Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about body language women use to flirt with guys. We're
talking female body language signs that she's flirting, like, with you. Flirting is really
fun, right? It's exciting, and it's a really good way to see how she feels about you,
that she's interested in you, that she likes you. But how do you know if she's flirting? Because the
last thing you want to do is embarrass yourself because you think she's flirting when she's not.
Or you don't want to miss out reading the signs that she's flirting and potentially have her think
you're not interested. That's really a situation you want to avoid. Body language is your friend.
And in this video, you'll discover some of the female body language signs that she's flirting
with you. Maybe the most obvious sign is the one I share with you at the end of this video,
so make sure you stay with me until the end. The truth is, every woman is a little bit different,
so the more body language signs you're aware of the more easily you'll be able
to see if she is flirting with you. So stay with me until the end. Before we dive in,
make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating
coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I am your go-to resource to learn
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about working with me to attract lasting love with your dream girl make sure you visit my website at
coachmelannie.com There's also a link in the description below. Okay, as we dive in talking
about the body language women use to flirt with guys, I'm going to mention two more videos that
are also going to help you so much. This video is on how to tell if she's interested in you.
And this video is on signs she wants you to make a move. I will put links to both of those videos
in the description below. Let's quickly talk a little bit about what body language is just in
case you're new to body language. Our bodies don't lie. Whatever we're thinking is reflected in our
bodies. If somebody's nervous, happy, upset, even hungry, we can see it in our bodies. That's just
how it works. This is also true when someone is attracted or flirting or showing interest.
Bottom line, if she's flirting, you'll be able to see it in her body language. You just need to know
how to read those signs. And that's exactly what this is all about. So let's get started with body
language women use to flirt with guys. Number one is that she teases you. If we're being perfectly
honest here, teasing is one of the very best ways to flirt. It's fun, it's playful, it's exciting,
it's a way to get someone's attention, to not be too aggressive or too bold, but let somebody know,
"Hey, I think you're cute, and, hey, you should think I'm cute too." In a lot of ways, teasing
can be the foundation for flirting. So what does this look like in terms of body language?
Well, when she's teasing you and flirting with you she may push you a little bit, kind of like that
little playful push, she might brush up against you or brush past you when she's teasing you,
and she may even give you like that little teasy mischievous smile.
Basically, if she's teasing you, that's a really good indicator that she's flirting with you. Now,
we need to address something very very important a lot of people mistake toxic banter for teasing.
And the truth is, there is a big big difference. Teasing, when done right, always uplifts both
people. When you're flirting with someone you want them to know you think they're cute and you want
them to notice how cute you are. So it should always be an encouraging, uplifting experience.
That is flirting done right. Many people though completely misunderstand and they think that
belittling banter or putting someone down or playing hard to get type banter is teasing.
In reality, that's manipulation. Far too many men find themselves in terrible relationships because
of this misunderstanding. It's critical that you understand how to identify the toxic behaviors and
instead attract high quality women. This is why in my academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy,
I teach you exactly how to identify those toxic women and start attracting those high
quality women, which actually makes you repel the toxic women, which is obviously what you want,
right? So please please please do not ever misunderstand toxic banter for teasing.
There's a big difference, okay? Okay, our second female body language sign she's flirting with you
is that she leans in when she's around you or when she's talking to you. As humans,
when someone has our interest or we're attracted to them we kind of just tend to lean in. And it
it's a visual way of showing interest. Now most people actually don't know they're doing this,
which is kind of what helps make it a good clue to look for because she's not doing it on purpose. If
you notice that she leans in when she's around you it's a really good sign that you have her
interest. Are you starting to see how simple these signs can be? Body language is not complicated at
all. Once you practice a little bit reading those signs pretty soon you're a pro. Now before we get
to the next sign I need to give you a warning. And so many men ignore this warning and then they come
to me heartbroken, so I need you to focus. Are you with me? Are we on the same page here? Do not stop
at just reading the signs. Far too many men see the signs and they just, "Yes!"They don't
learn what to do next, and then they come to me completely heartbroken because it went
terribly terribly wrong. They never think it will, but if you don't actually know what to do next
it will go terribly terribly wrong. Here's the deal: It is impossible to be attracted to someone
who makes us feel uncomfortable. And far too many men, they just guess what to do, how to
talk to her, what their body language should be, how to approach her, how to pursue correctly, they
just guess that. Or they take their advice from someone who's only teaching you how to have a one
night fling instead of a lifelong relationship. And because they're taking that bad bad advice
they make a high quality woman, the kind of woman who wants to spend her life with you,
they make her feel uncomfortable. And even if she was attracted to you initially, that attraction
is gone. Because you cannot be attracted to someone who makes you feel uncomfortable.
And women think differently than men, and so it won't make you feel uncomfortable,
you won't even see why it would make her feel uncomfortable, but it will make her feel
uncomfortable. As a matter of fact, if you get ghosted a lot or if you can't get past the first
date a lot or if your relationships are really short-lived or you get put in the friend zone,
this is your problem. I'm going to say that again: This is your problem. You need to understand
what to do instead. For instance, I teach my clients how to pursue correctly, how to increase
her attraction for you like crazy by how you talk to her, what your body language is,
how you interact with her, how you ask her out, how you approach her. All of these seemingly
simple things. And the truth is, they are very simple when you understand the correct way to
do them. Those are the things that make her feel safe with you. And when she feels safe with you,
wow, that attraction skyrockets. But when you don't know these things, it's down the drain. And
by the way, when I say pursuing her correctly, I do not mean telling her you have feelings for her
before you're in a serious relationship. I don't mean giving her gifts and I don't
mean just waiting around for her to make a move. Bottom line, don't assume that you know what to
do. Make sure you know what to do. Because the truth is, you just deserve to have that loving
relationship. And you can do it the hard way by trying to figure it out on your own, or you could
instead just learn what works. As a coach, this is exactly what I'm here to help you with. And this
is what allows my clients to send me emails, "Hey, I'm getting married!" "Hey, Melannie, I found the
girl of my dreams!" And if you want to be one of those guys you need to learn these secrets too.
I've put together some free training for you on 3 secrets to getting a lifetime of kisses
from a woman who adores you. I share with you more about my academy there as well if you decide you
would like to really take this seriously, take the fast track, and get the love of your life.
All you have to do to watch this free training is go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass
There is a link in the description below and I will put a link in the pinned comment. If you
are a man who is serious about a happy lifelong loving relationship with a woman who adores you,
you need to check it out like right now. So again, coachmelannie.com/masterclass
There's also a link in the description below. Save yourself some heartache by making sure
you know what to do instead of just assuming and then having it all fall apart. With that,
let's get to the third female body language sign she's flirting with you. And this one, this one
kind of cracks me up because this is the one that I caught myself doing. It's funny when you start
studying body language. I was like, "Oh, yeah, I totally do that. I had no idea I did that."
That's what this one is to me. So number three is that she flirts/talks/smiles at you over her
shoulder. You've seen it in the movies, they're walking away and she gives them like a flirtatious
glance. Or she'll say something flirty or whatever over her shoulder. That is totally body language
of interest from a woman. And it's certainly a way she'll be a little bit playful and a little bit
flirty with you. Again, make sure she's never saying anything belittling because
that's always inappropriate. But if she's being a little bit teasy or a little bit flirty, yeah,
that is flirtatious body language 101. She'll talk to you and/or look at you over her shoulder.
Okay, our next body language sign she's flirting with you kind of cracks me up a little bit. But
women totally do this. I've caught myself doing this. This sign is that she will frame her face.
Now what do I mean by that? She'll just use her hands to draw attention to her face. For instance,
she might rest her head on her hands, maybe even cockeye her head a little bit. She may put- I'm
gonna have to move my mic. She may put two hands and rest her her head on it. And women, usually,
we don't notice. It's not like we think, "Oh, I'm going to frame my face now," but it's something
women do when they're like, "Oh, hey, you're cute, you should notice me." It sounds funny,
but it's totally a thing. Quick question before we get to our next sign. Are you enjoying this
video? I actually haven't done that many videos on flirting or signs she's flirting with you. Would
you like more in the future? If you would, comment "flirting" in the comments below to let me know
that that's something you would like to see. Your feedback helps me so much, so thank you thank you
thank you. Again, if you want more videos like this one, comment "flirting" in the comments
below. And leave any questions you have there as well. Okay, our next female body language
sign that she's flirting with you is that she touches you. Like I said, this is kind of the most
obvious. But it can be easy for a lot of guys to completely look past. When we're attracted to
someone we like to touch them, right? That's just kind of how it works. And it's certainly a really
good way to flirt. So like I mentioned earlier, she might give you a little bit of a playful push
or bump up against you playfully a little bit. Or she may give you a hug every time she sees you.
Something like that is actually very flirtatious. Maybe if you pass her something or she passes you
something she lets her fingers linger so she touches your hand a little bit.
Simple, subtle things like that are huge ways that women will flirt with you. Maybe it's as
simple as sitting close to you when you're sitting next to each other. These simple little ways are
ways that she is flirting with you. Okay, let me ask you a question. What do you do next? What
comes next? Oh, awesome, you see the signs she's flirting with you, the signs she's interested!
Now what do you do? If you don't have a game plan and know exactly step by step what to do
this is where most men run into trouble. This is where it goes terribly wrong. And then they send
me a comment or a DM, "Melannie, I saw the signs, and now she doesn't like me anymore." Yes, it's
because you made her feel uncomfortable. Obviously it was unintentional. Obviously you didn't mean
to do that. But if this keeps happening to you, that is your problem. I cannot tell you
how many times I see this on a daily basis. But at the same time, if you don't make a move,
she'll think you're not interested and she will move on. So you've got to make sure you understand
what to do next so that you can increase that attraction, make her really really like you,
and then see if you can have a relationship with this gal. I teach you step by step exactly how
to do this in my program, Attracting Lasting Love Academy. If you are serious about having a happy,
lifelong relationship that's where you need to go to have all the answers up front. I
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It's weird, you put a camera in front of you and all of a sudden you don't know if you know how to
talk anymore. It's really weird. [laughter] And I've been doing this a long time so you'd think
I'd be used to it, but I don't think anybody gets used to it. She's not doing it on purpose, but if
you notice she leans in when she's talking to you, that can be a really good sign that, yeah, she's,
you know, she's, totally flirting. [laughter] It's weird to show flirting to a camera. [laughter]
I'm trying to portray it for you though nonetheless. The end! I did it. Fist pump.
It looks cooler in my mind than in person. It's like, 'Yes!" [laughter] Never mind.