- [Narrator] Hey, Psych2Goers.
Hope you're having a wonderful day.
Curious about who finds you attractive,
not based on your looks but based on your behavior as well?
You may have a friend that's fallen for you,
or at least you think so,
or perhaps you notice people often compliment
your personality, and perhaps your looks as well.
So how can you tell if someone finds your behavior
and personality attractive?
Well, here are five signs
people find your personality attractive,
not just your looks.
Number one, they seem nervous or awkward around you
after they've gotten to know you a bit.
So you've been hanging out with someone
for a while and suddenly they've been a bit nervous
and awkward around you lately.
Maybe they've started blushing at the little things you say.
They stumble on their words
or now have trouble meeting your eyes.
This could mean they've developed feelings for you
based on the interactions you've had together.
Everyone's different.
Some may try their best to shake off the nerves
before speaking with you again.
So you may not always notice it.
Others may not be able to help it.
So do you notice your friend suddenly can't meet your gaze
without blushing?
They may just like you, my friend.
They may just like you.
Number two, their attitude and vocabulary suddenly changes
around you after a while.
You have a friend you've been hanging out with more lately,
but you suddenly noticed
they've started to noticeably change their vocabulary
and manner only around you.
This plays into how others may tend
to mimic another's subtle gestures and behavior
if they like them
including changing their expressions.
Language and speak researcher, Dr. Marina Kalashnikova
from the university of Western Sydney
told ABC Radio Melbourne's Lindsay Burns
that we would use more similar expressions.
For example, to sound more alike.
She explains that this can sometimes happen fast
over a conversation.
So do you notice someone unconsciously
changes the way they speak
because they're simply in awe of you,
or they just really nervous only around you again.
Over due time they've admired you so much,
they've mimicked your behavior and language,
sounds like the chameleon effect to me, folks.
Number three, they're engaged in your conversations.
Have you had a few conversations with someone recently?
Notice they were particularly engaged
in what you had to say, or are they on their phone?
Are they scanning around the room?
Are they looking at something else?
If they don't engage with you often on the emotional level
or even any level during your outings,
then it's likely they don't like you on an emotional level.
However, if they ask follow up questions
and keep their focus on you,
then it's another good sign that they're interested in you.
Number four, they keep the conversation going
and emotionally open up to you as well.
Similar to being engaged in your conversation
and listening to what you have to say,
they'll likely wanna keep talking to you.
Do they try to keep the conversation going
by asking questions and mentioning interesting points
of their own.
It can sometimes be difficult to do this.
But if they've been trying to continue chats with you,
this is a good sign that they like you.
This can be through text too.
This could mean they bring up random things about their day,
interesting comments on a show they're watching,
or even sending those funny memes.
They'll try to make more excuses to talk to you.
And once you start talking,
they'll generally put a bit of effort
into keeping the conversation going.
But often for a conversation to continue,
you'll wanna put in some effort too.
If you don't, they may be wondering
if you like them as much as they like you.
So let them know you enjoy talking to them.
Then your conversations may become effortless and easy.
Could you become more than friends?
And number five, they often compliment your personality,
traits, humor, et cetera.
Not only does this person you're thinking of
have some of the signs above
but you notice they give you genuine compliments as well.
Not just about your looks, but often about your personality
or perhaps your humor too.
Maybe they've mentioned how much they enjoy spending time
with you, or perhaps they've started flirting with you
after getting to know you for a while.
This can be a good indicator that they're falling for you,
not only on an emotional level,
but a romantic one as well.
They've gotten to know you and recognize all the many things
that make you amazing and unique.
They've fallen for you
and now likely find you both emotionally attractive
and physically attractive as well.
The question is, how do you feel about them?
Is there romance in the air?
Feel free to let us know in the comments,
what signs you recognize in someone you know?
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