In this video, we're going to be covering five signs that your ex never wants you back.
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Also, in this video, we're going to be talking about signs that your ex doesn't want you
back. This of course is something that you can change. Depending on how you interact
with them and depending on how the two of you connect emotionally, these things can
absolutely flip and change for the better. Don't think that any of this is just like
set in stone and that none of this can be changed or adjusted in any sort of way. If
you are interested in learning about how we might flip your ex's emotional connection
with you, we do have a course called the EX Solution program, which could help you out,
if that's something that you're interested in. You can find information on that down
below in the description box for this video. But anyway, let's go ahead and get started.
The first sign that your ex doesn't want you back right now, is they hold a lot of resentment
toward you. Relationships decline for a lot of reasons, and it could be anything, like
a break of trust, it could be cheating, it could be lying, it could be the feeling just
went away, it could be all sorts of things. Right? If your ex has sort of started to resent
you because of whatever caused the relationship to not work out, then that means that they're
in an emotional place where they don't want to get back together with you.
And so resentment is kind of like them twisting their perception of reality, their perception
of what happened, to kind of exaggerate some, maybe legitimate reasons why their relationship
didn't work out, some legitimate shortcomings of yours, or possibly even inventing them
in order to create a negative version of you in their own mind that they can point to and
say, that is the reason that terrible jerk person over there, is the reason why our relationship
didn't work out. This just means that any sort of negative
emotions that they're having are starting to kind of like congeal into this resentment.
Of course, there are ways that you can get around that, but if that's what your ex is
experiencing right now, they don't want to get back together with you right now. Pretty
obvious. Pretty obvious. Again, I want to make it clear that this is not set in stone.
We've definitely had a lot of clients over the years who have been able to kind of flip
their exes emotional states to actually become more receptive towards getting back together
with them, connecting with them, all that stuff. Again, none of this stuff is set in
stone. The next sign. The second sign that your ex
does not want to get back together with you is that they're in a new relationship with
someone else. For all intents and purposes, at least in terms of what you can tell and
perceive, it seems like that relationship is going well. Now, of course, your ex doesn't
want to get back together with you if they're in a relationship with someone else that seems
to be going well. Oftentimes this is a rebound relationship. Oftentimes your ex will definitely
go for a rebound relationship. I've just seen a larger trend towards rebound relationships
in the years, since I've been helping people with breakups and relationships. I think it's
just how people are choosing to cope with uncomfortable emotions collectively as a society,
just some sort of overall trend. So don't be surprised if your ex does end up in a rebound
relationship. Most people don't go into a new relationship
with anything other than good intentions. They want it to work out. They want it to
be a good relationship. They want to do the right thing. And so your ex is probably not
thinking about getting back together with you. They're not open to getting back together
with you currently, if they're in a new relationship. Again, this is not set in stone. This can
change. This can flip. We've had a lot of people who have gotten their exes back when
their ex has gone into a rebound relationship. Don't think that this is some sort of death
sentence or anything like that. The third sign that your ex never wants you
back is if they blame you for the breakup. If they think that the breakup was your fault.
Sure, maybe it was, maybe you messed up, maybe you did something that you regret, but if
they're, again, kind of holding it over you, pointing to you and saying, "You're the reason
it didn't work out." Then it just shows that there's still a lot of anger there towards
you. It shows that there's a lot of pent up negativity towards the two of you. Maybe it's
not congealed to that point of resentment yet, but it just shows that they're probably
not going to be super receptive towards getting back together with you.
Again, we can flip this. We can do things like connect with them on an emotional level,
get them to release that pain, that anger and allow the two of you to create a space
for better understanding between the two of you. But if they're in that point right now,
at least right now, they're not open to being in a relationship.
The fourth sign, actually, before we go ahead and get into that, I do want to let you know
that we do have a video series on signs that your ex wants you back, or maybe doesn't want
you back. You can find that right up there in a video card. But anyway, with that being
said, the fourth sign that your ex never wants to get back together with you is if they refuse
to talk to you. Now, I'll admit, it's a tough place to be in when your ex doesn't want to
talk to you. You text them, you get silence. You call them, they don't pick up, that sort
of stuff. If that happens, it's a tough place to be
in. There are definitely techniques and strategies we can use to hopefully get them to open up
again. Like addressing whatever emotional issue they might be holding onto that's stopping
them from actually talking to you, we can totally do that, but it can be a difficult
spot to be in. And just know that if they're not open to talking to you, if they're not
open to communicating with you, they're really not in a place where they're really entertaining
the idea of getting back together, most likely. Now, of course, sometimes people might not
be in contact because they're really trying to think things through. They're trying to
make sure that their next move is the right move. But most of the time, if your ex isn't
talking to you or in communication with you, it just shows that they are not seeing you
in the best light. Let's put it that way. And that means that they're probably not open
to entertaining the idea of the two of you getting back together at this point in time.
Again, this is something that is malleable and it is something that we can work on, but
at least at this point in time, they're in the mindset of, I never want to get back together
with you. And the fifth sign your ex never wants you
back is if they have blocked you or unfollowed you, or basically shut down any sort of medium
or channel of communication between the two of you. Obviously this is a really, really
difficult spot to be in. If there is just like no actual way for you to communicate
with them. If you've been blocked, unfollowed, unfriended, all that stuff, it can be very
difficult for you to actually communicate with them. It's a really tough spot to be
in. And it is kind of disempowering because there's really little that you can actually
do. I mean, unless you have like their physical
address that you could send them something in the mail or unless you can like call them
on the phone or something like that. There's really little that you can do if you've been
like fully blocked on everything. I'm not talking like, "Oh, well they blocked me on
Facebook, but we can still talk or email or text." I'm talking about like fully blocked
on everything. Again, these are things that can change. And your ex might be able to sit
there in their silence, out of communication with you and then realize, Hey, maybe I was
a little bit harsh and extreme. Maybe I overreacted or something. And then they can unblock you
and get back in contact with you. But at least at the time that they're doing it, they are
not open to getting back together with you. Okay?
So once again, these are things that can be improved upon and can change. I know that
oftentimes people have this sort of like, what they call a fixed mindset, where if something
is one way, it's never going to change, but it's not really that way. Things absolutely
can change. Things absolutely can have a sort of fluidity to them, where maybe someone is
closed off to being in contact with us right now. But if we say, or do something different,
suddenly it can shift things and they can be open to being in contact with us again.
Or somebody might be closed off to getting back together with us right now, and they
might be thinking, I never want to get back together with you.
But, if they have a new understanding, a new connection, a new perspective on things, then
that can totally change after their desires and what they want and the possibility of
getting back together as well too. So don't think that it's just sort of like fixed thing.
And if it's like, well, they don't want to get back together now, it's always going to
be that way. It's not necessarily going to be that way at all.
I hope this has helped you out. Once again, if you do want to learn more about that Ex
Solution program course, we have a link for that down in the description box below this
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about signs your ex wants you back, or doesn't want you back, check out this video series
over here, or you might want to check out this video right here. Thank you so much for
watching this video. Hope you're having a great day and I'll talk to you next time.
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