Like so how did that happen, when did it happen, why did it happen?
Who did it?
Hello, everyone and welcome back to your girl's channel today
I have the beautiful Jenn and the beautiful Sophie joining me here today
To do this get ready with me or get ready with us for you guys. We also answered a lot of your questions
That you guys sent over on Twitter, so it's kind of just a laid-back chit chatty get ready with me
And I hope you all enjoy it don't forget to check out Sophie's video and Jenn's video
We did a collab so all that will be linked down below and let's just jump right in because it's a long video
We're ready, we have our base, have our brows, so we're going to jump into [eyeshadow] now this morning
I tweeted to you guys to send some questions you have for us and there is [a] ton
I actually didn't even go through them yet. So let's see if there's something that I think you guys don't know [about] us, okay?
This is from MxNisha, and she asked how do you cut off toxic friends or people who are just negative? Whoa...
That's a good one! I think
Most girls have had to cut off toxic friends at some point in their lives
I think it's the whole trying to have that conversation is the hardest part. I know some people can just go about it and
Just kind of slowly distance themselves, and just, kind of fade out. That's what- that's my method. That's my method, too.
I mean the thing is when I was younger. I feel like I used to be a little bit more confrontational
you know something you have you said I said it, but as I got older
It's just difficult to have those conversations sometimes.
So it's just been easier in my life just to put that space you know that cushion and lowering expectations
Of that person and just mentally exiting out. But let's say this is like your best friend,
and your best friend is your top person and if you
[Ex] that person you, you would have no one in your life, that's tough. (Sophie): That's different. (Jenn): Right yeah
I think most of the time the toxic friends it isn't your best friend
I mean right when you look true as you know deep down already. Yeah, like you know. There's that disconnect
[I] think that it's easier to let them fade out
This is right and if we had to talk about it [that] I got it
Yeah, be honest and go into it being very calm. You know [yeah], it does not happen to be an argument
It does not have to end ugly like let it cool off and then
maybe like
Make it. I don't know, make an appointment make an appointment. Okay. I spot a boy. I'm going to photograph
Questions, you're fucking up our friendship
What are you guys doing right now? [oh], so I just used a soft brown color from the chocolate bar palette.
From Too Faced. (Weylie): Oh I love that palette. I wish I could smell it better (Jenn): I've never seen that palette before. Really? I have two of them. I'm gonna give you one of them. You-- You're going to give me one?!
Yeah. Oh my god wow! I'm going to give you one
But I'm not doing a neutral look today
Well kind of just on the crease and I'm just using color Pop
This is elixir, and it says [oh] is let me see. What would you classify? Like a--
Muted red or brown. Is that what's on your lids? Yeah [red brown] which one should I do?
Wooow. Okay
So pretty!
I'm interested-- Oh there is a fly in here. This one's interesting. Let me swatch that. It looks like that,
Ooooh
So pretty, you show them, so
Can y'all see that though? You could put on your wrist. Oh it's really lilac-y. Yeah, pretty.
I don't want lilac on my lid though. What are you doing? I am doing a very pinky situation. Wow!
Which color is it, is it that one?
It's this one, so
Yes, very peach. Cute
Okay, I think right. I just wanted to try something new today too
because I'm always with the gold and the browns and like let's go pink today or peach
So this question comes from Amy, she asks, "what do all three of you girls have in common?" We're Asian
[haha], we all do YouTube,
We have a boyfriend, we have dogs, I like the fact that we're all good listeners.
[alright]. When I speak to you guys, I really feel like you guys
We always wonder why and it means a lot because I feel like there's a lot of people especially like in LA where
We're in this industry where people just want to talk about themselves, and that's fine. You know people have an agenda
But, with like you guys like I really feel when I say something you guys generally ask like
We're like really nosy about each other. Yeah, you know
We're just very involved in each other's lives, and [I] love that and uh I don't know anything
[I've] always excited to hear updates from you guys, I'm always [calling] up about stuff. You know
It's really nice to have friendships like that that [people] ask beyond just surface level questions. Yeah we get like deep
Like so how did that happen, when did it happen, why did it happen?
Who did it? [haha]
That's so true! We're the type where once we tell a story and it's too short. We're like "And?..."
I need some more. Yeah I need some more context. Laura Mao asks; "If you could swap boyfriends for a day,
whose would you choose [ah]?
It's funny that you [asked] that because we were thinking, we're stirring some stuff in the pot for a video idea
And the boyfriends will be involved. Yes. That's not going to say about that
Hint. Hint. That's it. But that's a funny question.
I think [it's] to be taken very lightly as well right I would say because you know I see Wah all the time
Oh actually even though I see Wah all the time. There's so much to get to know
about him [yeah], [sure] Mhm. That's true. But also Benny too- I don't know who I would choose!
I feel like okay even though I see Wah all the time, I feel like I'd pick Wah 'cause he's like
Mystery, not that I don't know [him] not not that, you know
You know we're not close or he doesn't open up to me, but there's still so much
Oh I'm sorry. Woah!! My eyelashes glue! Oh my god. Oh, um
Okay, we're okay. Oh god. I think those are [mumbled]. You're not supposed to do it that way!
You're supposed to like-- I got too close! Oh, I don't know you're a lost cause those are all over
Yeah, I guess I choose Wah first. What about you guys I would choose Benny
Wow
I would pick Benny first yeah because
Well, one, I want to get used to Benny's accent so can I understand him. Oh my god that's so funny, because
We struggle!
It's so cute. No, you and Wah both [struggle, we struggle so hard you just--
He tells a story and you're like-- and I could see both of [your] guys faces
And it's just like-- He talks fast too. The first month of me dating him, I especially on the phone,
I had to make him repeat everything at least three times.
I'd be like; "I'm sorry, can you say that again? I'm sorry, can you just like announciate a little bit better? I-- I'm sorry can you--"
Can you-- Come again? Come again? I'm finally-- I'm very proud
I'm finally starting to pick up on the way Benny speaks [and] like his choice of words
So I'm getting a lot better
And it gets me even more excited to talk to him more just because in the beginning I [felt] so embarrassed
I'm like oh gosh, like I keep making him repeat himself
There's one time where we were in a bar, and it was loud already, look and like Benny's like telling me something
I forgot what he was saying but I'm like; I'm sorry? And then he repeats it I'm like; Huh? [and] [then] he repeats it again. I'm like;
Uhhh I'm sorry Benny
I can't. Okay, like just one more time. No but he really doesn't mind
I know. I feel so bad. I'm like stressed-- What Ben? Ben-- Benny what?
I'm just like straight up
Then he will repeat himself, he's like the type to repeat himself a hundred times and be like "keep going." "Keep doing it!" Yeah I know!
He's like "never give up." I know and I 'm so glad he doesn't feel offended.
I guess I would say Wah because-- Not that I don't like-- Honestly my first, my first thing is like
Yeah
I would I want to hang with Silas. Hanging out with Wah would be very interesting. I know right,
We probably eat a bunch of good food, spicy food,
And he still, I feel like you and Wah both understand, like San Gabriel Valley. Yes
I guess restaurant life more than I do, like I haven't really
Explored too much of that area food wise know it'd be cool. If Wah took me on like a food tour
Ok, I'm [gonna] [just] [do] a fun easy carefree one. What's your favorite dessert?
I'll let you go first cause I know desserts are your jam. I-- Can I guess for you? I know you're gonna say ice cream,
But I think you really love Korean sponge cake
I do! I do, I do! Which we had last night. Yeah, last night for Hannah's birthday!
Well, you guys know I'm not really a dessert person
Like, I don't really like dessert, but if I have to...
[Boba]
Oh, I never think that that's a dessert, but yes, thai tea or boba. Anything like that, I love that.
Yeah, you and Wah really love getting, like, drinks. Yeah, drinks uhuh. [Those] are definitely dessert. There's a lot of sugar. That's true
I always forget that drinks can be desserts too. I feel like the person who has the sweetest
Sweet tooth? Uhuh. The sweetest sweet tooth? The biggest sweet tooth!
The sweetest sweet tooth would be me. Really? Yeah, I don't really have a sweet tooth.
Really? Oh [right], you like spicy and savory.
I love-- Like I'll bake cookies, chocolate chip cookies and ice cream is my jam
[I] love [cake]-- Oh you like apple pie. I love apple pie
pastries
How do you keep your friendships equal with one another, because with multiple close friends some are closer than others, which creates drama.
That's a good one [if] you're in a really tight
Group there shouldn't be drama, there shouldn't be any jealousy like oh, you're hanging out with her more than me
You know [you] would because you genuinely love each other in the entire group. You just you'd be happy like oh my God
I'm so happy they're hanging out and like I can't wait to hang out with them and
Have them tell me what happened during their little date, you know? And it's never a competition. [maybe] right for me
I feel like I've introduced a
Lot of people and not that I'm like you know talking myself up and putting myself on a pedestal about that
but it's true, like Hannah for example, and you know I really wanted you guys to meet and
She was kind of like the core, that so-- because of Sophie and the friends she made, we all kind of came together
So she's like the core of our friendship
Yeah, I really wanted everyone in my group to meet each other and just to vibe off of each other like for me
I'm never territorial over that kind of stuff
It makes me super happy to like
See Weylie and Jenn hanging out, and to see like Hannah and Weylie and just vice versa, like-- Right. I just love seeing everyone having
Their own time and it's like if I love Weylie,
and [I] love Jenn like
Why wouldn't I want [them] to meet? Through age, I promise you it gets better, like you have other things to worry about than that
And yeah, that's so true like that. Yeah, I agree when I was younger. I struggled with-- 'Cause I was in
a friendship with all girls and yeah it can get catty at some times because it's just easy to get jealous if
People are hanging out without you, and my biggest fear was like are they hanging out and talking shit about me
That was my big fear when I was in high school
And that's kind of really ate me up inside and what I just did to stop that is well
I don't really talk crap about my friend so I shouldn't
think that they're doing that to me-- Yeah. Even entertaining the [thought] that they would have even be doing that to me. One last thing to add I
will say if you do get jealous
it's something rooted deeper than that situation like
You're struggling with insecurities. I feel like you're doubting yourself and your value and your
Just being down on yourself
So you got to think more deep than just I'm jealous like it's coming like what is it about you that you're [insecure]
You know like it all roots from there. "If there is one place
You three would like to visit or go on holiday where would it be and why?" It would be cool if we all went to
Hong Kong
[really?] I saw your vlogs
and it looks so cool. I've always wanted to go to Hong Kong.That's funny because
My response is going to be Korea because both of you are Korean, and I feel like well
I want to visit like the villages, because whenever she goes to Korea and her family is in the village, I would love to go to
The village [yeah], that would be so fun like an Asia tour
trip.
Spray
Mmm smells like rose. Mhmm.
Okay. Oh!
All right guys. Thank you guys so much for watching this video
I hope you guys enjoyed it and don't forget to check out Sophie's video where we did that desert lookbook video
It was fire, so please check it out. And also, Jenn's channel because we did a truth or dare challenge which was hilarious
So funny-- And I didn't think we were actually going to do those dares in
public. I thought we were to do [it] in Jenn's place, but no we went the extra mile, did it outside
So make sure you guys check it out on Jenn's channel and leave in the comments down below
What video you want to see us collab on next and I'll see you guys in the next video. Bye
Bye!!! Bye!!