Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
Today, we’re showing the 10 powerful ways guys get girls to chase them.
And because we want you to be the one being chased and not the other way around,
We’re also showing the #1 reason why women never seem to want you as much as you want
them, and how you can change that.
So.... here are 10 ways to get girls to chase you + the 1 thing that stops most girls from
chasing you.
10. Keep the Lead Open
If there’s one thing guys do to kill a woman’s
interest in them, It’s to waste their lead by prematurely
celebrating the win.
Here’s what we mean: Say a guy and a girl are chatting, she’s
laughing and smiling, ...And he’s beginning to think what he’s
doing is working.
But instead of building on the nice progress he had going,
He gets excited and stops doing the one thing that the girl was enjoying.
The moral of the story?
Don’t punch out before the work is done.
9. Put Her in the Friend Zone
Think guys are the only ones that have to
suffer in the depths of the friend zone?
Think again.
Because just like the friend zone drives guys to become a little bit...needy,
It also does the same thing to girls.
But here’s a question for you: If you actually found yourself in a position
to friendzone a girl, would you?
If you’re like most guys, you wouldn’t take the risk of losing a girl
who’s into you.
But if being chased is really what you want, You’re going to figure out a way to make
a girl wonder if you’re more than just a friend.
8. Warm Up Her Social Circle
One thing that definitely makes a girl hold
back on how much she goes after a guy, is how her friends see him.
That’s because, a girl’s friends are essentially an extension of her.
Which means that if a guy is good for a girl He must also be good for the group.
Now of course, there are plenty of women out there who will
break from their social circles, But in many cases, it’s pretty much a rule
of nature... if you want a girl to feel like she’s even
allowed to chase you, You’re going to have to warm up to her group
of friends first.
7. Leave If You Have To Leave
Because at the end of the day:
You can’t really be chased if you don’t ever go, right?
But really, to women, there’s two kinds of guys in this world:
The ones who have always got to go...
...And the ones who can always stay.
And it’s the guys who can’t always stick around,
...That really get a woman’s attention.
6. Tell Her She’s a Distraction
Here’s a little secret:
Women actually love not being the center of your universe
...but only if what they’re vying for your attention with, has to do with your goals
Meaning, girls find productivity to be incredibly, chase-ably attractive.
So if you’re a busy guy, here’s a way to get a woman to chase you:
(in a nice way) Tell her she distracts you.
Not only will she not be able to ignore the fact that you got things going on that aren’t
her, But saying you can’t ignore her when she’s
around...can be an amazing compliment.
Just be careful how you say it.
5. Contrast Your Attention
If you aren’t able to hang out with her
because you’re so busy,, make sure the time you do get to spend with
her is something that really counts.
Ask questions, listen, and don’t constantly check your phone.
In other words: Go all in and show her an amazing time when
you’re with her.
The reason this works is has to do with the contrast in your attention.
By going from limited attention to full attention, You are get to surprise her with a side of
you she doesn’t get to see enough of.
4. Dare to Disagree
Just one piece of advice before you run off
with this one: Don’t disagree with every little thing a
woman says just to disagree because chances are,
...that’s not going to go anywhere.
But the truth is this, If you really want women to chase you, you’re
going to have to do what a lot of guys won’t: And show them you have funny, smart, semi-original
thoughts of your own.
The reason for this is simple: ANY girl can find a pushover, “yes man”
type who will agree with anything she says.
Those types of guys, though perfectly “nice”, ...are a dime a dozen.
On the other hand, The guy who doesn’t just automatically nod
and smile at everything, is not only infinitely more interesting,
But also way more rare than the guy who is too nervous to state his real opinion.
Just a quick break to remind you that at the end of this video,
We’re going to show you the one absolutely critical mindset trap
….that guarantees women will never chase you.
So to make sure you’re not doing all the work,
Stay tuned til the end of this video.
Now let’s finish with the last 3 on our list.
3. Keep the Conversational Tension
What is probably good news for some of the
low-key guys out there, Is that one of the easiest ways to be an attractive,
chase-worthy guy, is to lean more towards saying less than you
really have to.
Here’s how it works: If you let the girl do most of the talking
while you do a little bit less, It can sometimes create an intriguing level
of tension between the two of you.
….And in doing that, it doesn’t just pique her interest, it creates a little game
Where your job is to keep the conversational tension and its hers to release it.
2. Use the Midas Touch
Here’s the thing about touching women:
(surprise!)
Most guys have no idea how to do it.
Which is too bad, ...because knowing how to touch a woman the
RIGHT way, may be the most important part of getting
a woman to become feverishly, unstoppably attracted to you.
Why?
Because not only do women actually really like being touched THE RIGHT WAY,
But because a guy who can show restraint through his touch is a hard to come by.
1. Let Her Lead
Well guys, where the chase was up to you,
the lead is up to her.
So if you’re at the point where it’s finally time to let her take over.
You’ve probably done an outstanding job of getting yourself chased.
Congratulations.
Now don’t blow it.
The Number 1 Thing You Can Do to Make Women Run away
As promised: Here is the #1 thing guys do that will guarantee women NEVER chase them.
For everything we showed you here today, it comes down to this:
Girls chase guys who don’t play games.
Want to know why girls “chase” some guys?
Because those guys aren’t just playing hard to get,
They actually ARE hard to get.
Which means the #1 thing you can do to guarantee YOU’LL always be chasing women,
is to be desperate.
Now, most likely, You don’t do this on purpose.
And of course, you CAN actually live without getting a girl’s number
But if women sense that you’re just another desperate guy trying to score,
Well not only are they not going to want you, they’re probably gonna turn around and run
from you too.
Those are the 10 key signs you’re in the friend zone and the #1 sign that you’re
definitely not.
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