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Surprising Secrets Of An INFJ Personality Type. Make sure to watch each one and find out if you
have any of them!
If you were assessed by the Myers–Briggs Type Indicator as an INFJ (Advocate/Counselor)
Personality Type, you are a super unique individual who is known for their stereotypical
mysteriousness and intelligence. However, you might not be aware of the most surprising
secrets of your personality. If you think you are an INFJ, dive deeper into your personality,
learn what are your secrets and determine how you can use them to increase your soft
skills and achieve personal growth. Here are 9 Surprising Secrets Of An INFJ Personality Type.
Number 1 - They can see through people
Being an INFJ means being able to read people quickly and accurately,
determining their emotional states and intentions in a matter of seconds. Others, on the other hand,
do not appear to "get" Advocates as easily as they do. INFJs frequently wish that others understood
them as well as they understand others. INFJs have a keen awareness of others, but they don't only
recall their coworker's birthday or how they drink their coffee. In fact, being big-picture thinkers,
even the most diligent INFJ may miss these minor subtleties. People of the INFJ personality type
rely on their intuition to get to the bottom of things. They delve into other people's minds to
discover what makes them tick. Even when they are lying to themselves, they are often aware of it.
INFJs aren't aware of how much they know about other people, and they're unlikely to share how
extensive their knowledge is.
Number 2 - They absorb other people’s emotions It's not uncommon for INFJs to absorb the emotions
of others. They don't merely sense other people's emotions; they can occasionally feel them in their
own limbs. No other personality type does this as well as the INFJ. Strangers' emotions have
been reported to be absorbed by certain INFJs. An Advocate may feel grumpy for no apparent reason,
only to look around the room and notice a grumpy-looking individual has just entered.
The more emotionally close a person is to the INFJ, such as a spouse or best friend,
the more probable the INFJ will absorb that person's mental condition. It might
be exhausting to be aware of not only your own but also other people's emotions. However, the INFJ's
skill can be employed to help others heal and feel better. “The ability to unconsciously absorb other
people’s emotions with very little information to go on — how is that not a superpower?” says
personality expert Antonia Dodge.
Number 3 – They’re usually on the extremes in their attitude
It's unusual to see this personality type in the middle. They're either working nonstop
or disregarding all duties and procrastinating ferociously. They are deeply in love, or they're
completely over it, they are eating properly and exercising regularly or bingeing on food for days.
Sure, there is a slight transition stage between the two extremes,
but INFJs don't balance the good and evil; they pick one and run with it for a long time until
they feel prepared to change back to the other side of the spectrum. Advocates do something
passionately or not at all; they usually don't feel at ease in the middle lane.
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Number 4 - They have an empathy on the next level
While all personality types are capable of empathizing with another's feelings, INFJs
take empathy to new levels. They not only notice and sense other people's emotions, but they also
experience them in their own bodies. Advocates going about their daily lives are supposed to
experience unexpected mood swings, only to turn around and discover someone else feeling the
same way. The closer a person is to an INFJ, the more probable they are to sense the INFJ's mental
condition. While this can be a challenge for the INFJ personality type, it also provides them
considerable strength in consoling others because they have firsthand knowledge of others' pain.
Number 5 - They avoid conflict as much as they can
The drive to maintain harmony among their friends could have a negative side for INFJs, even though
it is beneficial to others around them. When confronted with a dispute, INFJs will experience
tremendous sorrow and distress. Advocates who are sensitive and emotional, will have restless nights
and difficulties focusing as their minds remain engrossed in the subject at hand.
INFJs may endure migraines, upset stomachs, muscle soreness, and other physical symptoms as a result
of their stress. As a result, many people with this personality type will avoid conflict at all
costs, even though this isn't the healthiest way to deal with antagonism or stress. It is
recommended that INFJs learn to advocate for themselves and create boundaries when necessary.
Number 6 – They tend to give too much in their romantic relationships
INFJs' profound sense of care and sensitivity to others' feelings doesn't always work out
to their advantage, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. Because
of their proclivity to prioritize others over themselves, they frequently neglect their own
wants and needs. This won't be an issue at first because Advocates prefer not to take center stage
and are content to watch others thrive. This same selflessness, however, renders them particularly
vulnerable to those who are willing to take advantage of them. INFJs may find themselves in
relationships where they put themselves on the line to listen to their partners on a regular
basis, but when the script is switched, they are left high and dry as their problems go unsolved.
Alternatively, the INFJ may find themselves in a relationship that they don't enjoy as much
as their spouse, yet will persist with it to avoid upsetting their partner. INFJs will be emotionally
tired by these relationships, which rarely have a happy ending, making it all the more
crucial for them to find a partner with whom they can have a balanced connection.
Number 7 - They are highly introverted, but people fascinate them
INFJs are introverts, but they also have a secret love for people, which
is a surprising contrast to their core beliefs. The average INFJ is secretive and reclusive,
but they are also captivated by people, and they may enjoy people-watching in
order to better understand others and, in certain situations, act appropriately.
Number 8 - They have an extraordinary intuition The ability to perceive hidden motives is one
of the lesser-known properties of Introverted Intuition. INFJs are quick to pick up on other
people's intentions and underlying aims since they are Ni-dominant. “…Their Ni provides a deeper
sense or impression of people, penetrating appearances and revealing hidden motives
and intentions.” Dr. A.J. Drenth. Complexity attracts INFJs, and they rarely take anything
at face value. As a result, they are naturally interested in other people's underlying motives
and purposes, and they are constantly attempting to "peel away the layers" of someone's personality
type in order to discover their essential purpose, goals, and truths. While INFJs are aware
of others' exterior personas and surface-level interactions, they are more interested in what
goes on behind the scenes. They are constantly attempting to decipher the hidden meanings behind
what people say and do. The strength of intuition, combined with Extraverted Feeling (Fe), the INFJ's
auxiliary function, provides INFJs a unique knowledge of another person's emotional health
or mood. They typically have a sense of how other people are feeling, even if they are attempting
to hide their feelings. They have a proclivity for absorbing other people's feelings, which can
be perplexing at times. It's simple for them to mix up other people's feelings with their own.
Number 9 - They would rather fight for someone than for themselves
The final INFJ secret contradicts their MBTI nickname of "the Advocate," because while they are
excellent at advocating for others, they cannot (or will not) do so for themselves. While they
may stand for justice in the most incredible ways (think about Nelson Mandela who is a
great representative of the Advocates), INFJs may forget to take care of themselves with the
same passion and fervor. This is one of the most surprising secrets of an INFJ personality Type.
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