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Now today's um video is going to be on the healing process after you decide to go no contact with
a narcissist or a malignant narcissist and I focus the malignant narcissist type because that's
the type of narcissist higher up on the spectrum. They border on a psychopath or sociopath.
They're very cruel many of them are sadistic in nature, they love tormenting and harassing people,
they set up these demonic traps.. you know manipulations... and they play a lot of games
to destroy you. Basically they're really soldiers of satan, as we discussed in the other videos,
And if you're going no contact and trying to really eliminate this abuse from your life
then maybe these tips will help you i hope they will and if you are in a relationship
with a narcissist and just dealing with them some of these tactics may be helpful to you as well as
strategies to cope so let's see let's start here with number one this is if you're trying to stay
uh no contact you know from your narcissist and um really get your life back on track so first of all
is you know after you've gone no contact spend time with god in several words the lord told me
seek my face let all others go in another one he said surely you know i'm a jealous god
and he was urging that people spend more time alone with him
in another word he was saying talk to me and basically the word went on to say he didn't really
care if it was in your car talking to him or in a closet it's not religion you know it is just
talking and spending time with god on a personal private level that's what he's after so do that
spend time with god seek his face number two study the word study the bible the word of god
i received several words about that and he even said to try to memorize parts of the bible
which makes me think maybe one day there won't be any bibles anymore maybe that's why he's urging
us to memorize parts of it who knows what's to come maybe bibles will be banned we really don't
know what the future holds but in one word he said try to memorize it um but you know try to
study be in the word because the truth will be revealed to you you know things will pop out of
the word that apply to your situation and will be of help um i know that happens a lot with
it happened with me and many others also uh try to use a bible app on your phone because
if we're listening to regular you know music with the awful lyrics in it and subliminal messages etc
and we're listening to that all the time that just puts more you know demonic messages into our head
you know there's all sorts of sexual content and violence and everything and a lot of song lyrics
and uh very depressing things too as well so it's always better to at night
not leave that music playing on a radio or stereo or you know your playlist or whatever but to
play bible verses play christian music play something that is the word of god while you
sleep and you'll probably be able to sleep better it'll reprogram your mind and fill your mind up
with things of god instead of obsessing over the narcissist or you're having your mind be
filled with fear anxiety and ruminating about everything that happened that was traumatic
and also will protect you while you sleep from any of the adversaries uh you know tactics while
you're sleeping it'll just kind of cleanse your environment and your home that way if that's what
you're playing so those bible apps come in handy also just verses you know and videos play those
all night long instead of the other types of music or sometimes in silence our mind just rehashes the
trauma so again the word of god will be going into your mind instead of you know uh ruminating also
um go easy on yourself it you know every day is a is another day towards healing and take your
time there's no time limit on healing everybody's amount of time that they need to heal is different
and nobody should rush you through your healing process most people who suggest just get over it
or whatever that's re-traumatizing you it's it's dismissing your experience because obviously they
haven't experienced somebody that is this severe i can tell right away if somebody is talking to me
and in their mind they might think they they dealt with a a severe malignant narcissist but no it was
it was just a normal breakup basically they play games they trick a lot they set up traps for you
i mean it's just unbelievable i'm sure you know what i'm talking about if you've dealt with one
and you can't wrap your head around it very different from a normal situation so
you know go easy on yourself and if you get one or two things done during the day on your list
then congratulations you are going in the right direction and those are um you know those are
accomplishments so don't ever knock yourself because you know you're you're not healing
fast enough it does take time a good idea would be to delete text messages emails you know the
less you're reminded the less you'll be triggered you know if you keep hanging on to those emails
and letters and remembering the good times and everything you know that's kind of deceptive and
you know you have more tendencies to respond to the hoover or go back to that abusive relationship
now if you're in a divorce situation or there's some legal battle going on where you have to
document and keep those text messages and emails for documentation and legal reasons that's a
different story then you don't want to delete those you want to keep them for documentation
but if you are not in that type of situation it's probably a good thing just to delete them clear
off you know those messages those horrible messages why would you want to be reminded of them
and um you know also the good messages too because they will tend to soften you up over time
if you keep looking at them and it's not the reality of your experience you know the dance
with the devil that you had so the next step would address that um you know people who have gone
through trauma tend to have amnesia many times or you know they their mind blocks out the trauma
you know if you weren't able to stay no contact and you really do want to stay no
no contact this time a good idea is to put a list on your refrigerator with a magnet
of the horrible abuse that they put you through list each and everything that they did
that was painful traumatic and abusive that you will never want to return to again and i assure
you the list is probably very long the people that have done that said it was very helpful
when they were tempted to pick up the phone and call or answer a phone call or you know
respond to some kind of hoover or inquiries from the flying monkeys you know um they would just
look at that list and realize no way i'm not i nope that's a reminder no i'm not doing it
they they don't want to go back to one and start all over again in the process of healing
so with a lot of people that has helped ins and a few people rarely it may be a trigger
so if it does trigger you then you know don't do it but you may find it helpful
to have that reminder there avoid horror movies you know avoid things with a lot of violence and
trauma like the news don't watch the mainstream news or crime shows violence stuff i mean you
don't want to fill your head with those things during a healing process as i said it's better to
have the bible app on your phone go to sleep with that listening to the word of god
watch informative you know self-help type of things or you know hopefully this channel is a
source of support for people um but don't reopen the trauma by watching things that are violent or
scary or will cause or induce anxiety in you now i don't find entertainment in things of of horror
and blood and gore i just don't i just think it's putting things in people's mind that are demonic
and evil and giving them ideas i just don't understand how there's so many shows with that
and that's called entertainment you know don't we have enough of that in the world we have to sit
down and watch it for our entertainment so you may want to just avoid those you know tv in general
that's mostly what they have and spend time in the word spend time alone with god people have
to get used to being alone now the things to avoid also are try not to get into another relationship
immediately while you're healing not a good idea a lot of people you know they oh i can't be alone
i can't be alone they go right back out and you know they have an even worse situation that they
get into um because again the person will present as a being of light so you don't want any rebound
relationships while you're healing um not a good idea also avoid any major decisions
you know if somebody's pressing you to move in with them even if it's a roommate situation i
mean be weary you don't know that person you don't want to go from the flame to the fire
you know it could be another one of satan's traps you know take your time with the healing process
first and then you know would be a better time to make those decisions
you know satan sends his representative sometimes you know at the the most vulnerable times in your
life and um that's how people get those situations where it's one after the ano one after the other
it could even be a job oh take this job take this job and they lure you in and you end up it's a
nightmare um that's just traumatizing you more it could be anything so if if your approach was some
decision to make as i said pray on it wait um you know really seek god's counsel on it before you
make any decisions here the rumination that you have will fade just know that if you're ruminating
if you fill your your environment with the things i just mentioned and purify your surroundings get
rid of anything that's tarot cards anything of the occult anything that's um not of god
you know just get it out and you'll find that your space will be lighter uh more purified
healthier and you're able to heal better as days go by you'll find out it gets easier and easier
but also the holy spirit the holy spirit's the one that can deliver you from the trauma bond which
i know to be a demonic stronghold you know it's very intense the pull to go back is very strong
and it's from the adversary you know that's why it feels different than other situations that's why
it's hard to explain to other people but if you are broken before the lord if you are seeking
god's face and you seek the holy spirit's help he's the helper then that demonic stronghold
can and will be broken and the holy spirit can only fill us up when we're emptied out
you know we have to really be emptied out of worldly things
and uh we have to eliminate sin from our life and really clean up our act to purify our surroundings
too get rid of anything that is a portal for you know demonic activity um anything that is
not of god get rid of it things around your house dvds or whatever horror movies you know or tarot
cards things of the occult you know to purify your surroundings you may want to just get rid of those
things and really uh empty yourself out from all of the the world and worldly things and sin so the
holy spirit can in turn fill you up you know you can only be filled if you're emptied out of the
you know things that are of this world and god can do amazing things in your life you know if you're
obedient and you renounce the past and you stay away from you know sin demonic representatives
everything and you really devote your life to god he will make himself known to you and you'll see
miracle after miracle after miracle manifest so just remember that everybody and i hope this was
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email me at angelhavenministry gmail.com and i'll be happy to get back to you on how to do that
so thanks again for watching everybody and i'll see you next time god bless
you