- So you feel like he's losing interest in you
and you don't know what to do.
Maybe he's not contacting you, maybe he's pulling away
or has totally ghosted you.
In this video, I will share with you six powerful tips
how to gain his interest back even more than before.
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So let's start with that powerful tip number one,
is do not act desperate.
Ladies, especially with social media,
a lot of you when you feel like your boyfriend
or a guy has lost interest, you start making posts like,
"You love somebody, please tell them,"
"Unbreak my heart," "Nobody wants to die lonely,"
or "All men are, you know, dot dot dot," and so on.
Ladies, all of these posts say desperation on your forehead.
Kinda puts you in the negative, sad zone,
and also labels you as a man-hater.
None of the men find this attractive.
Therefore ladies, please avoid showing your sorrows,
showing your sad emotions on social media.
It does not put high value light on you.
It actually turns men off
and it just confirms that they made the right decision
to kinda disappear from here.
So number one tip, as I said, no desperation.
The powerful tip number two, do not chase him.
Do not contact him first.
Do not watch his stories.
Do not like his pics on social media.
Just don't put any energy towards him.
If he is pulling away from you or he is ghosting you,
give him all that space that he needs.
You need to give him space in order to miss you.
Ladies, there is a very good saying,
absence make the heart grow fonder.
This works like magic with men.
Only when he feels your absence,
this is when he will start to wonder what are you up to?
What are you doing?
Where are mind is at?
And this is when he will get curious
to get in touch with you,
especially if you have been the one chasing him before.
He'll be like, "Oh, why is she not chasing me anymore?
"What is happening with this girl?"
Okay, so do not pursue.
Give him space and time to miss you.
Ladies, men do not forget women
when you give them time and space to miss them.
They actually get intrigued and start to wonder
"why is she not chasing me anymore?"
"What is so interesting happening in her life
"that she is not focused on me anymore?"
Also ladies, for more tips of why you should not chase a man
check out my video right here.
A third powerful tip is look your best.
Maybe it's time to hit the gym
and get that toned body that you always wanted.
Looking good will inspire him to contact you faster.
He is a guy after all and they are visual creatures.
Sometimes you just need to give him
a little bit of inspiration.
The fourth powerful tip, ladies,
it's time to put yourself first and shine like a diamond.
Most likely he has lost interest in you
because you were putting him first
and treating him like a king.
So take off that focus from him and put it on you.
Put it on your goals, dreams and ambitions.
Socialize, go out, see your friends.
Make sure that he sees that, of course,
because when his mind is getting all curious,
why are you not pursuing, chasing him,
when he checks out your social media,
you looking all hot, having fun with your friends,
focusing on your goals, putting yourself first,
shining like a diamond,
do you think he's gonna get curious?
"Oh, what has happened to this girl?
"Let me check in with her to see what she's doing
"what she's up to."
The fifth tip, ladies, keep your options opened.
I see so many of you just focusing on
that one guy who's throwing you breadcrumbs.
Ladies, be logical!
Who does that?
Keep your options opened.
The five tips that I just gave you,
they all work like magic but they are not guaranteed.
As you cannot control the other person,
you can only control yourself,
so be wise and don't put all the eggs into one basket.
Keep your options opened.
And when he comes to you, you're looking all hot.
You have your whole thing going on,
your friends, social life, goals, dreams and ambitions.
You're focusing on your life
and you're keeping your options opened,
how do you think, ladies, he's gonna feel?
He's gonna feel like, "What have I done?
"And see what's happening here
"because she looks like such a catch."
And the sixth step is just a reminder.
Men usually come back.
And it does not matter why they come back.
Sometimes guys come back for an ego stroke.
Sometimes guys come back 'cause they want a cookie.
Sometimes they come back 'cause they curious
and they just wondering what is happening in your life.
The key is it does not matter why he's coming back.
What matters is how you behave when he comes back.
As this is when it's crucial
to make every single step correctly
and not make any mistakes.
And to be honest ladies,
this is where majority of women make their mistakes.
They either come across too arrogant
or we come across too aggressive
and pressure a guy to be in the relationship with them.
Then again, if a guy gets turned off,
loses interest and runs for the hills.
This is why, ladies, in order to not make these mistakes,
I would recommend you to get my texting video
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