- When you don't chase women, they chase you.
So some men probably say that they don't chase women.
Now, is that true?
And what to do if he does not pursue.
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In this video, I will share with you three types
of men who say they don't chase women and how to behave
with them in order to get them to pursue you.
The first type is he teases, but he doesn't tease
just a little, he teases for a long time,
hoping that eventually your patience will expire
and you will jump on him first.
Now, obviously when you do just that, he says he's not ready
for a relationship, he has commitment issues
or his ex broke his heart or any other kind
of excuse he can think of, but how do you deal with this guy
if you're actually really into him, but he's just taking
his sweet, long time to pursue you?
Ladies, you let him take his sweet time.
He asks you out, you meet up.
He playfully flirts, you respond.
Ladies, if it takes him five months to hold your hand,
you still let him take the lead and do it first.
Basically ladies, your goal here is not to jump on him
and be patient.
So what would I recommend here?
Let him lead you even if it takes forever
and keep your options open in the mean time
so you're not waiting around
and just enjoying the friendship in the meantime.
The positive thing here is patience usually gets rewarded,
and after a while if you do not chase and if he decides
that you're right for him, get ready for him
to pursue your properly and take the lead, and ladies,
some of my clients actually have really incredible
relationships with this type of non-chasers.
The second type is who blindly says I do not chase women.
Ladies, the truth is men say that to girls to freak them out
and a lot of us fall into this trap or oh, he doesn't chase,
so I will have to text him first 'cause if he says
that he doesn't chase and I will not text him,
he will never text me.
Ladies, that's just manipulation.
If he is into you and he says he doesn't chase,
he will pursue if you will not fall for this trap.
Yes, it will take him longer as he will probably play
every game on Earth before sending you that message,
but if he likes you and you are not chasing,
he will come around.
Again ladies, just stay patient.
Now, is he worth it?
If you have a lot of time on your hands for his provocative
games in order to get you to chase him and can ignore it all
before he eventually comes around and pursues,
then yeah, sure, but if you're not into drama
and have more important things to do in life than that,
ladies, then he is really not worth it.
Please watch my video why guys love playing games on women
which you can find just by following the link right here
and I will also drop it down in my video description box.
The third type is the insecure guy.
A guy is too scared to chase or invest so he chases a bit
or invests a bit and then complains a lot.
Why do you not pursue or why do you not give
or why am I the one always texting?
These types usually go for available women.
The ones that are easy to get, the ones that are needy
and pursue men, however, we don't stay with them for long
as obviously these women don't fulfill men's love needs.
Ladies, watch my video high value women secrets where I talk
a lot about the differences between men and women.
It's actually my latest YouTube live and I will link
that video right here and I will also drop it down
in the description box.
So what do you do if you like this type of guy?
If you are behaving high value, he will always come back
your way as no matter how much he doesn't want to chase,
you will be on his mind as the one that he could not have,
and it's only natural for a man to be attracted to that.
However, when he will come back, it's very likely
that what he offers again will just not be up
to your standard, as again, these guys are just too insecure
to pursue or invest.
So very likely you will reject and he will date the easy,
available, and needy woman until he gets bored
and gets back to your case again.
Ladies, it's like a vicious cycle that doesn't end,
but could there be potential for this?
Sure, sometimes if he eventually steps it up,
but again, do you have time for this?
So now you know what to do if a guy says
that he doesn't pursue, but do you know how
to keep him interested when he does start to pursue you?
And for this I have a video of it.
It's called how to keep a man in love with you
which I will link right here and down in the description box
below, and if you have any stories that you are happy
to share where a guy says he doesn't chase
but started chasing you like crazy, please post them
in the comments below.
It would be awesome to read.
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