hi everyone caroline here have you worked with black tourmaline on your throat chakra
i hope you have and if you haven't today i want to share with you why this powerful amazing crystal
is a good crystal to at least consider when working to unblock your throat chakra
or when balancing your throat chakra or dealing with communication issues and keep this in mind
it's not always about using blue colored crystals for your throat chakra matters
there's always wisdom and intuition and personal guidance involved when working with spiritual
tools okay so anyway a few months ago i was guided to start using black tourmaline on
my throat chakra and this was specifically to help me with self-control in my communication
with a specific individual who really doesn't like me but who i usually have to deal with
during the holiday season for the sake of keeping up appearances which is something i really really
don't like to do but it's something that i do i struggle with this and it really goes against
everything that i stand for in terms of my own integrity but it's something that i always keep
doing and always feel like i have to do for the sake of the person that i really really
like who this individual that doesn't like me is connected to i tell you the things we have to do
for family sometimes oh my gosh anyway this person absolutely does not like me and i think it's like
a comic thing because i don't even know where it comes from but it's something for me to look
at because i can't really say it's that person there's obviously a resonance between me and that
person but it's so deep it's so unexplained and it totally comes from left field i mean
who hates caroline who hates caroline you know what i mean but anyway the truth of the matter
is there's definitely something there to look at on my end and it's never about apportioning blame
to another person sometimes people reflect things to us that we must heal if that is the case right
anyway i'm sure some of you can relate to how hard it is to play nicey nice to play goody
goody with people who you have to tolerate for the sake of those you love you know what i mean
i'm sure some of you can relate to these kinds of things so anywho this is what happened over
the holiday season i was feeling some kind of anxiety because i had to meet this person and i
had to go through the process of tolerating this person because of this person that i love and i
had started feeling irritated and agitated just by the thought of hearing that person's voice because
i know how that person usually communicates with me and i know how triggered i get by the way that
person communicates with me and how the potential for verbal aggression through my communication
strategy sometimes comes out and because of this self-discipline on my part and self-control
and just management of my beingness is usually required and in all honesty i really don't want
to have these negative vibes in me but it's just something that i keep struggling with especially
with this specific individual you know what i mean i'm just telling you like it is things are
just what they are with this individual at least for now and thankfully the situation looks like
it is now under control and it is something that i no longer have to deal with going forward which is
great so this is where black tourmaline as a powerful throat chakra crystal comes in
this crystal literally saved me from negative back and forth aggressive throat chakra communication
it literally effectively stopped the negative energies to the point where i still can't believe
that i'll never have to deal with this person again because the matter is now resolved i tell
you trust your crystals when a crystal calls to you trust it to know what you need at that
specific time for your specific guidance about a particular issue let it not just be about the
colors of crystals and which chakras they need to go on let it not be an intellectual mental
exercise let it not be about the things you have read in other books about how to work
with your specific crystals let it be about your inner guidance to use a specific crystal for a
specific matter at a specific time okay crystals are teachers and a different crystal from what
you're used to may stand out to you to work with on a particular matter if you hear that call
listen and work with that specific crystal because crystals are teachers of higher consciousness and
they provide higher wisdom so tune into them and trust your crystals okay so this is how my
guidance to start working with black tourmaline on my throat chakra started i attended a gem
show and at the gem show i was planning to buy other crystals i wasn't even focusing on black
tourmaline i was looking for something else because i have so many other black tourmaline
pound stones and whatnot but that specific day as i was looking through the crystals this specific
beautiful heart-shaped black tourmaline crystal stood out to me and i knew that i had to get it
and so i got it without hesitation you know that feeling when a crystal is calling you and you're
just like you know what i don't even care how much it costs i'm going home with this crystal
and that is what happened so later on after i had cleansed the crystal and was tuning into it
it was obvious to me from the face of it that this crystal had a loving energy and i also knew that
i was going to be wearing it as a pendant around my throat chakra i knew that it was not a pendant
that was going to hang around my heart chakra i knew it was going to go around my throat chakra
and i also knew that this was the crystal that was going to support me with disciplining myself and
controlling myself and working through the harsh communication that was coming through my throat
chakra especially when i was interacting with this specific individual during the holidays and
i'm telling you this crystal was a life saver it helped me really stop and assess myself and really
see from my own perspective how i was personally contributing to this issue between me and this
person and what i really needed to look at within myself so that i could release this energy and no
longer have anything in resonance with that person you know what i mean nobody wants to be aggravated
all the time by specific individuals or specific situations over and over again and i personally
know that if something is always happening that i really need to stop and really see
what is going on with me and it's never about the other person it's usually about me so i
gotta look at this thing because that is what is being revealed and this is how you do the inner
work the inner work is never about finger pointing however bad that situation may be or however wrong
you may feel that that person is the inner work is usually about you and how you can really evolve
through these uncomfortable situations and put yourself on the side where you are at peace
you're in balance and you're in harmony the job is ours to do it's never about the other person okay
so now i can tell you from personal experience that this black tourmaline really supported me
because it helped me stop reacting aggressively and communicating explosively with this other
person and it really helped me calm down and process my thoughts and really really monitor
myself you know to gauge myself and to ensure that how i was communicating with this individual
was in the most loving and balanced way because you know for a lot of us it takes a lot of
discipline and self-control when we have to keep dealing with repeat offenders you know what i mean
it's hard man but we do it we do it so i believe that's good right yeah
thank goodness for crystals for real anyhoo results is what usually matters to me so the good
thing that happened out of this whole situation is that this person now became unavailable
to me the person is now no longer in the picture and this whole matter of me having to deal with
this person is now resolved because i've had to look into myself as well to see what really was
occurring in me to attract this kind of harshness from someone you know what i mean so i am glad
that the matter is resolved on my end and as well as on that person's end and so we don't even have
to cross paths going forward which is just to me beautiful you know what i mean bye bye so
crystal lovers tell me have you ever worked with black tourmaline on your throat chakra
what results have you got i wanna know and if you haven't i tell you if you have a situation
where the communication is not what it needs to be especially as pertains to a
specific individual or a specific situation or creativity on any level or just that ability
to be authentic and true to yourself and stop lying to yourself about who you are especially
in relationship with other people and all this whole lying thing about being lovey-dovey about
this or that when you really know that some situation needs to be cleared out
work with black tourmaline black tourmaline keeps negativity away that statement is
the truth and until next time crystal lovers i love you and stay on the up and up
bye