- My wife and I got married pretty late
and we were both in our late 30s
and by the time we kinda got serious
about having children, it's not like they told you
in high school.
It doesn't just happen.
And we weren't able to.
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Early on in our marriage when we first started
and even talked about kids, there was a part
of me that was kind of immaturely worried
about my wife as I know her, she's gonna be all over
the baby and I'm gonna be the guy over here saying
go get the diapers, go get the over there.
And you can't complain because it's well who you are?
We have a baby, baby's more important than you.
That's so stupid.
If anybody is listening to this who was that
of that age, let me just tell you from experience
it's really dumb.
What I got to see when Chika came into our lives
about my wife, it wasn't a loss, it was a gain.
I had so much more love for my wife
and more appreciation for my wife and more.
It was a richer marriage.
It's like we had gone from two dimensional
to three dimensional.
Which now that I think about it those numbers
are actually match up (laughing) because we went
from two to three.
We realized there's more to life
than just the two of you and there's more
to your marriage than just the two of you.
And it really enriches it if you're married
to the right person.
And so I would highly recommend it for anyone
who is on the fence about it.
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