Hello! Today's topic is a common theme that I've been seeing with my coaching
clients lately that I felt like
maybe this is some kind of guidence
from the universe some synchronicity that I need to be paying attention to
so I decided that I would talk to you guys about it
So here's the thing we live two realities
we live the reality that we actually are
perceiving and observing and
we live a reality in our head or we are trying to live a really in our head
and there's a discrepancy between
the two realities the reality in her head it saying
by 29 you should be married and had 2.5 kid
by 32 you are making six figures and
by 34 you thought was so we have this
map in her head that
is same did through how you life should be and then we have
the reality a friend about and time
that I reality engine deathmatch
and that's what and happiness occurs because we feel that we should
be doing certain things social media doesn't help either
because we see our friend you know she went to Europe and she doing so well
with her big tits oh my god she got promoted
and he just do you know he is doing a maybe have happily married and
and we just start thinking about where we should be
well we should be doing and we get caught up by this
should I should I should I shouldn't that
we forget to just take the steps forward
to get there how do we do that then everything is the right now detain
and I knew how to do that I would have already done it
this isn't going to work but this is how it worked I want you
to grab a pen and a few the paper and I want you to write down
who you want to be and not so much what you want to have a guy when he didn't
mansion with his amazing
luxury car but maybe the person who you have to be
to have some of those things who do you have to be to
have the fit body who do you have to be to
to be in a happy marriage who do you have to be to
get that promotion whatever it is think about
who you have to be and I want you to write down
what kind of choices this person makes what kind of discipline they have
I want you to
really get to know this person because this person is going to be an extended
version of you
the upgraded version of you whatever you want to call that person
and once you have that written down
I want to throw it away detach from not forget about that
I just want to have been that in the back of your mind I want you to throw it away but don't want you to cling on to
being that person that is just
kinda a guidance that is what we are aiming for
then I want you to come back to the present moment come back to your life
where you are now
and I want to do in every single
moment decide
what kind of choice do I have to make in this moment
to become that person that I want to be so
say you want to be the fit mom or say you want to
be financially secure you're going to be presented
with the moment where you going to be tempted to spend you're going to be tempted
have to be the cheesecake and in that moment
decide who do I want to be?
what kind of a choice to I had to make right now
to get to get to be that person
I want you to be really honest with yourself just be completely honest and
say I know that this is something that sounds appealing so I am not going to b
take me to remind me
coming to do it or I am i doing or whatever it is you had to not to do it or I am going to do it or whatever it is you decide to do
but you have to do this moment by moment you have to do it
each and every single day you have to really decide you can't let yourself
go
on auto pilot and say okay watch this video
and just try to do it when you remember you really have to step into this role
and every second decide because every tiny little choice
makes up a lifetime
and where you are today is just as sum
of the choices that you made in the past
it is in these tiny little moments that make
a complete lifetime and these tiny little moments, they matter pay
attention to them
and the next thing that I want to do
is to hit like on this video if you felt inspired in anyway
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todays theme
thought that was lizard on me
I have been spending a lot of time at the beach
yeah black people tan
we lose to that golden
complexion like so much about
our skin