Give and take.
Don't always assume that you're right
even if you are.
We have just—about 25 days ago, we have just finished our ruby.
Fortieth wedding anniversary.
So we've been married for forty years now.
It's the trust that you give on each other.
- Give and take. - And give and take.
- Communication, I think— - Is more important, yes.
Yeah, you should talk to each other.
Listening.
Simple as that.
I suppose if I'm really honest,
it's to be able to—
Do what you personally want to do,
not having to say "Can I go somewhere,"
not having to say "sorry" if you go out and come back late,
and complete and utter trust, and that's on both sides.
—agree to your partner's wishes
without actually appearing to do so.
I think you need to express your views with your partner,
but again, be aware of their views
and try and meet a compromise in life.
A lot of people incline to want someone perfect, but we're not perfect.
Oh dear.
I guess long-term love,
the only loves that I've really known that have been long term
are for family and pets.
You get back more than you give.
Would you say someone else wore the trousers?
Not particularly,
but I suppose the bottom line is yes.