You're already like wide open, like ready to go
I am (laughing) I am ready to go
She untied the robe and I'm like "No you gotta retie it-
Because everyone wants to see you tie it and then retie it"
Cuz it looks sexier"
Because you're stripping
"I feel very sexy at the moment!" (Background laughter)
Good morning girlfriends and boyfriends!
Today I am here with one of my best friends, Maia!
Who happens to be wearing a softball t-shirt...
GAYYY
And you also happen to be transgender
I am transgender
So you are a transgender lesbian
And I thought it would be fun...
If you showed me your vagina
And you've had all the surgeries you would need-
-That you feel that you would need?
Yes, at least. Everybody's transition is different -Right
I should say that this is my idea
I don't want people out there to think "Oh, Ariel shouldn't have asked her that ):o" or anything
So you're gonna go get changed!
We're also gonna answer questions that you guys sent me on Twitter and Facebook.
So, you are now in your sexy clothes
I guess.. Let's just do it!
Here we go - Oh my God (laughing)
Okay, I am so ready for this!
You're ready? - Yeah, you ready for all my ridiculous questions that I'll probably ask?
I've probably heard em all before
But not.. With somebody actually staring at my vagina.
That's my vagina~
It's like fucking perfect.
Can I just say that?
-Yeah!
The lips aren't... They're flatter than most people that I've seen
So what you're saying is the lips are not as big - They're not as big, yes.
I don't have a lot of options
It's not like she's saying "How big you want this, how big you want that?".
What they start with is what you end up with
So there's no excess skin or anything like that? - Right, they use everything.
What I don't have really is, and really no transwoman really has is a very big inner labia
So I wouldn't have like, you know. The inner labia that extends out - The layers!
The layers - All the layers! (laughing)
We're taught as women to have 'less lips' then it's.. more sexy and stuff like that
Right, I think a lot of women who do have large inner labias are very self-conscious about it
The only option I had was the size of my clitoris
There's like the clitoral hood, right here
- Okay And then basically... that right there. I'm not sure if you can see it..
I do, I see it.
It's big! In a good way! Like, as big as mine, I should say. - Yeah
It's as big as mine which makes me less self conscious about myself
Yeah, I told her to make it average sized
Oh, she says that mine's average sized - Yeah
(laughing)
It depends on when you talk about the clitoris because the clitoris is really like 8cm long
- It's big! Yeah, and it goes into you
Yeah, like mine it sticks out a lot
I'd be a shower and not a grower, if you like - (laughing)
Cuz mine's like, it's.. You can see it right away
Some people's are like 'Where the fuck is it?'
- Well.. With yours, I feel like you have to search a little bit
Can you orgasm vaginally and clitorally?
Well the clitoris is what we would call sensate, so
- Sensate? Sensate, I can feel with it, I can have orgasms just from clitoral stimulation.
- Okay So it works
Do you think most transwomen prefer vaginal or is it just- - I think just like cis-gendered women, transwomen have different preferences
Can I orgasm vaginally? Well, yeah, kinda. I mean I do have a G-Spot inside
You do?
Yeah, up inside
Basically in the same place that you do.
They don't make it, you just have a similar kind of cluster of nerves in the same place
- When they design it that way?
So, like, if I take a vibrator and I.. yeah, if I do that then I will have a kind of orgasm.
So here are some questions from my viewers!
Has it been a big adjustment going from "Wracking the beef to tossing the bean around?" (laughter)
Like, a blowjob or - - You couldn't. It wasn't enough
It didn't.. It never got me there, so after surgery it didn't get me there either.
Now, the difference is that now, like if I masturbate, in the beginning it took a lot longer to have an orgasm
Before, it was really quick
And now it takes a long time
Or it did used to take a long time, now I've gotten better at it, I'm faster.
I think my brain does feminize under the hormones but at the same time I think just a different configuration just makes it different.
How do they build the clit?
They actually take the head of the penis, which is actually the only part of the penis that remains - Right
People think it's like the entire penis or something, it's only just little head piece, and only the top part of the head piece - Yeah
So, they basically leave that intact, shave the clitoris out of it, and basically keep the nerves intact with it
And then they make an opening in the skin so you can get to it
Just like a cis-gendered woman, you know your citoris stems into you - Yeah, yeah.
So, even with mine, mine is not all of my clitoris - It's not just there, it's inside? Yeah
What did it feel like immediately after the surgery?
Like, when I first woke up I though "Ooh I'm gonna wake up and oh my god I'm gonna have a vagina it would feel different"
And, really, what it feels like, is sitting up for the first time and telling the nurse "I think I just sat, I think I'm sitting on a tennis ball or something"
And she was like "No honey, that's the swelling" - Urgghh Exactly.
I'm like "Ughh..." It's like getting a C-Section
In a lot of different ways - Really?
For the clear you'll have to go back to like your normal activities
So it's a lot like a C-Section
Okay
I gave birth to myself, is what I like to say
(Gasp) I love that!
Right, isn't it good!
What kind of pre-op preparation were you expected to do, to get yourself ready for it?
Umm, a lot of stretching.
(laughing)
- What kind of stretching do you mean? (laughing) Stretching...
One thing they recommend you do is hair-removals down there.
The skin they're gonna use is gonna go up inside you and you don't wanna have hair growing up in your vagina - Oohh...
"Did the surgery help you with body image, now that your body is "100% woman" in the eyes of society
and has it validated your femininity?
For every transwoman it's different
For every trans person, it's a different surgery.
After I had my surgery, the overwhelming feeling I had was a lot like peace.
I did feel better about my body, I felt like everything is the way it's supposed to be.
How was your first time experiencing an orgasm as a woman?
And you've actually made a video about this on your channel so you guys can go and check it out I'll have a link in the description below.
It was amazing, but it took a long time. It took about 3 months of playing.
I also realised that all the other ones I've had were just different kinds of orgasms that I was never used to having because guys don't...
They only kind of have one orgasm.
Well, I mean.. Gay guys would tell you there are other kinds of orgasm that you can have
Yeah, um, but most straight guys, no, if they only go with conventional sex then they will only have that kind of one.
But yeah, I was having all kinds of different orgasms that I wasn't expecting and didn't realise I could have.
Thank you guys so much for watching and if you enjoyed this video, of course give it a big thumbs up because this.. This is epicness right here, it really is
Sex ed for the 21st century, is that what we're in right now? (Laughter) - I guess so
Go and check out the video we did over on Maia's channel
We talk.. We, we basically compared notes on what it's like to have sex as a cis lesbian vs a trans lesbian.
- Yeah It's gonna be really interesting
So go and check it out and subscribe to her, subscribe to me, and I will see you guys back here on Sunday with a brand new video.
I love you
Byee!