a guy who is wealthy and can keep up with the demands of a woman like that, which would be
lavish gifts, very nice dinners. Even if that's something that you as a man can afford,
you're going to be dealing with a woman who is very entitled, and it's going to be more work than
would be necessary to be in a relationship and why? Because she's pretty? There's a lot of women
out there who are pretty who won't be as entitled as her. I'm trying to come at this at an objective
viewpoint as much as I can. I actually understand where a woman like that is coming from. I do. I
understand that type of person. This is a person who is filtering for a guy who's going to cater
to her needs. And her needs are a very lavish type of lifestyle. She's doing what she needs
to do there. However, and I'm not a dating coach for women, but I would say to her if I could,
that she's also going to be filtering for guys who are betas. I think a very small
percentage of guys who are going to be taking her out on lavish dinners and the first date
are going to be the alpha male type. I think that it's going to be very hard for her to find a man
that she actually wants to be with, even though this is something that she is filtering for.
But I'm not a dating coach for women. I'm a dating coach for you guys. Let's go back to you.
And the whole idea here is we want to stay away from these women because, like I said, it's going
to be a little bit more work. And there's nothing wrong with work, it takes work to be able to meet
and attract women. But this is a different type of work like I'm saying. A woman who's going to be
expecting so much from you that it's not even going to be sustainable for you. In fact,
it's not sustainable for you even in the short term to be going on first dates where you're
spending all kinds of money and going to a lot of dinner dates. I'm very against dinner dates
to begin with as a first date. And the main reason is because it's not sustainable. What
I'm saying here is as a guy who's dating and putting his effort and priorities into dating,
you should be in theory, I know a lot of guys aren't doing this off the bat,
but in theory, you should be going on at least two dinner... sorry not dinner, two first dates.
You should be going on two first dates for a week that are not dinner. They should be
a drink. I agree with her maybe not a walk or something casual like that. But a coffee or a
drink is totally fine. And then if she's someone that you want to see again, sure, second date,
go to dinner. Again, more sustainable for you to be going on many dates and filtering for a woman
that's going to be a good fit for you. What's cool is these women are going to filter themselves out
for you when you are suggesting to do a drink date or a coffee date. And the woman who is not going
to agree to go on that obviously will not go on that and therefore you have filtered them out.
This is something that is easy to look out for. Just in general, think that it is interesting that
that woman feels like the man should be taking her on a dinner date as a first date.
I wonder where this balance is. There's a lot of feminists out there who are saying men and women
should be doing equal parts and I do agree in this, but this is where it gets imbalanced. I
don't know if she's a feminist or not. Either way there's an imbalance here. So a man takes you out
to a very nice dinner, pays for dinner, sets up dinner. Great. What are you going to do for him?
What is it that you are offering? And I know what she's gonna say and I think
I've heard her say this in other videos. She's offering what, her beauty? Her looks?
The fact that she's the prize in the sense where, she's a beautiful woman, so just her existence?
Just her existence is the reason why a guy should be setting up the dinner and paying
for the dinner? I'm sorry, that's not enough. And again, I'm not trying to talk to women here. I'm
talking to you. I think you understand here that that's not enough. I'm sure as a man,
that's not enough for you, just her showing up. And by the way, if it is enough for you,
that's very beta simpy mindset. I'm gonna pay and give this woman lavish things and lavish dinners,
just because she's so pretty... up, up, up. You're putting her on this pedestal. Terrible. You're
putting on this pedestal, and this is actually gonna be un-attracting her in the long run.
Also it's such a beta terrible mindset because you're thinking that just because a woman exists,
she needs to have this. This is completely unfair. This goes with the idea, I think Chris Rock was
talking about this in one of his TikToks. It's like, women are loved unconditionally, but for
a man he needs to provide something. Where's the fairness in that? Where's the fairness in any of
that? A man can't just exist, he has to provide something, what? Money? A good job? All I'm saying
here is it's totally fine if a woman wants a man who is providing money good job all those things.
Then she has to do more than only existing. If you agree with this, hit that like button.
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Let me know if you agree, disagree, whatever it is. Also, I want you to let me know if I should
be doing more videos like this. Let me know if this is something that's interesting to you.