- [Narrator] They love me, they love me not.
These iconic lines echo in the fading light
of the golden sun as you pluck
that pretty rose petal by petal.
Been there, done that, right?
As time passes, you realize that the question
whether someone likes you or not is a bit more complicated
than the local flora can handle.
Here are five signs that someone
is denying their feelings for you.
Number one, they get jealous easily.
Do they sometimes react weirdly
over totally normal occurrences?
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Which BTS member do you agree with?
In any relationship, jealousy can rear its head
at some point or other.
You might then question why someone
who hasn't stated their intentions becomes jealous of you
when they see you with other people.
It's pretty straightforward.
Their jealousy is one of the signs
that they are denying their feelings for you.
Their own feelings are all over the place at the moment.
They can't seem to figure out
why they're feeling the way they're feeling.
This inner conflict makes it difficult
for them to control their emotions
or give a name to their feelings.
Number two, they're flirting, but not following through.
Do they compliment your appearance,
constantly seek your opinion,
and are generally pleasant in your presence?
Yet they still haven't asked you out
or told you they like you.
This could be because they aren't sure
how they feel about you,
or because they're unaware of your feelings.
Sometimes, when a person likes you,
they'll go out of their way and get incredibly flirty.
And then they don't do anything else.
There's a chance they have a crush on you
if they compliment you and find excuses
to constantly be around you.
But they don't wanna rush things
or just aren't quite sure how to breach the topic with you.
In either case, it is an indication
that they're hiding their genuine feelings.
Number three, they give you mixed signals.
Were they oh so sweet to you at lunch today,
but didn't wanna sit next to you on the bus?
Perhaps they said they didn't like your outfit,
but then asked to borrow your jacket.
What?
If you constantly find yourself being pulled
in different directions with them,
it's because they keep giving you mixed signs.
This hot and cold attitude is more about them than you.
They're trying to fight their feelings,
or maybe make sense of them.
Then it's throwing them off their game, ouch.
It can be tough when you like someone
but don't know what to do.
So they might be acting very weird.
Number four, they talk in parables.
You wanna detect whether someone likes you?
If yes, then you can keep a check
on how they talk about others in their life.
Do they stress that they are just friends
with the rest of their circle,
and the best part is you didn't even ask them about it?
Also, the person will also inquire
about your relationship status in subtle ways.
They might inquire about who you hang out with
when you wanna unwind and have a good time
to see if they fit into your life.
They might be using such references to gauge your reaction
in order to gain insight into your daily life,
all the while, rallying their forces to take the next step.
Maybe, who knows?
Number five, the what ifs.
Are you having wholesome conversations with them
and exploring the potential of a future relationship,
but suddenly, they say that there is no point
in talking about it?
Are they quick to put a damper on all and any discussions
of a future together?
This could be a sign that they're denying
their feelings for you.
They might be harboring an irrational belief
that things just won't work out.
Their conversations are often punctuated
by a pessimistic fear of the future.
They think you two might not end up together,
which may cloud their judgment of commitment.
It can be easy to get lost in translation
or read too much between the lines.
The insecurity of your reaction towards them
or fear of losing a good friend
might be some of the many reasons one decides to hold back
from expressing their true feelings towards you.
If you suspect such is the case,
it's always a good idea for you to give them assurance,
if the feelings are mutual.
Please keep in mind that while someone may be denying
their feelings for you,
if the situation becomes manipulative or toxic,
it's important to set boundaries or even ask for help.
Do you know someone in your life
who's exhibited any of these signs mentioned here?
Or on the flip side, have you exhibited any of them?
Feel free to leave a comment with your experience,
feedback, or suggestions.
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