Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to make a girl think about you
over text. These tips are crazy effective. I think
what's going to surprise you the most is how easy they are. The truth is, texting
women can be really intimidating and you can feel really awkward, but when you
know the right tips, attracting her and getting her to think about you all the
time is really easy. If this is your first time we're watching be sure to
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My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. My specialty is
helping really good guys get the girl of your dreams
so subscribe, ring that bell and give me a big thumbs up. I recently did this
video, which is How to Make a Girl Think About You All The Time, and this video,
which is This is What Makes Women Think About You All The Time. And you guys
liked them so much and found them so helpful that I wanted to make another
one for you today. Now if you haven't seen any of those videos you really need
to because they have some incredible tips in them. There are some links in the
description below. Now this video has to do with texting. I've been getting a lot
of questions about texting right now and a lot of us are relying heavily on
texting when it comes do relationships. And as I mentioned before this can be
crazy effective. I have kind of a quick story to help illustrate this. The other
day I was on Instagram and I was doing what you do on Instagram and I was just
kind of scrolling, right? Have you been there? Have you done that?
And as I was doing this, in the back of my mind somewhere it kind of registered
that I was seeing a new ad that I had never seen before, but I just kept
scrolling. And, you know, a day later same thing happened. Something very similar
happened the next day as well. And about the fourth or fifth time I saw this ad
it finally clicked and I was like "Wait. What is this?" And so I watched,
it was a video ad, I watched the first few seconds and I was like "Huh,
that's interesting." Kept scrolling. So then the next time I saw it I clicked on
it. "Okay, what is this?" And I was like "Where has this been my whole life? I need
this right now. Shut up and take my money!" Have any of you ever done this? I want to
hear from you in the comments if you have.
Just type "LOL!" and I'll know what you mean. But have you ever done that? Oh my
goodness it is so easy to do. What in the world does that have to do with
relationships? Well, there's so much information coming at us so quickly in
today's world and if we don't stay on someone's mind, we're off their mind. Now,
obviously, there are some huge differences between an ad on Instagram
and texting a girl. You don't want to pester her until she notices you by any
means. That is a terrible approach and that is not what I'm recommending. What
my point is, is that if you want her to think about you all the time you need to
be proactive about that and you need to stay on her mind. One of the biggest
things that women want, this is how God made us, this is in our chemical makeup,
guys, this is how we were made, is that she wants to be pursued. That takes the
attraction level up dramatically. Like seriously, guys, night and day difference.
And so if you want her to think about you a lot then you need to be staying on her
mind. One of the best and easiest ways to do this is through text. This is one of
the easiest and less scary ways to flirt and to pursue. Now sometimes that can be
scary especially if you haven't felt like you've had really good success
texting girls in the past. I have a friend and she was telling me that she
had just kind of met this guy. I mean they hadn't really met, they had some
mutual friends who set them up so they started texting. They had never seen each
other in person, never talked in person, they just started texting each other. And
what she told me is as they were texting and as they were getting to know each
other that she started to crush so hard on
this guy. She's never even met him but she was all twitterpated and
thought he was the coolest person ever. And you know what? She was thinking about
him all day long. And she mentioned how he had been texting her and that in the
past when she had texted certain guys and been texting with them there
was no spark whatsoever and no interest and it was just kind of awkward and died.
Now being who I am, I am a coach, and so I started analyzing
the difference between the texts. Obviously with her permission and
everything. What I quickly realized is that the guys she had been texting in the
past, although very well-meaning, there was no attraction because they didn't
know how to create that attraction. They didn't know the right tips to use when
texting a girl to really attract her and get her to think about him all the time.
Whereas this new guy, he was a boss at texting. He knew the tips and he knew how
to attract her. Consequently, she was crushing on him hard and thinking about
him all the time. Now, this always makes me hurt inside
really bad. I always hurt so bad for the guys who don't know how to text. They
don't know how to attract her. They are trying so hard but they don't know the
tips. And seriously, this is why I decided to become a coach, is because it's so so
simple and so easy when you know the right tips. When you don't know the right
tips it tanks terribly. So, we're gonna go over some of
the tips today that will help you attract her like crazy and get her
thinking about you all the time. So, how to make her think about you over text
tip number one is to make her laugh. You can text her funny memes, you can kind of
tease with her a little bit, joke with her a little bit, you can send her funny
videos you find on the internet, or tell her a funny story about something that
happened. Anything that will make her laugh is totally winning points. As
women we are, again, it's in our chemical makeup, we are attracted to men who make
us laugh. This is one of the traits women look for most in a man, is a man who has
a good sense of humor and makes her laugh. And it makes sense. When we make
someone laugh we're feeling all kinds of good feelings, right? And we want to be
around people who make us feel good. So making her laugh is definitely a good
goal to shoot for. When you are trying to decide what to text a girl just sit down
and come up with some ideas of something you could do to make her laugh. If there
is a funny thing that has happened to you throughout the day
then take the opportunity to text her and let her know about that funny thing.
P.S. If you haven't yet seen this video on texting be sure to check it out. There's
a link in the description below. It will help you a ton too. Tip number two is to
remember and notice when big things are happening in her life. Let's say she
has like a big business meeting, or maybe she's going to an
exciting concert she's been looking forward to, maybe her nieces and nephews
are going to put on some kind of production and she's going to watch that,
maybe a new TV series she's really excited about is launching. Whatever it
is, pay attention to those little things that are going on in her life. Set an
alarm in your phone the day before this is supposed to
happen and text her and say "Hey! Good luck on that meeting tomorrow. I know
you're going to rock it!" Or even text her that morning. Or "Hey! I noticed that this
series is going live tomorrow. Are you super excited?" The little things are
really what matters to women. The little things are what attracts her and what
honestly makes her fall in love with a guy. If she feels like you noticed those
little things, she feels like you really care about her and who she is as a
person. Her needs and desires and wants and feelings matter. That right there is
going to raise the attraction like crazy. And honestly, if you can raise the
attraction, you can get her to think about you all the time. Tip number three
is to compliment her. One of the easiest ways to attract a woman and make her
feel amazing and think about you all the time
is to compliment her. As humans we all wants to be complimented, right? It makes
us feel amazing. I can't stress it enough, compliments are crazy effective. So look
for opportunities to just fit in a compliment. Now you don't overdo them. "Oh
my goodness you are so amazing! Oh my goodness blah blah blah!"
Then she just kind of feels smothered and it's just not a good
thing. But fit in compliments when you can. And if you can do them in kind of a
teasy way then makes it even more effective. I did a
whole video on how to flirt with girls over text, looks like this, be sure to
check that one out for more tips on flirting over text. Tip number four you
may have heard me mention before, but guys, it is so crazy effective I had to
add it in this video too. It is, when you send her a good night and a good
morning text. This means, if it's a good morning text, your the first thing on her
mind, and a good night text, you are the last thing on her mind. This is crazy
effective. It makes her feel connected to you and it shows her that you're
thinking about her and that you're sensitive. This is so so effective. So
consider, especially if you know her a little bit better, you don't want to
overdo this if you haven't been texting her for a long time, but if you have
known her for a while, yes, consider using good night and/or good morning texts. And
tip number five is perfect for staying on her mind throughout the day, and that
is to occasionally send her pictures something going on in your day and/or
pictures with you in them. That is a really good way to stay on her mind.
It helps her feel close to you, especially if it's not like something "Hey! I just
posted this on Instagram and thought I'd send it to you too." If it's a picture
that you took specifically to send to her, that is huge and it helps her feel
special to you and she gets to look at you which you know is a huge
bonus. Obviously not every picture has to be of you or have you in it, but just
taking pictures throughout your day, occasionally, you don't want to overdo it,
and sending them to her, that is a really good way to stay on her mind all the
time. And there you have it. Those are pretty
easy tips, right? They take a little bit of practice, but once you do it a few
times it becomes a piece of cake. The truth is, being attractive to women, once
you know how to do it, is really really easy. Be sure to check out my online
course How to Get a Girlfriend where I walk you through everything you need to
know to be incredibly attractive to the type of woman you are crushing on and
you want to get to notice you. You will know how to always stay out of the
friendzone and instead have the girlfriend of your
dreams. I also have a ton of free bonuses and an exclusive deal for you that I
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amazing friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
Put an alarm in your phone the day that
that's supposed to happen or the day before and text her about it and say "Oh
my goodness! I know that this is happening!" Um... [pause] Yes it is. That was definitely
happening right there.
It helps me, it helps your friend, and it helps you. You
can keep each other accountable and help each other... A lot. [laughter]
I can't remember what I was going to say.
Also be sure to shout this out on social media and share it with a friend [messed up] Hey!
Okay, I'm doing it again.
Also be sure to shout this- [laughter] I'm never gonna get through
this. Just share. Please? That would be great. [laughter]