person who is always small minded always looking at
who is good looking , with whome i can have sex
you will see his energy is so low .
so dull, and no body near such a person
person who is obsessed with sex ,
is so unattractive .
isn't it ?
and he create such
dull and thick vibration around him or her
but there is no strenght ,
there is no vigour . there is there is no commitment
nothing comes out of them .
the mind goes in such a craze ,
that there is no strenght left with him.
and is limited then all jealousy , irritation , frustation everything comes .
end when the strom of negativity has come in the mind .
i tell you , that is the weekest and poorest mind .
all the truth ,all about existence everything disappears.
when your mind is obsessed with such a load of negativity about any person
you cannot even observe the beautiful nature you are in .
then it comes kamagni ,fire of passion
now we do not even allow this fire of passion to come up , rise up in us .
the moment the desire comes ,immediatly you fulfill it .
then , it doesn.t stay in you , it doesn't burn you up.
people who are very promiscuous
they have zero kamagni
they even do not allow the fire to come up and burn them a little bit.
bake them a little bit
the moment desire for sex , comes, finish it there .
sex is one of the oldest impression other than eating
from all life times ,
you have done two things for sure ,one is eating and another is sex.
as a cow , as a monkey , as a donkey , as a horse , as an ox whatever it may be
passing through all these bodies these two acts have been there .
when this passion arises
observe it , it is in every cell of your body.
it engulfs you totally it burns and moves on.
there is 100% totally of alertness , awareness whatever that gets developed through kaamagni .
the shakti in you , the potentiality in you
goes down and down and dormant an you become more inert
less sensitivity comes , more inertia dawns
celibacy is conseving the energy .
when your conserved energy from one channel ,
that same energy is available for you to be used in other channels .
enjoyment , whatever it is in all the five sensory pleasures depletes our energy.
if you keep looking at the screen for too long ,your eyes get tired
you keep listening to something ,too much noise our brain cannot handle .
similarly fragrant. people who are working in fragrant factories ,
they want place with no fragrant and so is the touch
so is sex .all these stimulating pleasures . drain our energy
to some extent
conserving it is yoga
and spending it called bhoga
and a life is a balance between these two yog and bhog
this doesn't mean that bhog is bad
but where you no longer get any pleasure , enjoyment in it
then you have risen above that
and you are looking for a bliss ,
a happiness which is beyond the senses .
and to reach that highest level of human existence
you have to close certain taps .
so ancient people say so beautifully physical pleasure , if it is considered one unit
the pleasure or job of samadhi is thousand times more than that .
great strength comes when bhramhcharya is established in you .
that is when you are seeing in youself more that the body .
you see yourself as conciousness, as brahman .
Brahmacharya has a deeper or bigger meaning than just celibacy .
Brmha means the infinity , Charya means moving in the infinity
knowing your vast nature .not thinking you are just the body
but you walk like you are a glow of light
you move in the world as thought you are space .
when you are sitting in deep meditation , you don't feel that you are a body ,
you are a lump of a heavy weight ,85 or 95 to a 100 pounds body .
you don't feel that you are 60 kg sitting there solid
you feel so light , you feel as though you are like a feather .
isn't it ?
when you walk , how do you feel ? you don't feel you are built up of body .
there is more space .the more joyful you are , you don.t feel the body .
the more you are in infinite consciousness
the least you are
feeling tension or a physical body weight or presence .
Bramhacharya is two things one as a practice where you take certain vows and put a boundary around youself
and the boundary helps you to grow .
it is like a plant having a little fence around it so that goats don't come and eat it away
you take certain vow , so that you drown in a habit of pleasures habit of enjoyment
this is one level this also helps a person to to move forward .
second level , is when , small pleasures don't even matter to you because
you got the version of something higher
you don't need to rub yourself against a skin to get a pleasure but it is a pleasure which is even bigger .
a glimpse of it makes the smaller pleasure irrelevent .
it does not even matter to you
No, when the sunlight is there so bright
a candle is not going to , bring anymore light to you
so if it is there or it is not there ,it becomes irrelevant
this is a higher level of brahmacharya , where pleasures are irrelevant to you .
is Sanyasa a prerequisite for enlightenment ? as in history there are many cases
where married people also have to take sanyasa before attaining enlightenment ?
Sanyas is something which happens to one
sanyas is concious decision to be centered .
Sanyas is commitment to something higher .
Sanyas is free from all smaller attachments
Sanyas is being centered in all circumstances
Sanyas is the vision of a higher goal in life .
Sanyas is an expression of total contentment .
Sanyas is not out of frustration people leave things and run away to have sanyas that i don't think is sanyas
hame kuch nahi chahiye mai yaha hun sab dene ke liye uddhar bhitar se uthe to samajhna sanyast ho gaya
What is grahasti ? to fulfill the reposnsibilities .
unke liye duty hai yah ghar ko samhalna
being householder , following the dharma of house holders
flufilling their duties and through karm yog also ,
they too can get liberated .
so many rishis and munis , were living lives of householder ,
maharshi vashisht , maharshi agastya were house holders fulfulling their duties but were also liberated souls .