- Hey, this is Mat Boggs,
and today we're gonna look
at ten secret signs a guy is flirting with you.
Sign number one is: He stands with his hands
on his hips, his shoulders back,
and his legs apart.
Now, most guys don't even know they're doing this,
but they're actually doing it
because it makes them look bigger
and it's a subconscious thing, huh!
They put their shoulders back,
hands on hips,
apart,
because they like you.
Secret number two is: He'll start fussing
with his clothes.
He'll adjust his shirt a little bit,
pull it down,
get it just right,
pull up his pants.
You'll notice him adjusting himself
as he's either approaching you
or as he's getting ready to approach you,
or even when he's talking with you.
It's a way that he's trying to look nice in your presence.
Number three is: He raises his eyebrows and smiles.
(camera shutter clicking) This is also subconscious.
When we want to impress someone
or when we want to connect with someone
we raise our eyebrows, we smile,
we say, "Oh, my gosh, it's amazing."
And it's a way for us to connect
to someone that we're interested in.
Number four: He gets way too animated
on things that you have in common.
"Oh, my gosh!
"You breathe air?"
"I breathe air!
"I can't believe this!
"We both breath air!
"You and me, we're air-breathers!
"How amazing is that?"
Number five is: He will use any excuse he can
to get close to you.
Most common is a crowd, or it's noisy,
so he'll say, "Hey, hey, come here, come here.
(whispering) "Hey, uh, so, what are you doing this weekend?"
So, it creates a forced intimate moment
between you and him.
Number six is: Physical contact.
When we like someone, as a guy,
it's essential for us to want
to make physical contact.
So, he may touch your arm
or gently touch your hand,
or he may put his hand on your back
as he's opening the door for you,
to a restaurant.
Or he'll put his arm around you
to keep you warm.
Number seven is that he will
extend the conversation with you.
Here's what I mean.
In conversations, for men,
the most important thing for us is the point.
What's the point?
What are we trying to resolve, here, right?
What are we trying to fix?
And our job is to get to the point
and then get on to the next topic
a quickly as possible.
That's how we normally do conversations.
But when he's flirting with you,
he's gonna try to extend that
by asking you questions, saying,
"Oh, my gosh, that's interesting.
"Tell me more about that."
Or, "What happened next?"
Or, "Tell me about this."
And that's just a way of him getting more time
with you, in that conversation.
Number eight is: You'll notice this guy digging
to find out if you're dating somebody.
So, he may ask, "Hey, so that concert you went
"to last weekend,
"did you go with a guy
"or just your girlfriends,
"or who did you go with?"
Or he'll say, "Hey, so how it's going on Tinder?
"I bet you're getting hit up by a ton of guys."
Men who are interested, who are flirting,
they're trying to find out
what their competition is.
They're trying to find out: Are you dating anyone?
Are you interested in anyone?
And if there's the door open,
possible for them.
And number nine is: He tries to protect you
and anticipate your needs.
Some might call this being chivalrous.
All right?
He'll pull out the chair for you.
He'll offer you his jacket if he sees that you're cold.
He will walk on the outside of the sidewalk,
protecting you from the traffic,
where you're walking on the inside,
away from the traffic.
He will offer to hold your purse.
All these kinds of things are ways
that men are trying to please you,
to protect you.
It's a great sign that he's interested in you.
And finally, number 10 is: He zones out
when he's talking with you.
Now, stay with me, here,
I know that sounds
counterintuitive,
but oftentimes, if you're talking
with a man, where are you looking?
You're looking in his eyes.
And one of the proven scientific ways
that we actually build connection
and attraction for someone is
when we're looking in their eyes.
So, as he's listening to you,
and he's looking in your eyes,
oftentimes, there's a second story
running in his mind
about how attracted to you he really is.
It kinda looks like this:
- [Woman] So, (conversations in background)
for the holidays, my mom actually makes
the most amazing turkey I've ever had, far none...
- [Mat] Wow, man, she is gorgeous.
(woman's voice drowned out by Mat's thoughts)
Look at those eyes.
She's beautiful.
And you know, and she's athletic, too.
I bet our kids, if we had kids together,
they would totally be amazing little athletes.
She is sexy, too.
- [Woman] So, how about you?
What do you guys do?
- Um, I'm sorry, can you ask me the question again?
If you notice your man zoning out
or he gets nervous,
or he gets a little bit bumbling
in the conversation with you,
don't hold that against him,
just know that that's a sign
that he actually likes you
and that he's attracted to you.
So, there you have it,
10 secret signs that a guy's flirting with you.
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And I have a question for you.
What are the secret signs
that we don't know about, as men,
that you are flirting with us?
In other words, when you like a guy,
what are the things that you notice yourself doing?
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